Welcome to my world.

 

I remember the first time I realised I hated my dad.

I had never felt a rage like it.

I asked him how he met my mum (this was just after my mum died, I never knew my dad til then, so I moved in with him so I didn't have to go into foster care, I guess they contacted him somehow, ANYWAYS)

 

he said 'I was in a bar one night and saw this big fat ugly bitch staring at me and thought "she'll do'

 

I was about 13 at the time, and so I got angry and tried to fight my mum's corner and he shouted at me for back-chatting him.

 

safe to say, I moved in with my grandparents and haven't spoken to him since.

and won't ever. ever.... ever.

 

Long story short, if you want to hate your dad, hate him.

You're a smart kid Si, and you can learn from his mistakes.

for instance, I've learned how NOT to parent.

I would never treat my own kids like that.

learn from it, become a better person.

though, you're already a sound lad.

I like you alot! you've got my facebook if you ever wanna rant and rave.

 

OMG!, He sounds like such a bastard!, UGH!, I feel sooo sorry for you and I really admire you for doing the right thing!, I Don't hate my dad but some of the things he does are absolutely terrible but then other times he is really nice and kind!, He's really wierd!, I do love him but sometimes I do want to kill him!, Thanks alot for aggreeing with me and being nice, i really appreciate it :D, And yeah I might hold you to that rant and rave :lol:

 

lol last night i asked my step mom to take me to target so i could go buy prospekts march and she tells me to wait for christmas

so i say i will just get it on itunes

she gets all pissed off and makes me gives her my ipod and computer

and then she tells me not to get it because someone is getting me a coldplay cd

well obviously it will be VLVADAAHF not prospekt

i tried to explian to her that but she thinks im going to ruin christmas

 

later i locked my door and cried and then eventully fell asleep when i woke up my stepmom was screaming at me to open the door

she got my dad to take off my door and they wont belive that i was asleep!

 

ugh

well i got my computer back today after loads of apoligizing, they told me not to buy the CD but i still did

i cant help it though i couldnt go a day longer without it!

 

Haha!, I feel sorry for you :(, Ugh, it sucks, doesn't it?

 

Really, you do not have to appologize to me. You know your father better than anyone of us do on this forum. But no need to be saying sorry to me:)

 

Sorry (Look there I go again :P), I have a problem, I say sorry for EVERY little thing, everyone tells me that! :P

this thread is great for teaching me what not to do to my kids

Really, you do not have to appologize to me. You know your father better than anyone of us do on this forum. But no need to be saying sorry to me:)

 

Especially since he was being a pedantic little cunt, you got his age wrong by one year

Especially since he was being a pedantic little cunt

 

how ironic.

Thing is, he was being one though.

I would disagree with you.

BUT

I just scouted out his profile

and I noticed that him and his friends are planning to start a "we hate nathan" group

 

if I was you, I'd be scared! :lol:

Who the hell would join that?

I would disagree with you.

BUT

I just scouted out his profile

and I noticed that him and his friends are planning to start a "we hate nathan" group

 

if I was you, I'd be scared! :lol:

 

:lol:

 

brilliant

 

also, you don't think him correcting his father's age by one year, as if that would change her argument is being pedantic?

woah! woah!, I wasn't making a big deal about how she got the age wrong, I was just saying :dozey:

language please!!!!

Some people just can not get along well with each other, although they love each other. Living in different places will make things much better.

 

I did quarrelled a lot with my parents when I was a teenager and I hated them, not being able to understand why they treated me in this way. Then I went to high school and I lodged at students' dorm. I only went back home in weekends. My parents missed me and they treated much better. I missed them too and I found I could understand them much better then.

 

Now I will be graduated from university in next June and I've decided to stay in this city instead of going back to my hometown to find a job. I am afraid that if I go back, the good relationship during those years between me and my families will change or be damaged.

Some people just can not get along well with each other, although they love each other. Living in different places will make things much better.

 

I did quarrelled a lot with my parents when I was a teenager and I hated them, not being able to understand why they treated me in this way. Then I went to high school and I lodged at students' dorm. I only went back home in weekends. My parents missed me and they treated much better. I missed them too and I found I could understand them much better then.

 

Now I will be graduated from university in next June and I've decided to stay in this city instead of going back to my hometown to find a job. I am afraid that if I go back, the good relationship during those years between me and my families will change or be damaged.[/color]

 

Interesting, yeah that would probbably be alright with me!, My brother is in the RAF and occasionally comes back home and my parents are always really nice to them, otherwise they are sometimes not sooo nice...