this is so incredibly ridiculous.

whatsoever.

the lounge is dead so i can also entertain you with my boring life/problem.

well, first of all i've gotta tell you that i'm not very often attracted to guys.

i hardly ever find a bloke attractive. i dunno why. perhaps my standards are too high. lol. i just don't know.

so i attend a new school these days and there's this guy in my year and ... he's superb. i cannot find any words to describe him. he is gorgeous and all in all perfect (i know, this is just my point of view ;)).

i'm not very lucky, which means that i do not share a single course with him :(

the question is... how am i supposed to draw his attention to me? :dozey:

i dunno... i haven't felt these feeling in years. it's so weird and he's too awesome.

[i am sorry for this very childish thread, but i'm not even embarrassed!]

My standards are pretty high too. Every time I'm with my friends, they always find a guy and I'm like 'meh'. I've yet to find one that's perfect as you had. :P

 

Hmm...to get this attention....

 

Just go near him, but don't make it so obvious that you are purposely getting near him. And if you guys are kinda alone or whatever, just say hi and start up a conversation. Introduce yourself, tell him you're new here, etc. Just be natural and friendly. Don't make it seem as though you are attracted to him. Act like you're just getting acquainted with him. Ask him a few questions about the school, or whatever. Maybe ask him what his interests are. At least that's what I'd do. :P

 

I have absolutely no experience with guys, so perhaps my little schpeel was pointless. But you could give it a try. You never know, you guys could talk for a long time. :nice:

 

 

By the way...do you have a picture of him? If not, can you describe him? :P :lol:

Pretend you're lost and say "excuse me, where is............." but say it in German :P

 

 

or

 

 

carry a whole bunch of things, books or something, and walk into him and drop them all. That way he has to help you pick them up, and if he doesn't help you, it means he's not worth bothering with. It's a personality test as well.

 

 

 

 

... They could work :P

 

I wouldn't listen to my advice on guys though, I am one. We're all different. I'd help you pick up your books, though :P

the thing is that it's not really a whole new school.

it's right across the street from my old one :P

it's like my freshman year... (at least i think it is...)

whatsoever. i should know that school better than him :)

i don't have a photo... yet, but here's a short discription.

he's tall and he's got longer blonde hair and a cute cut. it's like...all stylish ^^

he's got the bluest eyes i've ever seen and he's very kind (i observed him :P).

he doesn't have any prejudices and talks to EVERYONE... such as the weirdo goth freak as well as to the classic outsider. plus, i've heard he's very funny.

however, he's got those strong arms.. and i love his style. saw he shops at H&M (yeah, i knew where his jeans were coming from) and he's just awesomely dressed.

gosh, am i being biased now?

i'm not sure about that whole "bumping into one" or just talking to him thing.

our school got pretty big and it's always very crowded in the breaks and he's never alone.

i can only hope that we both might have a free period at the same time. :(

A guy that has style!? :stunned: Impressive! :nice:

 

Hmmm Maybe he's friend with one of your friends...and perhaps you guys will run into eachother at a party or something.

 

Or just wait to see where fate takes you. Everything happens for a reason.

I don't think this is a childish thread but pretty interesting. Or maybe Im still a bit chidish, don't know. Anyway, maybe a way to meet him would be thanks to some of your friends ? For example, imagine he's speaking to someone who you know a bit... You could come up to them and say something to this friend of yours (find something to say) and at least you'd be there, in front of him and hopefully this person you know might introduce you him. Or you could do it by yourself.

there really is this possibility.

i got two close friends who share courses with him, but i know i'd end up being totally shy and saying STUPID things.

that's just me.

i'm so silly when it comes to those situations :(

my heart would beat so fast...i'd faint. lol.

really, i'm too weak to handle such situations (see, what an idiotic excuse i found!).

i just don't wanna end up being rejected. :cry:

oh, Grace everybody is afraid of being rejected, even him. And honestly, if someone rejects you, then it's not worthy. At all.

 

At last you've got this possibility, and even though you think you wouldnt be able to face it, you've got to get to the idea that some day you may have to 'cos you want to have the chance to talk to him - at least - don't you? And thanks to that you could really value if he's such a nice bloke and stuff that you're thinking right now. You might have idealized him - that happens a lot. The worst thing that could happen is that you realised that you were right... then you'd likely fall in love (if you hadnt had yet)

ah I find this really interesting to read Grace ( no joke) because I always feel the same in situations like this one---and I always fail because I'm too shy....so I can't really give you an advice, because I know I wouldn't do it....

 

 

so all I can do is wishing you good luck:daisy:

Sounds so cliche, but really...the best you can do is just be yourself. If you were ever to talk to him, or your friends introduce you guys to each other, don't even think about how you like him so much. Sounds hard, but it's just how to get through it.

 

Be natural and yourself, and I'm sure there's going to be that one time where everything will fall into place.

i think we've all been in this situation already.

it's because i've never been lucky before.

being rejected is one of the worst things ever.

you fall into a deep deep black hole and you feel all depressive.

and i wouldn't get my ass back to school then because it would be too embarrassing for me.

you all know what i mean.

i know i idealised him. hehe. he just seems so lovely and kind and he's nice to everyone.

ah fuck. i'll never talk to him because i don't have the guts to do so.

If you're lucky, it'll happen for you and he'll talk to you or you'll cross paths somehow else.

 

 

But don't sit around and wait for it.

 

 

 

 

The problem is, some guys think that it's the girls job to make the first move, while some girls think it's the guys job. Maybe this guy is the kind of guy to make the first move.

If he's worthy, it'll happen.

wise words, Annie :nice:

 

i made a mate of mine ask him for his MSN address (they're together in maths class) and he got it! =) but he said that it always says he's online, but he's hardly ever at his computer. :(

i dunno... i should make that mate of mine talk bout me or stuff like that... and yeah, i dunno... ARGH! he could just... accidentally give him my MSN address.

i have no clue what to do, but i also don't wanna start off in a bad way. :\

but in the end he's just an ordinary human being, too.

he doesn't shit blossoms or anything fancy.

wise words, Annie :nice:

 

i made a mate of mine ask him for his MSN address (they're together in maths class) and he got it! =) but he said that it always says he's online, but he's hardly ever at his computer. :(

i dunno... i should make that mate of mine talk bout me or stuff like that... and yeah, i dunno... ARGH! he could just... accidentally give him my MSN address.

i have no clue what to do, but i also don't wanna start off in a bad way. :\

 

but in the end he's just an ordinary human being, too.

he doesn't shit blossoms or anything fancy.

 

I had a friend like that once, his MSN was pretty much always online, but for most of time he wasn't at the computer, which was annoying.

 

Don't ask me for advice on love.

wise words, Annie :nice:

 

i made a mate of mine ask him for his MSN address (they're together in maths class) and he got it! =) but he said that it always says he's online, but he's hardly ever at his computer. :(

i dunno... i should make that mate of mine talk bout me or stuff like that... and yeah, i dunno... ARGH! he could just... accidentally give him my MSN address.

i have no clue what to do, but i also don't wanna start off in a bad way. :\

 

but in the end he's just an ordinary human being, too.

he doesn't shit blossoms or anything fancy.

 

Thanks. :nice:

 

You should get a friend to talk to him on MSN to see if he's on, and then if he's at the computer, just send him a message and say hi. Like you said, he's an ordinary human being, so I'm sure he would like to meet someone new and get to know them. If he doesn't really know you, then he can't really judge.

We're expecting daily updates on this by the way, Grace.

 

^^

gosh, that friend of mine and i made up some sorta plan. lol.

they're together in maths class this morning and he said that he's gonna stick with him in the break. so i shall go greet my friend and stuff and he'll introduce us to another.

i dunno...hope it kinda works out. i get so super nervous when he's around and i hope he doesn't think i'm a dorky idiot. :confused:

whatsoever... i hope that friend of mine will give him my MSN address sometime during the weekend. like... "oh, here's this chick. why don't you just talk to her? like... just for fun."

oh gawd. that'd be too amazing.

That sounds like a good plan. :nice:

yeeee....good luck today Grace:wacko:

^ Ditto. Good luck Grace! :wink:

 

And I do agree with Jack back there.. we're expecting updates on the matter!!

 

:smiley:

i basically fucked up.

we have two different school yards at the moment and i was always at the wrong one.

but he hung out with my friend all breaks!

see, it's not supposed to happen.

that's a sign

Grace, who said you only had till Friday?

 

:P

naaah, it's just so annoying because.. i dunno. i'm not used to that "getting-to-know-someone-who's-totally-my-type" feeling.

Well it's a good feeling, so don't give up!!! You still have time.