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Yeah well, as much as my rational side tells me this, I can't help the feeling, you know? Hopefully it'll work our way one day.. we had almost as much trouble to meet the last time, except they finally changed their minds the day before my plane left I'm sorry :hug: Things don't always go our way, eh.

Wow, it was quite serious, then? It sucks that it didn't work out :/ ugh. you have no idea. you start wondering if you've done something that was so wrong that you deserved to feel this way and have this happen to you.

THIS. oh my god, THIS. I totally agree with you, and Ivet used this as an argument, but they do not give a damn. It's the least of their worry. 'you still live under my roof, you live by my rules!!'. She's moving out in three weeks for college, jesus..

Yeah well I'm not sure your parents really mean it when they say they are okay with it :/ I'm sorry it didn't work out, how long had you been with him? They know they're harming her so much, but for some reason, they think it's for the best, when anyone a little rational could see how much they are hurting her. You read what I posted on tumblr and what her dad said to her, didn't you? It's incredibly unfair and she doesn't deserve this. I wish more than anything to be with her right now. They thought we were just friends, although they have big doubts that there's more to it. But friends or lovers, it wouldn't change anything to their decision. I'll send you a PM.

^^ Right on, Reill-o. I mean, she could try, but she might be disowned/killed/doomed to live in her room for the next five years. Thanks Lore :hug: lots of love to you too. Strangely, Ivet and I are getting stronger and closer, even if we thought it wouldn't be possible, instead of falling apart because of this. This makes it a little better. But tomorrow is going to be a very hard day.

Yep, exactly. Her parents don't give a damn though, cause it's her fault after all that she was so selfish and bla bla. Yeah, it's a two hours drive.

She can't get a refund on her plane ticket, it's not a lie haha. And it doesn't change anything to her parents.

I'm not even saying half the things her dad said to her, because it's quite private. But I hate him too. If there's such a thing as hell, I hope he burns in it for a very long time.

dp. these do not need to be said twice.

Okay guys, the battle is over, she's not coming. I don't want to tell details, but her dad is threatening to kick her out cause she's lazy and good for nothing (for wanting to go on a trip that she worked for all summer and that she paid for). thanks for the support. but it's over. ugh

Thanks, but it's not looking good. Texting with Ivet as we speak, and her parents haven't changed their minds yet. Her dad is pretty upset right now.

They had agreed to her trip before though. And she has enough money to come here and be completely okay for college, we didn't plan this lightly. :/

I knew that he was gonna get banned permanently after the next warning!!!! omgeriojsegoiegwgregwfwf :wacky:

Thanks, Emma :hug: And yeah, I guess they realized last minute that such a trip wasn't free and started freaking out on her 'you need money for college!!!!' and we also think that it's because they guessed that we're a couple and disagree. She has enough money to come here without doing harm to her studies, though, but they won't hear anything. And yeah, Ivet's internet is broken until Monday. So not only won't she come here, but I won't get to videochat with her until Monday (we do it every day usually for a few hours). Bleh. Bleh. Bleh.

Wait I feel like I missed an important event. When was Mark banned?:cheesy:

I feel like this is a marathon and you guys are like running with me <3 Thank you for the support, people. It is so so so appreciated, it's just what I needed.

Thank you for the thought and all, but even then, we couldn't accept :hug: But thank you very much :kiss: :hug: Thank you, Celien :hug:. It is unlikely that it'll happen, but yeah. As I said, I'll keep you updated.

We'd do this, but her town is very small and the city is two hours away, and we checked already, there's no organized transportation :/ Please, thanks. :hug: Yeah well, they're not very rich themselves and chances that this happen are really unlikely. And well, 2 hours of taxi is a little too expensive :/ Anyway, here's an update: Ivet came up with an idea, another alternative to convince her parents, and it's pretty much our last resort, as her flight is leaving tomorrow. I'm not putting too much hope in this, though, her parents are too unpredictable. But I'll keep you updated tonight, as she will talk to them again tonight.

omgAlexa :hug: I told her this. But her dad is gonna kill her. You don't wanna mess with her dad, believe me. yeah ikr.

I don't think there's any way to fix it :/ yeah well her parents don't know we're a couple (although we think they have doubts). but yeah it's pretty hard. Ivet had bought her ticket (670 dollars gone...) and I had some concert tickets, including sufjan in nyc, which are too late to sell now. But that's just the money side, it just that longing of finally being with the one you love... and then having your hope and excitement completely crushed. Bleh This is a very emo thread. I'm sorry.

They did that the first time, when I was going over there. They said yes, I had bought my plane ticket, and then out of the blue, they changed their minds. They only changed their minds again the day before my plane left. And under the circumstances, they won't change their minds this time. It won't happen. thanks Reilly. The next time I would see her is this winter in about 5 months. Just watch me. Even if her parents say no, we'll work around it, I'll stay at her dorms or smth.

It went from 'You should go visit Marie this summer' (said by her mom when I was over there) to 'you're not fucking going anywhere' (said by her dad tonight). Edit: no, all of them are working or not that close to Ivet. It's a two hours drive.

Her parents do not give a fuck, nor do they care about her happiness, apparently. The only person who could drive her to the airport is her dad. And obviously, that's not happening.

Ivet, my girlfriend, who lives 1600 miles away from me, was supposed to come visit me this saturday. The plane ticket is bought, and the tickets to some shows were bought as well. Her parents won't let her go. No matter what. I haven't seen her since January 3rd. I was practically living for this moment. I can't breath anymore. I need some love and support.

Omg I can't wait, can't we just start it right now?