I want kids but I don't want to get married!!!! :huh:

I want to have kids........I want to "continue" my family....I feel like I have to do it.....and of cours ebecause I would be proud and would love thm because they are MY kids.....

If I knew me and my husband couldn't have kids....well.......this would be very hard for me...and at the moment I can't imagine that becuase actually I wouldn't know what to do then.....I don't want to adopt somehow....

I would like to have at least one kid........... but thats if I am lucky enough to meet someone to have a kid with !

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seeeeeeeeeee' date=' I REEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYY don't want to adopt.. :embarassed: I've seen a lot of adopted kids and for some reason all of them seemed to behave badly... I guess that means I'm REALLY selfish.... and I believe I am[/quote']

 

 

that's so wrong ... sorry :P i have 3 adopted cousins and they're not behaving bad at all ... of course its rather hard for them to accept that they're adopted but once they've accepted that ... they're just like u and me, or like me anyway :thinking:

yes... Im aggree with u cos I know ppl who is adoped and they r like me...

the most difficul part to get through for an adopted kid , I think , is the adolescens... but if he/she has enought support and love from their parents... everything would be allrigth!:)

kids r evthin

am I the only person here that don't like babies???

I like kids at the age of 3 and older. Little babies need too much care! I don't want even to have a baby. I want to adopt a 3 or 4-year-old boy. His name will be Ethen. :)

 

btw almost all my friends don't like babies....it's quite strange indeed :D

meh ... i like kids from 0-4 and from 13 - ... Kids from 4-13 are too annoying to really like ... i actually HATE them.

seeeeeeeeeee' date=' I REEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYY don't want to adopt.. :embarassed: I've seen a lot of adopted kids and for some reason all of them seemed to behave badly... I guess that means I'm REALLY selfish.... and I believe I am[/quote']

I'm adopted

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and..well.....to be honest...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I'M A BITCH!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:wacko: no I'm not :nice: I'm nice, and my brother (who's also adopted) is a fine young man :D so you're sort of kinda wrong...:nice:

 

anyway

I reeeeeaally want to have kids like...soon. not very soon but as soon as I can if you know what I mean. but if it turns out that I can't have kids of that my husband can't have kids it would be ok casue I want to adopt anyway. I guess that's maybe because I'm adopted but I DON'T want to give birth to anyone :lol: it seems to hurt soooo much and I'm not very good with pain..it scares me.

I think I would love my kids more, I don't know why..maybe because I'm a mum...I think I would love my kids more even if they were adopted too. I would love my man veeeeery much though

meh ... i like kids from 0-4 and from 13 - ... Kids from 4-13 are too annoying to really like ... i actually HATE them.

 

same here, maybe ther should be a board school for every kid 4-13, worst age ever

At this moment in my life i think i want kids about as much as i want another hole in my arse!!

my little comment seemed to kill off this thread :laugh4:

 

 

 

 

 

 

and now ive brought it back...why ill never know

If I couldn't have kids or my wife couldn't hell yeah I'd adopt.

 

Don't think I'd adopt an English kid though. Would probably adopt a poor african orphan or something.

 

Don't ask why it's just something I'd think about, even if I did have genetically my own kids.

At this moment in my life i think i want kids about as much as i want another hole in my arse!!

 

:lol:

 

but.. who knows.. in a few years maybee??

Never want kids, I have a phobia with pregnancy... I'm absolutely TERRIFIED of it, and I never ever ever ever EVER want to be made to go through it. And if I ever become involved with a guy who is dead set on making me his personal baby machine then, bye bye.

 

I would definately consider adoption. I don't want to bring a new child into such a fucked up world. But there's so many kids in need of direction and love in this world, and if someone's willing to give it, then so be it!

 

 

I know a few people from my school who are adopted, and they're all really nice, normal people! So I wouldn't stereotype adopted children that easily...;) Some kids who come from certain orphanages (the easiest example that pops into my mind is ones in Russia) mistreat children at a young age, and then that effects them through the rest of their lives. They get anti social, etc etc. It's so sad...

it would be a little disappointing if i found ou tthat my husband couldn't have kids but ... i wouldn't die then ... i'd adopt one :) he he~

 

i don't know who i'd love more ...i'd love both of course but ... mhh ... dunno

 

i really wanna have a family maybe two kids (a boy and a girl) and a lovely husband. that's all i want

am I the only person here that don't like babies???

I like kids at the age of 3 and older. Little babies need too much care! I don't want even to have a baby. I want to adopt a 3 or 4-year-old boy. His name will be Ethen. :)

 

btw almost all my friends don't like babies....it's quite strange indeed :D

 

Well...I can't say that i don't like babies...no....but I'm also a person who "gets along" better with children at the age of 2 and upwards....

at this age I KNOW they understand me....

actually i don't know what "to do" with babies...but if they were my own it would be something else i think...

when i first thought about kids i was against it, i dont go well with kids, they send me mad. but now when i think about it , its not such a bad idea. if i was to have kids id have two boys (dont know why).

if i found out that i couldnt have kids that would be a bit disheartening but i would be able to deal with it with my husband.

i also agree with the different kinds of love you can have, like i would love my kids differently as i would love my husband. i supppose having kids would give you a nurturing love towards them, and your husband an intimate kind of love?? i dont really know but its a guess

i dont think i want kids that much... I wanna get married that's for sure- cause I wanna have someone to be with for when I grow old.

But I dont know about kids. I would definetly out career before kids...

 

Maybe like when i'm 30... cause I'd also wanna be financially secured before I have any.... but i really dont know

I'm only 18!!

anyway

I reeeeeaally want to have kids like...soon. not very soon but as soon as I can if you know what I mean.

eh...I've changed my mind. I don't want kids that much anymore, I can wait. I don't know why I said that I reeeally want kids hahaha but I don't want that anyomore now anyway.

 

but when I do have kids, I want at least two, a boy and and a girl.

eh...I've changed my mind. I don't want kids that much anymore, I can wait. I don't know why I said that I reeeally want kids hahaha but I don't want that anyomore now anyway.

 

but when I do have kids, I want at least two, a boy and and a girl.

 

 

:huh: why the sudden change of plans!!??

it's nothing special acctually..I just thought about it and changed my mind. I'm not really to have a kid at all and I just don't wat one anymore. So I changed my mind :D it's way too much resposible as well and I would probably not be a vey good mum until I've lived a few more years. A few...like ...10 :P

of course, I wouldn't die for that! If we wanted to have kids and we wouldn't be able, we could adopt some, as the others said, I think it could be a good solution. Anyway, at the moment, I'm not thinking about kids, 'cause (I know it may sound weird) I don't like them... they're pretty annoying, and you need to spend a lot of time taking care of them, so you don't have any time for you. When you've kids, you only live for them.

 

Even though I see kids just like a "problem" at the moment, I'm not sure if I'd love more my partner than them... It's just another kind of love, I'm sure about that, but I think that the relationship that a mother has with their children is very deep and intimate... and I'm sure that if any mother would have to choose between her husband and her children, she wouldn't have any doubt, she'd choose her children. ;)

eh...I've changed my mind. I don't want kids that much anymore, I can wait. I don't know why I said that I reeeally want kids hahaha but I don't want that anyomore now anyway.

 

but when I do have kids, I want at least two, a boy and and a girl.

 

I want two boys... or a boy and a girl.. but not just girls.. hehehe