Kettercat Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 ...the guy you've been in love with for the past 3 and a half years, on and off, who has been playing along... is actually gay? God, life is beautiful. I've never felt so stupid in my entire life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Professor Peedston Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 You take some comfort in the fact that you're probably not the only person who was fooled. :) (hell, the governor of New Jersey is resigning because he's been lying about his sexuality and has had an affair with a man in his administration, and he's married with kids!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted August 15, 2004 Author Share Posted August 15, 2004 Yeah... kind of hard to accept, though :/ Not the first time it's happened, I have liked another guy who turned out to be gay... But I dare to say this one was the love of my life. I can't even begin to explain how much he meant to me, we've been through a lot, and it just seems... fake all of a sudden? I don't know if it's true for sure, I don't really care anymore, I just feel cheated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
headbanger_bassist Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 well, if its any comfort i've had a similar thing happen. i liked this guy for i dont know how long, and then one day it suddenly dawned on me, "wow, this guy is a real f**kin asshole :idea2: " kinda surprised i didn't get it like...the first time i talked to him...but it happens i guess :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted August 15, 2004 Author Share Posted August 15, 2004 Well, I could never tell in a million years the guy is gay... two of my best mates are gay and I have loads of bi-sexual ones, but I still can't see it in him. He's such a casanova, or acts that way anyway. And the worst thing? He played along, everyone thought we were a couple, everyone - including his friends - kept saying that he's crazy about me. ....the more I think about it, the weirder it sounds. There's not a chance in the world!! I used to feel worthless, that maybe there was something wrong with me, but now I just feel so fucking stupid. Unless I hear it from him, I'm not going to believe it. The way we've always been around each other was hardly an innocent friendship... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badlydrawngirl Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 that guy sounds like an idiot :angry: playing along like that. you'll find a guy who won't treat you like that maya :cool: i think we've all been there, i liked this guy for a few months (granted it wasnt 3 years but it seemed like a long time anyway) and he just enjoyed the attention i think, because he didnt make it known that he already had a g/f of sorts, and i only found out AFTER i'd put my ass as well as my heart on the line. and i've never felt more like a prat than that very day! BUT as of this very moment, i couldnt give two shits about what he's doing, because he turns out not to be right for me anyway! and i think i've found someone who IS. *hugs* you'll find someone worthy of your maya-ness. just watch ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted August 15, 2004 Author Share Posted August 15, 2004 Haha, thanks Charlie... :kiss: Thing is, I still think he's one of the nicest guys I've ever met. He's done a lot for me, and he was there for me at times when no one else was. And he really means a lot to me... I just wish I knew what was going on :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badlydrawngirl Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 well if he means a lot to you thats fine. as a friend that is. just don't be in love with him. it complicates things :dizzy2: :stunned: :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 This happend to me a few weeks ago. I bumped into a frineds sister who works in the same place as me I thought she was OK. I told her sister and she told me after a while she was a lesbian. But it was lust on my part. She was lively and thats what I liked ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noni Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 *adds herself in the list* A few years ago I also fancied a guy. We used to meet in the same club every weekend and he seemed to flirt with me and we had fun. One day he kissed another girl (who was the ex-gf of another mate I liked, bitch! :angry:) and I felt bad. But the next weekend their friends told me he's gay and he was gonna move with his boyfriend! :o :o :o Sometimes I think that some guys just turn gay because it's in fashion, do you know what I mean? Maya, have you talked with him? Maybe he can explain it better... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted August 15, 2004 Author Share Posted August 15, 2004 Sorry to hear that, Daryl :( well if he means a lot to you thats fine. as a friend that is. just don't be in love with him. it complicates things :dizzy2: :stunned: :) Yeah... well, to be honest, we're no longer in touch... we promised we'd keep in touch with one another but I knew it wouldn't last because it'd be too awkward, and there's too much history... That's what makes it all so much harder, I can't see him and ask him all about it. At least I'm no longer in love with him.... but I just got over him and it still hurts :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Guys will never admit that such and such is a good looking person when reffering to a male they may say ' oh he looks well' but wont say 'he is a good looker.' Not like women, they will say 'she looks pretty' without even thinking about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted August 15, 2004 Author Share Posted August 15, 2004 *adds herself in the list* A few years ago I also fancied a guy. We used to meet in the same club every weekend and he seemed to flirt with me and we had fun. One day he kissed another girl (who was the ex-gf of another mate I liked, bitch! :angry:) and I felt bad. But the next weekend their friends told me he's gay and he was gonna move with his boyfriend! :o :o :o Sometimes I think that some guys just turn gay because it's in fashion, do you know what I mean? Maya, have you talked with him? Maybe he can explain it better... Ahh, what a tosser. It's true what they say, innit? All the best women are married, all the handsome men are gay... Oh wait, that's Robbie Williams :lol: I haven't talked to him and probably never will... seeing as we lost touch, and he's also away in the army now (and so will I be in a couple of days...) Maybe I'll bump into him one day, I dunno...... as we do live quite close to one another. It just.... bothers me. I feel so dumb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noni Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Oooooh Maya, I know what you mean... but try not to think too much about that. At least it seems he was a good friend 'cause he supported you a lot. Maybe you could try to keep his friendship. So, are you gonna go the army soon? The fact of women obligued to go to the army still shock me! :stunned: :stunned: I hope you're fine there and you can take your ass here to tell us hello! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted August 15, 2004 Author Share Posted August 15, 2004 Yeah, he was one of the greatest friends I've ever had... even if it lasted for only awhile. I feel like calling him but well, he's away and it'd be too weird. I dunno. I guess I'll have to leave it like that... because apart from the "romantic" side of things, he's also done some things that no friend should do... and hurt me :/ And yeah, I'm joining the army this Tuesday.... all scared and everything :stunned: still can't believe it. Of course I'll still get my ass and say 'hello' every once in awhile :P I'll be home every night, it'll be more like a job... Only now I'll be away for a month, a month and a half, and only will spend a weekend home every two weeks or so... which sucks :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noni Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Oh, then coming home every night sounds good! I thought it was gonna be a long time outside!! I'd be scared too, but think that there will be more girls like you, and you can meet nice people there. Try to enjoy it! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musiclover Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 ...the guy you've been in love with for the past 3 and a half years' date=' on and off, who has been playing along... is actually [i']gay[/i]? God, life is beautiful. I've never felt so stupid in my entire life. :o :lol: Watch the movie, "Saved!"...it's a funny take on just the story like yours. good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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