hey...

I want to share this with somebody... this might be very painful... maybe this had happened to some of you too... it's hard to talk about this...

Well, I've got a friend... well, she's an Internet friend, but in my heart, she's a lot more than it! she's a truly friend, you know?...

Today I found her on MSN and we started to chat. We ask each other how were we and she asked me that she was feeling bad. Very bad indeed. She's on the hospital, cos she tried to kill herself... That really hurt me...

I just dunno what to say to her...! I've never been on this situation... Apparently she tried to commit suicide because she feels alone. She thinks that nobody cares for her, neither friends or family... she says that she has lots of friends, but they're all far away from her... I tried to make her see how great life can be... and that sometimes, life can suck and be hard, but nothing is too hard.. I think that we have to face our main problems and never turn back to them... but I can't cheer her up...

Mostly, I'm afraid that she can try it again and perhaps she can make it...:cry: I really don't wanna loose her...:cry:

 

 

 

Man...Thats sad!....Im sorry but ya i can releate cause thats how i feel right now except i know my family cares about me the problem with me is that i think my friends dont and i feel alone too!All i can say is that i hope ur friend gets through this and that she never tries it again and try to really show her how much u care..

I'm so sorry to hear that. A very close friend of mine (an internet friend, too) commited suicide after we had talked for almost two years... it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to go through. I'm just glad your friend is alive, and I hope she starts feeling better about the world soon. :worried2:

wow, this is very amazing, we should never wish our own death, I think, unless we know it's ultimately for the greater good (if you're dying and have no chance to live, then better finish it before you're more dead than alive) or if you're doing it for someone but seriously like a sacrifice not for a break up, I would give my heart away if one the people I love the most need it. That's the way I think.

hey you all:nice:

thanks once again! thank you sooo much for helping me with all this and share your own experiences!

Well, I'm gonna write what happened recently..:)

yesterday i chatted with her a bit on MSN and she was quite different!

I MADE HER CHANGE HER MIND!! she made me feel sooo special! When i think I made someone give up of commit suicide... I just dunno how I made it! I never thought I could...

'Cos she's alone all the time, she hasn't family/friends near her, she only talked to me and some other internet friends! I don't wanna look like a smug, cos I'm not, and I defiantly hate people like that, but she told me that I was the one who cared about her and convinced her that lots of people love her and care for her, even that they don't show it that well...! She said she made a change. A huge one! After trying to give up of life, she learnt that she had to face things different. I told her to face her fears and negative stuff on her life and she's really doing it!

 

and nothing of this would be possible, I wouldn't be brave enough to made her change her mind, without you, that shared your experiences and opinions, and that really helped me a lot! I mean, honestly! I made a conclusion of all that you told me and that really gave me strength and courage to help my friend.

 

Thank you very much:):):):)

 

PS - oh and she changed a lot by mention Coldplay:lol:I'm not kidding! The miraculous Coldplay:heart: