oooh you say your twin brother is your best friend....my best friends are my Mum, my Dad and my sisters...but they are at home....and those are the only people I really miss quite fast....

 

and nope I don't have a boyfriend...I guess I wasn't as depressed if I had one...but after all it's just so hard for me to find one, because I do not want to go out with any random guy who I just get along with....I seriously see no sense in this...I mean being together with someone means to spend a lot of time with that person and I couldn't spend much time with a guy I could easily get annoyed by and there are some guys who my friends thought I could fit together with and they never understand why I say no...holy shit it's so much more than just spending together imo....I mean I am supposed to love that person.......so, I rather stay lonely and listen to music

 

About BF I think I have an equal problem. I just can't find such person!I don't know why, but I can't and that's all!

My friend has had a huge number on bfs - I just can't figure out wtf?They all were such immature fools, even ugly sometimes!Her problem is that she doesn't care who she is with, she thinks that she simply has to be with SOMEBODY who wants to be with her. I don't know a guy she has ever refused!:confused::confused::confused: That's so silly to my mind!

 

Maybe I can't find a bf because I was very much hurt when I fancied a guy who didn't feel the same about me.Since then I feel very diffident and uncomfortable with boys, not always of course, but it really gets me sometimes. I don't know... I'm used to turn down a lot too, because I'm biased and have too high requirements:dozey: I hope I'll get over it someday...So, that's my problem:cry2:

haha I know that problem....it's funny that my "closest" friends are always the ones who just have to be with someone and I am always the one who is the lonely one and just can't find someone....I don't know...but when my best friend started dating her current boyfriend I seriously wondered why she started a relationship with him...I mean he is super nice and cute and I really really like him....but I can't believe that this is all...I mean they do not even share one special interest or something like that....ah whatever....

haha I know that problem....it's funny that my "closest" friends are always the ones who just have to be with someone and I am always the one who is the lonely one and just can't find someone....I don't know...but when my best friend started dating her current boyfriend I seriously wondered why she started a relationship with him...I mean he is super nice and cute and I really really like him....but I can't believe that this is all...I mean they do not even share one special interest or something like that....ah whatever....

 

Frankly speaking I think that same interests are nothing when people just fancy each other...but who knows:rolleyes:

I don't know....I just confuse myself far too much with those things...

Ok, we just have to give a damn about it and relax;)

probably:wacky:

It took me half a year just to realize my best friend was actually a total bitch.... :dozey:

Is it weird to not want to make friends and want to at the same time?

I know what you mean. I used to feel the same way not too long ago. I grew up in a small village and I was friends with the people I went to school with because they were the only people I knew. The main problem was that I couldn't really be myself around them. I didn't miss them when I moved away and I didn't really keep in touch with them once I started meeting new people. The same goes for them so I guess they didn't particularly like me either. It kind of makes me sad when I go back though.

^Exactly.

 

I remember when I left primary school (Damn, that was a long time ago. I feel old.) I remember that I was just friends with whoever went there that I could get along with for about 6 hours. None of them were ever true friends, just simply people to talk to and to get you through the day. When I left primary and entered middle school, I never missed anybody in my primary, nor did I ever try to keep in touch with any of them.

Bah, I am going through similar thing. I'm starting to get a bit annoyed with my school friends from my old high school... I don't see them that much, and there's three of them. They're good company, one's really funny, but they don't seem that interested in my other friends. Especially my boyfriend. I've met his friends, he's met very few of mine, but my ex-schoolfriends want nothing to do with it (specifically the more annoying one that whines a lot).

Yes, this is mainly bitching, but damn, it's irritating, especially when this is my first long-term relationship and they don't care.

Not very much time at all tbh.....