*Justine*

Exactly. I hardly ever listen to music, only if I happen to be in the car for some reason.. my bf is like.. oh god I have heard this like 4 times today, I say, this is my 2nd time ever hearing this song. I don't have any music station on tv either. So what I listen to is almost completely based on what I like and what I find myself. That way, I determine when and what I get sick of.

Why does pop have to have that negative conatation? I think they are pop.

It's still not working for me.

I will.

It would of been totally amazing to have been in the video.

Who are the Ying Yang Twins? I haven't even heard of these people.

That song is just pure sex.. I don't know how else to describe it, just lovely.

What? A Nirvana hater?

I was shocked by this though, totally taken by surprise. He said to me, but you knew something was wrong, because you were asking me if I we're leaving you. I said yah, because you said that you wanted time alone, time to yourself.. I didn't know what was going on. I spent Canada Day weekend at my mom's to give him space, I have no problem doing that. I come home and I get this news.

AHh, good ol emo, we've been through this before no? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emo#The_.22Emo_Nerd.22_Look

I told him that people can be in relationships and still have time alone, to themselves, they can go out and have fun with their friends alone, etc. He feels like he always has to check in with me. He says that he is a solitary person and he just wants to be alone like he used to be when he was single. He just wants to be able to fart without being yelled at. I told him, FART ALL YOU WANT!!! I DONT CARE!!! Honestly. I mean, these are just silly things, but they build up to him. Like how we go grocery shopping and I don't want to split up I want to get things together. And he feels like we are just dragging each other around everywhere without even wanting to be there. I told him, then tell me these things before they start irritating you!!! Or how, since we have almost alternate work schedules, he works morning until 4ish, and I leave 4ish and work nights some nights (I work part-time and go to school) I like it when he comes online on msn and just tells me that he gets home alright..and I like to see him sometimes on my break, but he says that he just wants to sleep since he is tired and doesn't want to HAVE to be online all the time. I told him...then don't be. I feel like a lot of this stuff we had dicussed at some time or another and voiced our concerns about it..but it doesn't change for some reason. I feel like we had/have a good relationship, I feel like we are good people and that I was a good girlfriend. Everyone has problems and stuff that bothers them about other people. People go through much worse.

I am thinking that my cat is driving me crazy, running around the house like a crazy...cat.

I have been debating whether or not I should post this on the board, but I figured there is no harm and maybe some of you would have something insightul to add. My bf wants to take a break from our relationship after 3 years of being together. He feels smothered by me, he feels like he can't be alone, he feels like he doesn't know who he is anymore. We've had our problems here and there, and he says it hasn't been getting better. But to me they are just petty small things that would be fixed. I feel like guys let everything pile up and do not fix things right away. When I have a problem with us, I think that I approached him about it right away, and tried to fix it, so not to make it worse and let it affect us in the long-term. I am devastated by this news and hearing how he feels. I thought I could be with this person for my life, I love him dearly. He is a wonderful person and I feel extremely hurt by this. He has left for a couple of days to clear his head, he didn't tell me where he was going, just packed his bags. I told him that if this taking time off is just a nicer way of breaking up with me, then I would prefer that he tell me straight out that he wants to end it. He said that he doesnt know. I feel like he doesn't want to do this in his heart, but he is just so confused and doesn't know what he wants. There is more to it of course, but that is the shortened version....any advice?

Hmm, I don't really mind Gwen or Kelly Jones.

I only know him from the Madonna video, I have never seen him anywhere since then.

That idiot.

I liked the movie a lot. :angry:

Hey..whose in your avatar?

:o

I second this.

You don't like that one Camille?

'Fix You' was on the OC. Not a film, its a teen show.

Tom knows what it is like to be rained on, don't worry.

Already happened. :D

yes.