my friend is pessimistic to the max... i hate it... i used to be pessimistic, but now i'm optimistic!!! :P

Wonderful to hear, keep up the good work. :)

you the man eric ;)

the best you can is good enough...... i always say

and your best, is pretty damn good :)

oh, you have yet to see my best mwahahaa

The silence before the storm, you are a very great guy Eric. :) *thumbs up*

I guess I am a bit of both...i see the positive and negative sides of things and i decide from there...it's not autimatically either side

oh' date=' you have yet to see my best mwahahaa[/quote']

 

 

*anxiously awaits* ;)

this is the friend i was trying to get advice from you for christi... i haven't been in his place. i've noticed every time i'm in a relationship or talking to someone i always feel extra optimmistic.... since he's never been in that position apparently it's hard for him.....

i suppose so, he just needs something to rock his world so he can see that life can be good.

maybe so, i wish i could rock his world...................................

i mean................................... uhhhhhhhhh i mean... i wish he could see how happy i can be just hangin out wit ppl

:lol: Man I'm gonna be laughing for a long time now. :lol: That was hilarious.

what the hell does he do with his time? has he been traumatized or something? he is one of those that almost needs to be forced into something with no choice but to deal with it. kind of like immersion therapy.

he has actually seen a therapist or something... and they gave him drugs and methods, but he said it didn't do anything...... i don't understand..... i think it's something i'm sad to say he's just got to deal with it himself.

you can only do so much. i had a friend i went through school with that was like that. she was sort of overweight and had really bad self-esteem, then she would drink too much and say she hated me then go home with a strange guy, have sex and feel even worse about herself. i had to give up on her to keep my own sanity. which was really hard and i felt guilty about for a really long time.

Its not your fault, we all make our own choices in life and our responsible for our own actions. :)

yea.... i don't exactly feel guilty about it.... i'm trying the best i can basically... sometimes there's nothing you can do.... you shouldn't feel guilty. but i do feel bad for him

pessimistic all the way :D

Hey Eric, you're the best we can!!!so...you must be optimistic! ;) does this make sense? :P