okay cool... please just leave this ONE thread alone so it won't get confusing to read with your spam posts.

 

 

there are people here who just want to help someone but you are complicating things with your worthlessness. Please. quit. srsly.

ok

Omg Crystal you've convinced him to LEAVE!! (hopefully.)

GRACE! Where are you, pretty thing? I want some absolute resolutions!

I dunno. It'd be easy for me to say "ignore them" or somethin, cause that's probably what you have to try and do. Not eating and all of that isn't gonna help anyone.

 

Right now I'm at a bit of a standstill with my friends. I'll summarize, and I'm not trying to takeover the thread, I'm just stating how our stories are similar in a certain context. I have two groups of friends, school friends I see every day, and my friends from my village that I see like, twice a week.

 

I'm pissed off at about 11 out of 12 of my close school friends because they're just not there for me. They're always taking the piss outta me or not taking me seriously. I mean. It's not a good sign when I have a serious problem and I can only talk about it with ONE of my 12 "best" friends. I told one of them what I thought and got the reaction "We're just kidding, stop being a big baby Jack". I don't take it as a joke. Evidently you don't either with your situation.

 

Basically, I'm ignoring them, and focusing on the people who make me happy, my one best friend from school and my friends from here at home.

 

Try not to focus on what makes you sad and who makes you sad, and find something that makes you happy. Hurting yourself for what they're saying won't help. Explaining it to your family might help. If they say "we're just kidding, lighten up" then that's it. At least they know how you feel. Next time they say somethin insulting about you, maybe they'll see how you react to it and think "Hold up, wait... Maybe this is really affecting her".

Well, think of it like this?

 

 

Your family or friends tease you, bother you.

 

So you try to change for them...possibly hurt yourself even more than the initial spark did.

 

What do you gain from losing the weight you think they tease you too much about? Other than for health reasons... you do it to please THEM not yourself. Too much resentment comes out of that situation.

 

Just WORRY about what you want..not what others think. I mean, really the ones with problems are the ones that can't see they are hurting another human being.

my mother always tell me that i'm overweight too

she always tell me how slim she was when she's in my age

anyway, i tried to throw up at a time

but it doesn't work

it's too painful

i have a friend who even take diet pills

it's work at a moment

because she get skinnier

but she gain it all back when she stop taking those pills

there are two huge problems in the US (and all over the world) today. One is obesity and one is anorexia and bulemia. Actually, even though they are opposites they seem to go hand-in-hand. People who may be slightly overweight or not overweight at all think they are fat and see the insults people get who are fat or see that people who are not fat (at least while some boys are still immature) get more attention. People don't want to be overweight, which is good.

But there's a proper way to fix that. It's harder, but it's good for your body. If you want to look the BEST. That's the way you'll go about losing weight. If you just want to lose weight and you don't truly care about your body then you need help.