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^ it looks like you've already found it!! :lol:

oh, that's so thoughtful of you, really. I know loads of girls who would be "annoying" their boyfriends asking them where they are and what they're doing etc too often. But this means that you do trust him. He should be happy of this!

I'm sure you're gonna love that film!! And its soundtrack is all made with The Beatles songs! :D Now it makes sense! I mean I find it logical that you prefer dark-eyed guys.

There are so many members online tonight that it's quite unbelievable!!

oi. When checking this thread and looking at the pictures you've posted I thought: I've seen this guy somewhere else before though I don't remember at the moment but then you said it Across the Universe!! aah, I loved his character on it. He was so lovely! Unbelievable :stunned: In my country almost all the guys are brown - eyed. So for me, it's not an "attractive" trait in guys. I prefer them to be blue / green - eyed!!

yes, it is actually a bit weird. :thinking: Maybe he is the independent - type? I mean that kind of person who doesn't need the others that much to feel full, that he's able to do most of things on his own.

oh, that's what happened to me too and made me feel angry at myself! Silly me, I used to think. so, at least the time that you spend with him, do you feel loved ?

Oh so you lost the interest in your previous bf...that's sad considering that he cared so much about you, though it happens at times! Maybe I could say, give to this "issue" time and let's see what happens, if he changes or if you have to do something about it!

oh, so you had other boyfriends who didn't behave as such? Okay, I see you're really sure about it! Well, it also depends on you. Feelings can change and you might fall for someone else. Anyway, you should talk to him about it, it's the only way to solve troubles, precisely speaking about them.

Oh I see, so is there a before and an after in your relationship? I mean if at first he was more thoughtful of you and more affective and lately he seems to have forgotten a bit of caring your relationship...? By the way, my bf was my first one (and for some reasons I've got the feeling that this is your first one too) and when you've less experience you don't really know what to expect or how to act in such situations. I'd do what your friend told you - the first option -, but as I said, I'd do it when I'm ready and sure of it. ;)

oh, Magda, Im sorry to hear this! I so understand how you feel (in spite of having gone through something similar a long time ago). I didn't mean with what I said that you had to talk to him about these things that you're concerned about right now, just do it when the time comes, when you feel brave enough for it and if you feel like it, for sure. I did love my boyfriend but my relationship with him "deteriorated" for unknown reasons, and he started being so so cold with me. I just wanted to hug and kiss him but he didn't seem to want the same thing but still he went out with me. He wasn't like this before, of course, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to stand such situation. The thing is, that after several months of going out, he changed for bad. I was really happy with him before and I couldn't believe what was happening then, what the hell was wrong with him?! :angry: At first I thought that he'd change once again, that he'd be the same person I had known some months ago... but time went by and he still behaved that way. I wanted to fight for our relationship and I did everything I was able to, but it didn't seem to work until a point that an idea was seizing me: that I couldn't live that way any more because I was so damn unhappy. It took me several months to have the courage to talk to him about our relationship... but Im glad I finally did because actually it worked our problem out.

I completely agree with you. There's no point in prolonguing a relationship that makes you feel bad. Also, during the first months of ANY relantionship of this kind both girl and boy need their partner more than ever and they (usually) give it all to each other... after one year or even a bit more of having a bf things settle down and it is by then when it could happen what's going on to you... though, if it was my case, I'd leave him. And I know it's so easy to say: "well, if things don't work with him, then split up" but so hard to do. It's just something that requires time. Once, a long time ago, I was about to split up with my bf because he was giving me a hard time and just the day that I had planned to tell him "it's over", we had a serious chat and he changed straight away... It was all unbelievable. After a year (or more) of that day, I spoke to him and asked what happened, what made him change that way? And he told me that, he realised that it was the last straw and that if he hadn't changed, I'd have left him, for sure.

sí, en eso llevas toda la razón, pero mira, por los motivos que fuera la retiraron temporalmente. haha muchas gracias!! aqui ya es la 1am y debería irme a dormir también... yo tampoco tendré clases hasta la tarde. Supongo que ya encontrarás algo que hacer por la mañana. que vaya todo bien! buenas noches Ari :kiss:

ya, es un poco sorprendente. Supongo que pasó porque es MUY deprimente.

sí, yo también lei eso en la wikipedia!!! me obsesioné con la canción y entonces quise saber de que iba realmente y tal y busqué información!

Creep es preciosa pero tan deprimente... depende del dia en que la escucho no puedo evitar llorar, en especial los dias en que siento en que estoy a un lugar al cual no pertenezco, es decir, me siento fuera de lugar I don't belong here como dice Thom en la canción.

ya te entiendo, ya!! :) no te preocupes, Pablo Honey no es un gran álbum a decir verdad (aunque tiene su masterpiece Creep) pero si puedes bajarte In Rainbows te lo recomiendo!

es normal que estén obsesionados con Radiohead... sacaron su nuevo disco en Octubre y me lo bajé por entonces y es buenísimo, me encanta!!!! Además, piensa que ahora están de gira y todo eso y no es de extrañar que la gente hable más de ellos.. por cierto, si no te has bajado In Rainbows hazlooo!! y tienes razón, hay como 3 o 4 threads dedicados a Radiohead en la sección The world of music!!

por cierto, cuéntame un poco sobre tu experiencia erasmus... te está gustando? es lo que esperabas?

que lástima que los haya perdido pero debo decirte que los mios tambien han perdido algunos de sus Lps también, pero ahora los cuidan mucho!! que dices ahora, en serio? no lo había leido. Aunque no me gustara su nuevo álbum, no dejarán de estar ahi... estuve como un año MUY obsesionada por ellos, y eso no se olvida tan fácilmente.

haha, gracias, ojalá tengas razón! :nice: bueno, me parece que la música que escuchaba tu padre es la misma que la que escuchaban los mios, por ejemplo The Police como has dicho, Creedence, James Brown, James Taylor, The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, The Moody Blues, Dire Straits y todo esos... yo creo que es buena música! Supongo que nunca podré olvidar a coldplay yo tampoco, porque han significado mucho para mí y siempre permanecera algo en mi interior... es inevitable!!

el examen real es en junio pero cuesta unos 180 euros y ahora estamos haciendo un examen para que la profe nos recomiende (o no) de hacer el examen real... pero yo quiero que me recomiende porque soy una persona bastante insegura y si ella me dice: "mira, creo que estás preparada para hacerlo" me sentiré mucho mejor... wow. Pensaba que estabas obsesionada con Coldplay cuando te registraste en este foro. Yo lo estaba y muchísimo, hasta tal punto que no era bueno para mi en absoluto... por suerte ya lo he superado, pero me costó bastante, la verdad. aah, sí, yo tambien tengo mis clásicos de siempre!

vaya, que lástima que precisamente sea tu uni la que oferta menos lugares, pero bueno, que se le va a hacer ? ya, ya se que no debo ponerme nerviosa pero... no se, me siento mal por haber hecho un examen de este modo. no todo es placebo antes y despues hay otras cosas (basicamente rock)... mira que se me quitó en estos meses el no oirles, me siguen gustando, pero para no aborrecerlos escucho otras cosas me alegra que digas eso, en serio! Las obsesiones no son buenas en ningún aspecto, eso fue lo que este foro me enseñó básicamente, ya que estaba superobsesionada con Coldplay . De todos modos la música "comercial" ahora por ahora no me va...

pues muchísimos lugares. Des de UK, pasando por Alemania, Suecia, Francia, Italia, Rumania, Polonia, Portugal, Bélgica etc etc . estos son los que he solicitado (en orden de preferencia) 1. Aberdeen, escocia 2. Lund, suecia 3. Glasgow, escocia 4. Estocolmo, suecia 5. Gante, bélgica ojalá tengas razón con lo del CAE, ayer hice un examen en clase (un listening) y lo hize tan mal que me lo inventé todo y acabé contestando rollo "pito pito colorito" ya que no tenía ni idea!! (algunas de las preguntas tenias que escoger entre la opción A B C D) por cierto, sigues tan obsesionada de placebo como siempre? :P

gracias, de hecho no me costó demasiado. Ahora estoy haciendo el CAE y me vienen sudores de lo difícil que es... no tiene nada que ver con el FCE, me da mido suspender porque es un examen muy caro :( anda, no me lo puedo creer que solo te dieran esas opciones?! me parece increíble pero si yo hubiera estado en tu lugar hubiera escogido lo mismo seguramente!! Mira, yo tenía todas esas a elegir: http://www.giga.ub.edu/acad/ofex/oferta/iofer.php?id=0340500 o sea, muchaaas! :D no te preocupes acerca del video! (y a ti?? que quieres decir?)