I think there already was a thread with a name like this one....

But I'm not sure if it was about the topic this one should be about....

 

So are you an outspoken person?

I mean...if something is like you don't want it to be do you say this immediately...?

Whether it hurts other peoples feelings or not?

 

In this case I'm definitely not an outspoken person.....I think I am too warm-hearted or something like that....

I don't want to hurt other peoples feelings when i know they put much effort in a thing....

 

For example my aunt.....the best would be if I wrote down every year what I gave her as a present for christmas.....when I was younger I gave her a candle for christmas...the only thing she said was:"Oh again a candle?last year I already got a candle!I hope next year I'll get something else...I don't want to have candles anymore!"

 

She is always like that....she immediately says what she thinks...

well in some situations this can be good for example when it comes to friends...if you have a problem with them and tell them immediately it won't be as bad as if you won't tell them....

 

This is a little problem of me....I don't tell my friends immediately when I have a problem....(except my closest)......my biggest problem is to stand in front of them and tell them what I don't like.....therefore some of my former friends got one of my famous letters in which I told them which problem I have with them......I know this is not the best way....but I always try to improve...

i don't really i let what bothers me kill me inside

especially at work I immediatly say if I don't agree with something, or if I don't like it... that's why a lot of people hate me...

actually it is a good point if you say immediatley that you don't like something...in the right situations.....but then you are more hated....and that is a problem of me.,...:sick:

i guess it depends on what the topic iss about. sometimes i say things without even speaking when i know i should have just shut my mouth, but most of the time i just observed and note

actually it is a good point if you say immediatley that you don't like something...in the right situations.....but then you are more hated....and that is a problem of me.' date='...:sick:[/quote']

 

 

it's true, but I don't care as long as my opinion stands up...

yes that happens alot actually.....people just hate you for not agreeing with what they want

i guess it depends on what the topic iss about. sometimes i say things without even speaking when i know i should have just shut my mouth' date=' but most of the time i just observed and note[/quote']

 

 

I think that's a different thing...

^well......if you don't care this is good for you....but unfortunately I'm still a person who cares about what others think about me (ok...I have changed it is not that important for me anymore because I know that my friends will stand behind me and this is the most important thing!)

^well......if you don't care this is good for you....but unfortunately I'm still a person who cares about what others think about me (ok...I have changed it is not that important for me anymore because I know that my friends will stand behind me and this is the most important thing!)

 

 

what do you mean? you changed just now?

^No....I mean when i was younger I always cared about what other people thought about me...I think one reason was because I didn't have real friends who really stood behind me...but since I have found my real friends I don't care about other peoples opinions as much as before!

I'm glad you think that way... ;)

Haha....me,too....I have to go now...bye Miguel!:nice:

yeah I do tell people when I think something is wrong or handed the wrong way but I'm not the one who does it always or immediately, I'm too shy for that but it happens. I never do it when I know it could hurt someone and I never do it to hurt someone either