I had this idea for the thread yesterday.....so it's possible that this is quite similar to Reilly's "be yourself" thread...but anyways.....I said in the other thread that I mostly behave like I feel.........and I'm not faked.....but this is something else...somehow...I don't know how to explain it!

 

Sometimes I can't see the real me......sometimes I don't even know what the real me is....:sick:

 

It always depends on with whom I am....

 

When I have been to a party...the other morning I always think...."Damn.....you behaved so childish...this was actually not you!"

 

But then...when I am with my friends....and I have in many things a better genral knowledge than them....I think...."Damn....you always behave so adult...as if you knew everything..."....

 

argh.......this confuses me...I want to be someone who has a open view of the world.....who is funny...but still a respected and most important:Serious taken person!........this is what worries me....sometimes I think I'm not taken seriously...and other times I think I'm taken too seriously.....

shit.....

 

Maybe it has something to do with my friends....that they are actually not like me.....I can't discuss many things with them....because they have mostly other interests......and sometimes they are not as informed as me about some things.....

there are just a few people I can do that with.....

 

it's a pity......

yeah, same here sometimes. i change because of other people's influences and do things which i would never do alone. and my friends see it sometimes and say it's not you. but i think it's same with every of us. we always change, we can't be always ourselves

sometimes you'll act differently around different people... but if you start to notice who you act differently with you can work on acting like you want to with the people you're not acting like you want to. You have to figure out why you're acting a certain way and then try to change it if you want to change it.

Surely we can't be.....

My problem is just that I somehow can't find a way between being seriously and funny.....or maybe I did....and don't realised it!I actually don't know!

sometimes you'll act differently around different people... but if you start to notice who you act differently with you can work on acting like you want to with the people you're not acting like you want to. You have to figure out why you're acting a certain way and then try to change it if you want to change it.

 

I always say to myself...."Today you behave different"....but somehow I can't when I'm with those people....I just can't....that would be acting....because when I'm with them they seem to behave the same...but when I'm at home I think they didn#t behave the same...and they behaved more adult than me!:confused:

I can relate to you about the friends not knowing as much about whats going on in the world...one friend in particular. Sometimes I cannot believe she doesnt know some things...things that arent even in the news, just general things that you should know, growing up in the world. I hope that makes sense...as I cant think of a specific example at the moment, lol! (Ill try to remember one!)

I think I get what you mean...it is the same with most of my friends....actually they think it's funny that they are not that informed....

I always say to myself...."Today you behave different"....but somehow I can't when I'm with those people....I just can't....that would be acting....because when I'm with them they seem to behave the same...but when I'm at home I think they didn#t behave the same...and they behaved more adult than me!:confused:

no that's not what I mean... I don't mean just suddenly act different, try to figure out what you want to change and figure out how if it's possible... I kind of have this problem with my family and certain people... I don't want to talk to them ...... and a lot of people from high school who I used to be friends with... but I don't really think that's going to change... I think I just have to change little things... I can't just change all at once because I'm not that good :P

Actually I know what I want to change.....maybe I'll do it....I'll see...I hope i can...

what is it? ..

Puh.....actually good question....

that I behave like I want.....but not that childish...

identity crisis!!! :sick:

I had this idea for the thread yesterday.....so it's possible that this is quite similar to Reilly's "be yourself" thread...but anyways.....I said in the other thread that I mostly behave like I feel.........and I'm not faked.....but this is something else...somehow...I don't know how to explain it!

 

Sometimes I can't see the real me......sometimes I don't even know what the real me is....:sick:

 

It always depends on with whom I am....

 

When I have been to a party...the other morning I always think...."Damn.....you behaved so childish...this was actually not you!"

 

But then...when I am with my friends....and I have in many things a better genral knowledge than them....I think...."Damn....you always behave so adult...as if you knew everything..."....

 

argh.......this confuses me...I want to be someone who has a open view of the world.....who is funny...but still a respected and most important:Serious taken person!........this is what worries me....sometimes I think I'm not taken seriously...and other times I think I'm taken too seriously.....

shit.....

 

Maybe it has something to do with my friends....that they are actually not like me.....I can't discuss many things with them....because they have mostly other interests......and sometimes they are not as informed as me about some things.....

there are just a few people I can do that with.....

 

it's a pity......

 

 

maybe the people around you interfere with your behaviour... I mean, if you're with young people you're more relaxed and more childish and if you're among adults you're more responsable maybe even trying to impress them... don't know, just a guess...

maybe the people around you interfere with your behaviour... I mean' date=' if you're with young people you're more relaxed and more childish and if you're among adults you're more responsable maybe even trying to impress them... don't know, just a guess...[/quote']

 

 

I don't think so.......those people are all at my age.....and as I said....I have a beter general knowledge than some of them....actually I want to use this knowledge but at the same time I'm scared because I don't know if they think that I think I know more than them...and seem to be conceited....the other side is the childish side....so when I'm not serious...I can talk a lot of crappy things at a evening...actually all my friends talk often senseless funny things...but hen I'm at home I think I was the only one who did...and then I'm afraid they don't take me seriously anymore......