April 19, 200620 yr I mean... would you die if you found out your wife/husband couldn't have kids? annnnnd ........ do you think you would love your wife/husband more or your kids? I'm not sure if I would be disappointed if I found out I couldn't have kids. I actually believe I could love my wife more than my kids.. I always thought it would be the opposite. I guess I don't actually know any of these things until I get there, but right now this is what I believe.
April 19, 200620 yr Author seeeeeeeeeee, I REEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYY don't want to adopt.. :embarassed: I've seen a lot of adopted kids and for some reason all of them seemed to behave badly... I guess that means I'm REALLY selfish.... and I believe I am
April 19, 200620 yr I'd adopt.. really.. i guess there's so many kids that doesn't have parents.. and they're so alone.. it's sad... specially for the olders.. here in chile the kids that have 4 or more years almost never are adopted.. they have to live with another homeless kids and they have not so much chances to change, study or have a better life...
April 19, 200620 yr ^^ those were my exact thoughts... 2 years ago :confused: NOW i will make the future spouse go 'snip snip' goodbye to the kid givers!
April 19, 200620 yr really? that's nuts! :freak: enjoy life while ya can..i imagine you meant later....
April 19, 200620 yr Author well.................. (random post) if I do have kids or a kid.......... I want them to be the happiest person who ever lived :embarassed: because I think life is "full of sorrow" and it's hard to know what is worth what. I just don't want to pass down pain. It really makes me unsure if I even want to have kids............ It's not really the responsibility that I'm afraid of...................... it's their life....................... I don't want them to be sad all their life or live a wasted life.
April 19, 200620 yr mmmmmmmmmm...I think it would be really bad if I found out I couldn't have kids. maybe that's because I'm a girl, I would feel like.....uhm, I dont know, weird. I would feel like if I wasnt a girl just because of that :S and about loving my husband/kids well, maybe because I would be a mom (that sounds weird :uhoh:) I think I would love my kids like a whooooooooole freeeeeaking looooooooooooooooot. but I'm sure I would love my husband the same, or even MORE.
April 19, 200620 yr i think that the love given to a spouse is different from the love saved for a husband just the same as the love for a mother is different from the love to a friend, or stranger! so IF kids did come around, everyone would be loved in their own way AAANNNDDDD oh damn...i forgot! :dead:
April 19, 200620 yr I'm kinda scared to have kids. They say when you're a kid, you'll say "I'm never gonna treat my kid like my parents do right now" and you'll grow up to do the same exact thing... ...I don't wanna have kids if I'm gonna be like my parents. :(
April 19, 200620 yr love ur wife and love ur kinds r totally different kind of lovee.....I mean, u love ur wife/husband and if u find out that she or he cant have kids... that would be a hard siutation....I think the sam,e of Lore, i ll adopt..... but weell, it depends on everyone... my aunt cant have kids, she realised that a few month ago.... after that she wants to have kids, but my uncle didnt want cos he has ( with other wife) a handicap kid.... so now, that she knows she cant have kids and he that dont want to have more cos he cant get through this.... they r happy together...... hehe... end of ths story....
April 19, 200620 yr I'm kinda scared to have kids. They say when you're a kid, you'll say "I'm never gonna treat my kid like my parents do right now" and you'll grow up to do the same exact thing... ...I don't wanna have kids if I'm gonna be like my parents. :( this might sound weird, but if I'm going to be like my dad, hell yeah! I want to be just like him :nice: I have a great relationship with him and I think I like very much the way he treats my brother and me. same with my mom
April 19, 200620 yr ^^anita...you hit the spot! anyway, ...you're parents are that way for a reason! I mean, because i know all the things i got away with that parents would not agree with..in my mind i say "man, my girl is gonna live the holy life of a nun..if i can so something to help it!" and fathers are super protective because they know what kids/boys do to girls so father and mothers know what they are protecting you against
April 19, 200620 yr Author I wish I had a really good relationship with my parents.... I think that's like one of the most important things in life and I never had one
April 19, 200620 yr really? that's nuts! :freak: enjoy life while ya can..i imagine you meant later.... pshh i wanna get married in my early 20's and have kids. i wish i was married right now.
April 19, 200620 yr ditto (to Eric) and it hurts to admit that i do not have had not had a good relationship with my parents since i was old enough to fend for myself (pretty young...like when I was potty trained and could get at food from the fridge myself..that young). but I would rather accept this truth than give a nonn truth And it feels woozy sometimes when I see kiddos with a good relationship with their mams and paps.....but i dont never really had will not have a good one And because (for other reasons too) of this, sometimes I think I will make un unworthy parent. I didn't have that important life example from good parents. Not even an inkling! And many say, oh you will make a good un! (parent) or, you can learn, Crystal! But I do not think so
April 19, 200620 yr pshh i wanna get married in my early 20's and have kids. i wish i was married right now. :laugh3: cute!
April 19, 200620 yr well, I think that is important, but if u didnt have a good relationship with them, so u have to try ur best to get through this... and ... I dont know, maybe one day u have better relationship with them ....... ur relationmship with ur parents is so bad???
April 19, 200620 yr pshh i wanna get married in my early 20's and have kids. i wish i was married right now. hahaha that's weird.. i mean.. i can't imagine be married now.. noooooo... even in a few years.. no way! I want kids.. but not soon... I want to be the best mom in the entire world.. hahahaha.... maybe I'll be terrible... I wanna live in a wooden house, where making more friends would be easy... I wanna live where the sun comes out hehehehe :D
April 19, 200620 yr I wanna live in a wooden house, where making more friends would be easy... I wanna live where the sun comes out hehehehe :D aaawww :blush:
April 19, 200620 yr well, I think that is important, but if u didnt have a good relationship with them, so u have to try ur best to get through this... and ... I dont know, maybe one day u have better relationship with them ....... ur relationmship with ur parents is so bad??? 2 witu
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