Zeya

^Nope, you're not the oldest. There are some who've reached their 50s in here. Anyway, old or not, you're annoying if you're annoying. I've read Liz's (Lizzybear) experience seing The Strokes at Lollapalooza and I thought what an awesome show ruined by a bunch of drunks. And I believe they're young. I thought to people who are in their 30s and 40s or older that if you can still enjoy good music, good on you. Everyone should be able to enjoy concerts, as long as you don't bother other people. It's as simple as that.

Yeah our language has the influence of Cantonese, especially the tone, seeing that we have a lot of Cantonese speaking people in our country :D

I don't think he looks that bad, apart from that horrible socks.

Nope she won't. Maybe I'll do that one day, if I think I've had enough.

It means a slap (noun) or slapping (verb) :P Already have one.

I know I've led all of you to think that, but really, she's not a bad friend. As much as she's being annoying, she's also an amazing friend. She'll try to help a friend if she really can, and she'll try to be there with you when you need her. It's just that her friend should be this really understanding person with really high level of patience, which currently I'm lack of. I think that maybe, the whining is worth putting up for just to keep the friendship. And like I said before, I've broken off a friendship before but that person was 100times worse than this friend of mine. She's this attention seeking bitch that will hog all the limelight from others, she sabotaged other people to make her look good in front of the others, she badmouthed every single person, she used people etc so she was definitely not worth it. Trust me, my friend is not half as bad.

edit: Reply to Ly^^ That's true. She does cheer up the mood a bit at times. So it's not all bad. We do sympathise with her, seriously. And most of the times we will listen and give her the best advice and just agree with her to make her feel better. But when she keeps on repeating the same thing over and over and over again every single day, that's when the sympathy's turned to annoyance.

^Haha I thought you posted a picture to prove it but turns out it's just your siggy.

God no. I bet my candid photos beat the hell out of the ugliness of other people's in here.

ps; I understand now why people keep on posting their problems in here. You guys are much better than that oracle thing on Coldplay's website!

Yeah, I would say that she's the most talkative person that I've ever met before. Others thought so too. She can keep on talking non stop when other people would have been out of things to say. Yeah I did that once too and she said she was hurt and thought that I didn't try to listen to what she says. God I really make her sound bad, when she's really not as bad. Maybe she just loves the attention, maybe you're right. I think so too. She's been living a good life with people always catering to her needs that she's still living in that sweet little bubble. I would like something to just burst that bubble and let her see the world from a bigger point of view. So that she'd be more thankful.

I've tried bitching once (not about this friend) and it resulted with broken friendship. Thing is, with that one, I did really feel like I wanted to end it. With this one however, I don't. She's a good friend with a good heart, just maybe too big a mouth. And I know all of you don't know her that well thus can't really judge the situation, but it's good to be able to express it somewhere (she's on my fb, blog, twitter so those don't really work).

edit: reply to Braddock^^ It seems that those are the only options I have so far hey. I've tried few times to talk to her but she ended up saying things like.." I know it bores you every time I say this but I just need to vent". And she'll repeat the same thing like 10 times a day? Do you think I'm a bad friend? I should provide shoulders for her to cry on and things like that no? I feel awful just by creating this thread :\

Oh no no she is really a good friend. She will be there for me and the rest if we need her but it's just that after all the hardships we went through together, how did she not establish it as good friendship? I thought it's one of those unspoken things and it's mutual but apparently not so. It's just that she's so whiny that I'm afraid that if I keep on being this angry with her every time she opens her mouth I might just burst one day and ruin everything.

Okay here's the thing. I have a friend that is so whiny that she complains about every single thing. About her parents, her financial status, her studies, her pracs, every single freaking thing. While friends should be willing to listen to each others' problems, it's starting to get on my nerves (and practically all the people around her as well). For example, she keeps on complaining about how broke she is and how her parents never give her money anymore. Some of our friends really do come from poor (unfortunate? oh shit I don't know the politicaly correct term for it) family and I do think her whining has made them feel a bit uncomfortable. Then after all the whining, suddenly just now she posted on facebook that she's contemplating whether she's gonna buy a new electric guitar or a netbook. She just bought an electric guitar last two moths and her laptop is still working perfectly well so isn't that showing that she has the luxury to spend? Plus she always spend like nearly $200 for a pair of jeans and other very expensive things. When I told her she should think about the rest of our unfortunate friends and be more careful with her words when she's around them she'd just snap at me and say others can get what they want if they try harder. Oh and few days ago she posted this on her fb: "If anyone ask me now whether I have a best friend or not I'd say I have none." WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MAKE US FEEL? We (as in me and the other close friends) have been there for her for every single time and we even backed her up whenever people say bad things about her. I don't know what I can do to shut her up and make her realise how lucky she is to be in her situation. Others would kill to get a chance to live her life in her big house driving her big car and having great friends surrounding them even for only a day. I feel bad for feeling this way as she is actually a really good friend, and I don't want to ruin the friendship, but it's getting a bit tiring now. Help me cpers.

Financially, not quite. I'm on a scholarship for my studies which is enough to support me. But maybe later I'd ask my parents for a new car so that's a bit dependent. Emotionally, yes. Mostly on my friends. But I'm more independent now than I was last year.

I don't call all bears panda :confused:

^Ah, I thought that that would be another random butterfly things that people like to randomly relate to Coldplay cause y'know, butterflies' existent were discovered only recently by Coldplay, but that bed linen's pretty close to the Viva ones. And it's pretty :nice: Cool poster. I've always loved that photoshoot. I thought VLV era had the best photoshoot among all the four albums.

Animals: Cats Lions Tigers Panda Penguins Drinks: Virgin pina colada Any starbucks beverages to be honest Lemonade Any white chocolate drinks Coffee

I hear ya Kiran.

Oooh Nick and Jay <3 Josh looked like a young Leonardo Dicaprio. I'm not sure if that's a compliment.

:thumbsup:

Graceful you've got a cool car! :D

Here's mine: http://farawayfar.tumblr.com/

Ooooh Spies. Great choice. You make me wanna pay a visit to my Parachutes folder.