i have been a mass these days cuz i feel unclear about my life and future ,and it all turn for the better when i get touch with the songs of coldplay and wonder :why can't be just as happy as these coldplayers? i mean, they just do what they want and they are enjoying it now! how lucky they are !

but someyimes i am more than lost......

Well why do you feel not happy, cause every life should be a gift.. but with ups and downs. If i feel lost I alsways listen to parachutes the album :) Always i don't know what it is, and also other songs, like i'll see you soon and other very easy songs :) And sometimes I cry with it, but it helps ! And just see life positive :)

If you knew...

 

This sounds like old and undemanding shit, but it's true:

everyone has its problems, although these people do not always appear like they have any problems.

Even myself. I had a really big problem in the last 2 years. Only i know it. Slowly now it's getting better (by the way; thanks to coldplay), although i did not believe this 1 year ago.

Be strong and at least try to bring order in your life...

 

Better times will come. especially with this problem, you are certainly not alone.

 

wish you the best

This sounds like old and undemanding shit, but it's true:

everyone has its problems, although these people do not always appear like they have any problems.

 

Yeah...I agree. This is net. And net doesn't neccessarelly depict truth. I ,personally, come here to forget about my current problems...to be someone I know. Me.

 

(Heh...I believe in reincarnation...)

as I'm suffering from depression since 1999, I probably know what you mean. all I can tell you is that life simply is an "up and down story" ... you soon will discover that everything is brilliant again and then you're gonna laugh about your current problems. but yet, at the same time, there will be new problems you have to face. that's life and everyone's got to learn to deal with these situations. speaking with friends helps, music is magic for me (especially in bad times) and the most important thing is to have something you believe in. as you're saying, you are "unclear about your future", you'll probably think it's stupid what I'm saying... but I bet there is something that you would like to achieve. hold on to these aims and you'll see everything's gonna work out...

 

blah...

 

all the best for you... seriously!

It's funny isn't it. I read the posts above from people from all different countries and cultures and I thought 'We're really all the same'. It's a shame politicians can't see things this way.

 

In any case, I have suffered from depression for about 4 years now. I know it's hard and I know sometimes you cannot see yourself getting through, but you need to know that you can and you will. We all go through extremely tough times, but everything always sorts itself out in the end. Through the tough times though, just rely on the people close to you and most importantly know you are important, know you are worth it and listen to lots of Coldplay. The power of music is amazing. It has gotten me through some of the toughest periods of my life. But I got through it, and so can you or anyone else who feels down right now. To quote Coldplay 'Life is For Living', so live it to the best of your ability and don't take it for granted. Chin up! :)

I fully agree with you, razors_girl23. It appears to me as Coldplay actually has the ability to "fix you".

Especially in the last time I made the experience that really everyone has its problems. That does always make me feel happier, because I see that I am not alone, although it sometimes seems to be so.

Because of this fact, it is important to respect every human being for surviving and obviously learning to live and deal with this problems.

 

Thanks for being introspective...I hope this thread was able to make someone feel a bit better.

There's not much left to say, but ill try to make my opinion anyways, just because i recognise myself in you...i am also a depressive person and tend to be negative, and i am quite afraid of the future too...some days ago i went to a university that is on the list of 'where i may find myself in some years' and talked to a woman that works there as some kind of vocational counsellor. I told her i hadn't decided yet where to study, that there were many options and i could easily make a mistake on my choice. And so she told me: everytime you open a door, all the other ones dissapear, because they were never there, you wont get back to where you started and be able to choose another one; but the door you opened will lead you to some other room full of doors, where you may find one you like, or if you honestly feel you made a mistake on the first one, there are chances you may find that option there, not exactly the same one, maybe, but you wont be the same person either, you'll be a more experienced one. What i wanted to say is that you shouldnt feel so much pressure about the future, you'll figure it out on the way; and dont regret the choices you made, half of the time you dont even have the privilege to choose.

On the way, just try to find happiness on the little things, listen to music (especially Coldplay!) and hold on to an aim that will help you sleep on those dark nights...

In the end, there's not a recipe, but at least thats what helps me sometimes...

Hope it helps, or that at least my story didnt bore you so much ;) As you can see, you're definitley not alone...

it almost astonishs me that there are so many people are alike when they are so different.

i am just moved by your words .you know what, i am just sick and tired of my depression and i want a new a start .i figured it out that i don't deserve that and i can be as happy as the restl of you now!

and for god's sake i am laughing at my trouble now!haha...

thank you so much for giving me so much advice and telling your stories,and i will try my best to enjoy life itself.

thank you! Danke! muchas gracias!

while i dont really have a story like that to tell, and i know its not my thread, id just like to say how wonderful people are on coldplaying.com. its so great to know there are such lovely people all over the world, especially in these times, and how all of these people share one great thing in common: we all LOOOOVE coldplay!

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