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it's not about what people think of you. it's what you think of other people. if people are cold to you, you will return this to them. but if they take you in and are caring, you will return the favor.

but please try to do this now. it is for his own good and also for the good of everyone on this website, and when you think about it, everyone in the world. who knows....you may even meet him someday. And wouldn't you want him to be a kind person? Or you may meet someone that he was recently mean to, and they might be mean to you out of frustration or anger. Everything in the world is connected.

somehow i don't think this is why. people will be their real selves when they are in a place of anonymity. even the pictures you have chosen for your avatar and signature show a type of coldness and despair to them. they can say something about your personality in general.

because others have not cared for you.

It seems as those I've found another besides John who only needs caring friends to become a caring person.

Will everyone please agree to this?

no offense, but i doubt you acted all warm and fuzzy to john. really, no one would. but i would try to be extremely nice unconditionally to John the next few times he comes in the lounge; make him feel welcome. some people lash out at others as a means of getting attention and making friends because they feel they have no other options. maybe if he knows that their is a supportive coldplaying community here, he will no longer spam us.

i think so. but i think we should all forgive john as ivet as forgiven me.

i was joking around and called her a redneck. and then she said that she was a latina. so i made a joke about her being an illegal immigrant.

I ran to the border....oohhhhh......

I just think we should lighten up on him a little bit and go out of our ways to be nice to him and try to understand him.

For anyone who does not know, John is the guy who is nick_get_on_aim, hipehom, and abcdef3.

I learned that even spammers and people who are sometimes mean-spirited can have good intentions. I was trying to make jokes to Ivet, but I ended up hurting her feelings. I bet that for most spammers on this board it is like that. They have good intentions; they may be trying to make people laugh, brighten up peoples day, or just bring a little sarcasm and random humor to a message board. I don't think any of the spammers I've seen on here (including John) are really mean on the inside. Well we're on the subject of him, I think that if we all reach out to John and don't treat him like trash, he will no longer bother us; instead, he will be there to brighten up our day and will become a member of the Coldplaying community. I know that that is what happened to me. So next time you talk with John, try to be extra friendly. Paul

i don't know i just got out of control. i'm sorry. :(

i called her an illegal immigrant redneck :(

can someone please post on her profile? :(

everyone please tell her to not ignore me :(

she ignored my apologies i already sent to her :(

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This song goes out to Ivet: Well when you go Don't ever think I'll make you try to stay And maybe when you get back I'll be off to find another way When after all this time that you still owe You're still, the good-for-nothing I don't know So take your gloves and get out Better get out While you can When you go Would you even turn to say "I don't love you Like I did Yesterday" Sometimes I cry so hard from pleading So sick and tired of all the needless beating But baby when they knock you Down and out It's where you oughta stay And after all the blood that you still owe Another dollar's just another blow So fix your eyes and get up Better get up While you can Whoa, whooa When you go Would you even turn to say "I don't love you Like I did Yesterday" Well come on, come on When you go Would you have the guts to say "I don't love you Like I loved you Yesterday" I don't love you Like I loved you Yesterday I don't love you Like I loved you Yesterday

it's not over till the fat lady sings. that being said, this can be ended with a few notes from ivet.

are you finished blowing that bubble?

i don't like illegal immigrants.

i no ur not an illegal immigrant. ur fine.

for what?