Hi guys, long time no posting... I bet some of you still remember of me, huh? :)

 

Okay, the title explains it itself... I'm just curious about your views on this topic. I've been realising lately that I'm a jealous person! :shocked2: Are you related to the feeling when you feel very jealous for the attention she/he gives to her/his friends? Not like you feel she/he will cheat on you, it's more like you want all her/his attention/love/care for you.

 

 

... Obviusly I don't get along with them and I don't want to. Like you want to be all the time with your partner but she/he obviously has to give at least a little attention to keep their friends... ummm Do you think this is a normal behaviour? what are your experiences on this topic? I've heard of loats of ppl who can't stand such possesive behaviour, are you one of them? Any advise?

 

Okay, here's a poll... :lol:

Hey! you haven't been here for a while, welcome back.

 

I haven't been involved in extremely serious relationships but generally the guys I've gone out with were pretty reasonable...they respected the fact that sometimes I just want to hang out with my girlfriends ...

Thanks!

 

Sure, that's a reaonable answer... I feel a little insane now... what should I doooo? :wacko:

well, i broke up with my boyfriend cause he was too jealous..

you should stop being like this!

but i mean.. a little of jealousy is good for all relashionships

but a LITTLE

lol, but why? was he aggresive to your friends or something? I am not really aggresive, I just get upset from time to time, I show myself visibly mad at her and THEM.... :P

Aw, well maybe you should just tell her that you like her so much that sometimes you can't get enough of her and apologize for getting mad sometimes but say there's nothing you can do....

 

 

but honestly that really is a relationship killer :uhoh: Give her space!!

lol, who voted that I need a life? :P He/she must explain how...

Heh... the fastest way to make a person run away imho. No one likes to be suffocated in a relationship.

 

Can't say I know how to deal with it though. I'm not a jealous person at all. Maybe find a hobby or something that will shift your focus and give her some free time?

Aw, well maybe you should just tell her that you like her so much that sometimes you can't get enough of her and apologize for getting mad sometimes but say there's nothing you can do....

 

 

but honestly that really is a relationship killer :uhoh: Give her space!!

 

that's the BEST thing you can do!

 

and he wasn't agressive.. but i mean.. he just didn't like all my boy friends, and coldplay.. he hated chris just because i love him

i think i am way too jealous when it comes to relationships. i guess it's mainly due to bad experiences in the past and i doubt there is much i can do about it.

that's the BEST thing you can do!

 

and he wasn't agressive.. but i mean.. he just didn't like all my boy friends, and coldplay.. he hated chris just because i love him

 

lol, that sounds sick... :stunned:

Actually I think I can be a little like that sometimes... :disappointed:

 

Well, she actually knows about it! and we had a discussion once because of that... so now she tries to avoid any kind of problem so she doesn't get upset with me when I don't want to go with her when she's with her friends... actually she's very little time with them now so I guess I am very selfish guy...

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Can't say I know how to deal with it though. I'm not a jealous person at all. Maybe find a hobby or something that will shift your focus and give her some free time?

 

That sounds interesting... not really thinking about it... I can find lots of hobbies. :)

i think i am way too jealous when it comes to relationships. i guess it's mainly due to bad experiences in the past and i doubt there is much i can do about it.

 

:\ Did someone ever cheat on you?

it really is a bad thing if you stop her from spending time with her friends. i'm not like that at all, i'm not even sure if my partner[if i was in a relationship] would realise it.

:\ Did someone ever cheat on you?

 

yes.

 

therefore i find it very hard to really trust someone. i always think the same could happen to me again and it actually did.

Ouch... :\ that's really bad to happen... I know a few people that have had that kind of experiences... I think in these cases it's all about chosing carefully the person you're getting along with.

OKAY, ENOUGH... I'll follow Space Cadet's advice... I'm getting into Yoga's classes or something... Or maybe a mental assistance center... :wacky: this feeling sucks-

lol, who voted that I need a life? :P He/she must explain how...

 

 

 

 

:laugh2: Who was it?

Okay... better I go and read a book now... :confused: I go now, ppl please keep voting and making comments!

Yes,Goodbye Charles....

:laugh2: Who was it?

 

Me. :P;) Thus the post about hobbies.

 

Actually, I thought that was rather obvious :thinking: Oh well.

Heh... the fastest way to make a person run away imho. No one likes to be suffocated in a relationship.

You can suffocate me all you want, and I won't run away!:P:laugh3::cool4:

^It must be hard to run away when someone has their hands around your neck...:dozey:

 

I consider myself a jealous person, even though I've never truely been in a relationship. I get jealous when my good friends abandon me for other people even if I like the people they've abandon me for. It's hard not to be jealous, in any sort of relationship.

I answered yes although i'm not in a relationship and erm..well, never have been.

But i'm quite jealous when it comes to other friends too.. I know it's stupid to feel that way but i just can't help it :\

Jealousy tends to eat me up. Like that time I really liked a guy and I knew he liked me...I started to get all insecure when he was with other girls. I ended up making a complete fool of myself and I really hope that doesn't happen again!