Hi
I feel like a bit of an intruder on this site as I must admit, I am not too familiar with Coldplay or their music. However, I was a friend of Jenny J (or Nettie as she seems to be known on here). I too was extremely shocked and moved when I heard news of Jenny's passing. I used to work with her in the mid 90s and through changing jobs, we did lose touch, but I thought about her all the time, and bumped into her every now and then at her place of work . As a lot of you have discovered, Jen was a huge personality who was always bubbly and laughing and fiercely passionate about anything she believed in.
I received a telephone call regarding Jen's accident a day or two after the event and was unable to attend her send off, which I really wanted to do. I experienced some difficulty in accepting the fate that had befallen Jenny, someone I spent day in and day out with for a number of years, so as a way of trying to find some kind of closure with her, I happened across this forum and others, where it seemed Jen touched A LOT of people through her kindness, passion and love of music. I had absolutely NO IDEA Coldplay, Kasabian, James Morrison, etc were Jenny's music of choice as I knew her in a different time. I've even walked passed that huge picture of her at the O2 when I've attended events, not ever realising it was her! I remember going in July and saw a few bunches of flowers at the bottom of picture, but as her full name wasn't noted, I didn't click. But I'm glad she seems to have found a place where she was comfortable and made and met so, so many good friends through her love of music and gigging. It seems she was a bit of a fan legend! Even though I hadn't been in touch with Jenny for some time, I will always miss her and my heart and thoughts go out to her husband, family and friends for their sad loss. RIP Jenny.