marianatsl

haha i was about to ask if i could bring the vodka... but then i saw it was actually a serious thread... :dozey: i dont now if anyone would miss me, thats up to other ppl to answer... i dont think i bring anything very important to this place, i honestly dont... i might participate in meaningless threads, and in serious threads, but i dont know if thats enough... but i do think i have given some good relationship advice to some ppl around here, so maybe thats worth something... and i think ive actually mantained myself consistent with my posting here... since i felt confortable enough to participate in the threads ive always posted in name threads, games (though i only used to go to the game threads to try and meet some new ppl) and 'serious' threads, and i still do so now...

if i say i miss reilly will u all come after me while im sleeping?? :uhoh:

come to msn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P oh rick, if u werent being so hostile with me, maybe i'd also talk to u, and u would know what im going on about... simple, eh?!

im mentioned in a book how pwetty :nice: im random too... i just danced asked ppl to join my macarena :dance: i want to be the :dance: emtocion... is that wrong?

hello hello lovely ppl lets all make a party coz today is fridaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay :dance::dance::dance: everybodeh, lets do the macarena!! :dance: uh... who said that?? :anxious:

Mr Raaaaaay :nice: im all good... u? why arent u on msn: :thinking:

awwwwwwwwwww i loooove that pic of yours ray!!! sooooo pretty :nice:

^^ I'll try to talk to u tomorrow, though i'll be busy... but i'll call if we dont talk on msn...

I think adopting is really an amazing thing to do, as u are welcoming to your family a complete stranger and are willing to love him/her as your own child, but you have to be prepared to handle it. thats why I think hiding it form the child is not a very good option, no wonder your friend got mad lera. Today it isnt THAT difficult for a child to discover about the adoption, specially when they get a bit older. Unless they look A LOT like their adoptive parents the child will eventually find out (not to mention the bitch brothers and cousins who always let out a 'u are adopted' in the middle of a fight). I think you should prepare the child and make her understand since early age, that she is adopted, but that doesnt mean shes loved less or whatever. i have a friend who has 2 brothers, and the yourger one is adopted. they REALLY look like each other, so no one really tells he is adopted, but her mum, since the boy was 2, started preparing the child to accept the fact he was addopted, and it was with simple stuff like telling: "you have 2 mummys, the mummy where u came from and me, the mummy from the heart", stuff that a 2 year old can actually understand... they didnt keep contact with the mother, but they had all her info, pictures of her and when he was 12 (and well aware of the fact that he was adopted) they gave him the stuff, where it had pics from his brothers, his mother, the house she lived and etc, s that he could keep it with him in case he ever wanted to see her. i think he is 14 now, my friend tells he sometimes gets mad, and while that he throws a "ure not even my real mother/brother/sister/father", but instead of being all shocked and stuff they deal with, his mother goes to him and says: "well ok, so if im not your mother, get sick again, and see whos gonna take u to the doctor", but not in a mean tone, but more as a joke, so that he sees that it doesnt matter how much he tries to push them away, he really is family. i think thats how u should handle it, tell it from the begining, because if u wait too much, the child might feel betrayed and get all revolted against the family...

only u sucka... and i think ray also gets it... or maybe not :thinking:

probably i was supposed to go out today too... i even have my clothes here so i can change, but i dont think i will... im sooooooooooo tired!!

because theyve been buried deep deep down the pages... and reilly, the threadmaker hasnt been around here in a REALLY long time... and i dont really mind crappy threads, i only come here to relax and talk about non-serious stuff...

im sowy crystal we can only talk crap pwease dont go make cool new threads for us :kiss:

oooohhh... mexican food!! yummeeeeeh!! i love nachos, tacos and burritos!!! and margueritas and tequilaaa weeeeee :dance:

i just went barefoot to the frontdesk of the hotel... and there were guests!! :laugh4:

speaking of an orgy, look who appears here!!! sucka has an orgy sensor at her house :wink3:

annieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee lets dance again :dance::dance::dance:

what? me? uh? im sleepy ray, explain yourself... but... what about msn? :thinking:

i want to be the 1000!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :bigcry: kiddin... sucka was the 1000 th poster yeeeeiiiii :dance::dance:

well, it became that... it was 'NORMAL' thread before...

me's sleepy and scared of the fat old guy... :uhoh:

well, if there arent any bones sticking out of the flesh or the toe hasnt moved somewhere it shouldnt i think ure safe... :nice:

hewwo boy with the yellow eyes, how u 'doin :wink3: ??

remember the 'YOU ALL SUCK' thread??

wow!! u did a lot in this short break!! and u broke your toe??