Lory your logic is fallacious
I can ensure you that I am indeed a real person, and defining life as "the sum of the distinguishing phenomena of organisms, especially metabolism, growth, reproduction, and adaptation to environment" I am indeed distinguishable from inorganic matter.
I have a conscience, which is overseen by a series of electronic neural impulses being sent from my cognition to the tips of my fingers and toes.
That being said, this cognition, or method of thinking, allows me to have independent thoughts. It is what is allowing me to put energy into my fingers to type this lovely message to you.
Therefore, THIS IS REAL LIFE. We are simply rendezvousing from a distance as opposed to face-to-face. I have met a ton of realy great, admirable friends on this site. By declaring the internet (a very modern, humanly-constructed network) is "not real life," one would be trivializing the entire function of this site: A thing that I would argue that most of us are thankful for existing and bringing us together in such a fashion.
Anyway, on top of this, you contend that because you are a single person you are not real. This is why I'm confused regarding your logic. This is foreign to me. I can categorically say that most guys are looking for a lifelong commitment as well, and this line of thinking, that men aren't interested in you because you don't have the physique of a toothpick, is a logical fallacy. Thinking like this means you're isolating yourself: Saying it's an inherent fact that you will be alone forever. When you compound the problem by mentioning that you are a forever single anti-supermodel you isolate yourself farther from the reality that there ARE indeed good people out there.
So you, a self-imposed outcast, isolating yourself from friends and from romance, Who is not living real life: Us, or yourself?