... I'll make a thread about it. :sad:

 

I feel so left out these days, I tend to stay in my room alone.

 

I don't know why but it seems like my recent days are not good as they were before. I miss laughing, joking and talking randomly with my friends, but I found that the bond is keep on loosing. I'm not sure what is going on exactly though, but I try to not to blame it on others.

 

We don't really have interests in common. As they love movies and games, I hate both with my soul. I'm not sure if listening to a lot of music (and maybe being obsessed with it) bothers people, and what makes thing worse is as if I live a boring life.

 

I already lived on this earth for 19 years, but the term 'best friend' hasn't ever existed in my life. I hardly put trust on people to be so-called best friend, because I think at the end of the day, I'll be isolated. Why am I so pessimistic? I've experienced it too many times.

 

I'm in search of a best friend, if and only if he/she exists. :(

 

Sorry for being so emotional and depressing, I just need a place to pour everything that I feel, as I can't write it on my blog or twitter because they will probably stalk those websites. :freak: That's the reason why I love Coldplaying so much.

I Know exactly how you feel :hug:

Thanks Kat :hug: It means so much to me.

Rudy!! you're such a sweet guy you really deserve to be happy and if your friends don't get you I'm sure you'll find very good friends in the future. I think you're a very interesting guy, you are friendly, smart, funny and you have such a great music taste :awesome: I'd love to have a friend like you here in this weird country :)

 

:hug:

I've always been the odd one out of my friends and For a long time believed that I needed to change to fit in. I Realise that this was a stupid idea and that true friends will see that you are actually a nice interesting person. I Have to admit this site is filled with people who I Can relate to . I'm sure that one day everyone will find people who they class as a best friend .

Rudy!! you're such a sweet guy you really deserve to be happy and if your friends don't get you I'm sure you'll find very good friends in the future. I think you're a very interesting guy, you are friendly, smart, funny and you have such a great music taste :awesome: I'd love to have a friend like you here in this weird country :)

 

:hug:

 

Awww Lore :hug: That's more like a kilogram of random compliments. :freak: :lol:

 

You too! :nice:

 

I've always been the odd one out of my friends and For a long time believed that I needed to change to fit in. I Realise that this was a stupid idea and that true friends will see that you are actually a nice interesting person. I Have to admit this site is filled with people who I Can relate to . I'm sure that one day everyone will find people who they class as a best friend .

I'm tired of fitting in, I failed too many times. fml. :sad:

that's what I think about you :uhoh:

 

my friend SPSS loves you :heart:

I prefer to befriend with SPSS than these people :P

:o

Aw I know exactly how you feel, Rudy :disappointed:

 

:hug:

Are we a bunch of depressing people? :bigcry:

 

 

:hug:

a bunch of people with friendship issues :lol:

^ Yeah, pretty much, myself included.

 

I definitely understand how you feel, Rudy. Don't let it get you down. You're totally awesome. :hug:

Well you've got a genuinely awesome personality and sadly people drift apart,

So yeah, you definitely shouldn't be too sad about it. It wasn't because of you.

 

Plus the great personality will help with finding new friends or a best friend pretty quickly.

possibly ones who have a great love of music like you.

You guys are too nice. :hug:

 

If I voice out this to them, I'm sure they will just simply say,

 

"It's just you. Oversensitive. Crybaby. Blergh,"

 

:|

Are we a bunch of depressing people? :bigcry:

 

 

:hug:

 

a bunch of people with friendship issues :lol:

 

 

Many Coldplay haters think that we are a bunch of depressive people

 

when in fact we - or at least many of us - are a bunch of people with friendship issues and a supreme musical taste. ;)

 

 

I can truly relate to your feelings, RUDY and think that you expressed them so well.

 

YOU ARE NOT ALONE! :hug:

Nancy is supportive as always. :hug:

My friends are not interested in Coldplay or U2 so I had to go to the 2 Coldplay concerts in 2009 in Denmark alone, whereas I worked as a voluntary for ONE up to the 2 U2 concerts and found some new friends among the ONE voluntaries.

Don't worry Rudy, you are definitely not alone! I don't really have a "best friend" either; in fact, I don't really have any close friends that I hang out with (other than my husband). :| Those that I consider my closest friends are actually other people on here. :wacky: Unfortunately, they live far away so I can't really visit them easily.

 

You know, my husband and I were just talking about this a couple of weeks ago. We both wish there were some sort of e-harmony site for finding friends. That would be awesome.

 

And no, "adult friend finder" doesn't work, that's something COMPLETELY different :tongue:

 

I Want to meet up with all the Coldplayers Someday that would be amazing :awesome:

:hug:

... I'll make a thread about it. :sad:

 

I feel so left out these days, I tend to stay in my room alone.

 

I don't know why but it seems like my recent days are not good as they were before. I miss laughing, joking and talking randomly with my friends, but I found that the bond is keep on loosing. I'm not sure what is going on exactly though, but I try to not to blame it on others.

 

We don't really have interests in common. As they love movies and games, I hate both with my soul. I'm not sure if listening to a lot of music (and maybe being obsessed with it) bothers people, and what makes thing worse is as if I live a boring life.

 

I already lived on this earth for 19 years, but the term 'best friend' hasn't ever existed in my life. I hardly put trust on people to be so-called best friend, because I think at the end of the day, I'll be isolated. Why am I so pessimistic? I've experienced it too many times.

 

I'm in search of a best friend, if and only if he/she exists. :(

 

Sorry for being so emotional and depressing, I just need a place to pour everything that I feel, as I can't write it on my blog or twitter because they will probably stalk those websites. :freak: That's the reason why I love Coldplaying so much.

 

OMG Rudz. I've always been having this problem and I think I still have kind of. I've always had friends who didn't really have the same interests like me. It was nice to spend some time with them, but I have never been supper happy when I was around them...I am at a stage in my life now that my closest friends are leaving / have left town. I used to go out a lot as they were still around and now I spend my time after work alone in my room. If I didn't know that this would change next year, I'd seriously go crazy. I am also loosing my old school friends at the moment which is super weird and a bit sad, but we never shared the same interests at all. I've always been longing for meeting people who are like me. Just to share my love for certain things with them (esp. music)....

There are some people left in my town who I used to go out with.....but I can't be bothered to go out with them anymore, because I don't feel super well when I am with them, because they are really different from me.

 

It sucks. I mean I don't even think I am a loser or weird or whatever. I get along with many people and I know that many people like me. But I always meet the wrong people omg....

 

:depressed: (haha)

My friends are not interested in Coldplay or U2 so I had to go to the 2 Coldplay concerts in 2009 in Denmark alone, whereas I worked as a voluntary for ONE up to the 2 U2 concerts and found some new friends among the ONE voluntaries.

That's really cool :surprised: New places and occasions always give us opportunity to make new friends, but I haven't got a chance. :\

 

Don't worry Rudy, you are definitely not alone! I don't really have a "best friend" either; in fact, I don't really have any close friends that I hang out with (other than my husband). :| Those that I consider my closest friends are actually other people on here. :wacky: Unfortunately, they live far away so I can't really visit them easily.

 

You know, my husband and I were just talking about this a couple of weeks ago. We both wish there were some sort of e-harmony site for finding friends. That would be awesome.

 

And no, "adult friend finder" doesn't work, that's something COMPLETELY different :tongue:

Are you suggesting me to get married? :wacky: lol jkjk

 

Adult Friend Finder :sick:

 

I Want to meet up with all the Coldplayers Someday that would be amazing :awesome:

Indeed. :cheesy:

 

:hug:

:hug: Nicole.

 

OMG Rudz. I've always been having this problem and I think I still have kind of. I've always had friends who didn't really have the same interests like me. It was nice to spend some time with them, but I have never been supper happy when I was around them...I am at a stage in my life now that my closest friends are leaving / have left town. I used to go out a lot as they were still around and now I spend my time after work alone in my room. If I didn't know that this would change next year, I'd seriously go crazy. I am also loosing my old school friends at the moment which is super weird and a bit sad, but we never shared the same interests at all. I've always been longing for meeting people who are like me. Just to share my love for certain things with them (esp. music)....

There are some people left in my town who I used to go out with.....but I can't be bothered to go out with them anymore, because I don't feel super well when I am with them, because they are really different from me.

It sucks. I mean I don't even think I am a loser or weird or whatever. I get along with many people and I know that many people like me.But I always meet the wrong people omg....

 

:depressed: (haha)

THIS. I thought that it would sound a bit mean to say that out, but thanks Julia, that's exactly what I always think. I need to meet the right people, those that I can fit in naturally, without being forced as if I don't have a choice. :shrug:

not all go to my chronic depression, since the age of 13 years old :(

 

... I'll make a thread about it. :sad:

 

I feel so left out these days, I tend to stay in my room alone.

 

I don't know why but it seems like my recent days are not good as they were before. I miss laughing, joking and talking randomly with my friends, but I found that the bond is keep on loosing. I'm not sure what is going on exactly though, but I try to not to blame it on others.

 

We don't really have interests in common. As they love movies and games, I hate both with my soul. I'm not sure if listening to a lot of music (and maybe being obsessed with it) bothers people, and what makes thing worse is as if I live a boring life.

 

I already lived on this earth for 19 years, but the term 'best friend' hasn't ever existed in my life. I hardly put trust on people to be so-called best friend, because I think at the end of the day, I'll be isolated. Why am I so pessimistic? I've experienced it too many times.

 

I'm in search of a best friend, if and only if he/she exists. :(

 

Sorry for being so emotional and depressing, I just need a place to pour everything that I feel, as I can't write it on my blog or twitter because they will probably stalk those websites. :freak: That's the reason why I love Coldplaying so much.

 

 

 

You're in my heart :heart: :hug:

I don't think it is mean to say that Rudy. It's good to show some self-confidence. I used to think I was a loser when I was younger until others (who I considered as "cool") proved me wrong, by telling me that I am a really cool girl and pointing out why.....I think I am kind of aware of that now....

Well, I've grown up in a village where football and superficial parties count most....instead of music and stuff like that....so there were never people I was really interested in,. When I was around 16 I couldn't be bothered to go to these parties so I rather stayed at home...why should I lie to myself and go there? I was considered as a loser in some peoples' eyes back then....well, I met people with the same interests like me at uni....a group of 4 people and every single one of them was a big asshole:nice:

 

so, I have never really met a person who shares the same interests like me and is nice.

 

(I mean I share some interests with my best friend of course, but she is not interested in the things I call my passion)