I've been in a similar situation when I was in school

 

I can't remember what I did about it....I think I didn't do anything special, because it wouldn't have changed anything...I think in the end I was just super annoyed

 

all I want to tell you is:

please don't think you're a bad friend....I used to think that as well until some months ago...some girls just often act like they were the centre of attention and forget other peoples' problems...or just don't realise that others have problems as well. I had and have friends who are like that.....but thinking you're a bad friend just pulls you down...

 

if she annoys you too much you should probably avoid her....she will realise that something is wrong...(if talking doesn't help...)

Close the friendship. Stuff like this can make people snap permanently, this looks like one of those people.

 

I'm having the same exact problem and more... Guess what? I'm not complaining (and this is the second time this has happened too), I've been able keep all my friends and have NO problems with anyone at school.

 

My family is so broke right now if we don't move out in a few weeks we're going to be homeless... my mother hasn't even found an apartment yet either, they're all pretty far out of our budget...And then my Stepfather is sitting in a nice comfy house, with his whore of a girlfriend, and we're in a financial crisis. LOVELY WORLD IT IS.

 

Oh and I've also had a friend who's gone through divorce and she's developed anger issues, treated me rudely, and she's so SPOILED. Her parents buy her everything and she thinks she's the most greatest actor ever, I SWEAR. And it really pushes me because acting is my only talent and I'm pretty proud because I've gotten lead roles in plays for students in much higher grades than my own (not to brag or anything but I got lead role last year, so I'm pretty sure I'm not that bad). Then she complains she gets shit roles because she actually really sucks and she doesn't speak clearly.

 

It's not helping me through my own situation, I never at any point acted in such a way... Her parents buy whatever she wants, and it's sad that she treats them in such away because they really are very nice people.

 

But I'm pretty thankful for my folks, this year my entire family and all my friends got together to get me two tickets for a Music Festival for my birthday. So, I'm really clueless on how the fuck she would be capable of buying an electric guitar all on her own, on no certain occasion (ID KILL FOR AN ELECTRIC GUITAR DUDE, IVE WANTED TO LEARN SINCE I WAS 7 ;___;).

 

Anyways, your not a bad friend for wanting to do this. In fact your a strong person for wanting to break a friendship because it simply isn't working. A+

Language here is a mixture. :freak:

 

Nope she won't. Maybe I'll do that one day, if I think I've had enough.

 

 

 

Haha I told ya, memang kepala batu gila! If she has decided on one thing, you don't have to waste time trying to change her mind. Buang masa je kot.

Haha, a'ah should have positive thoughts during Ramadhan. Ni dah kira mengumpat, which is not good. Aiseh.

 

Gosh, I don't think I can help them. :hug:

 

 

Freak weih, she over over sudah. :|

Ahaha! :laugh3:

 

To me it sounds like she's looking for attention. Trying to point out all of the problems she has and really putting them under a magnifying glass to everyone else.

 

I wouldn't break up a friendship over it, but I might somehow confront the friend and let her know how you feel in that it's getting annoying how much she complains when she should be happy/grateful for all she has.

all I want to tell you is:

please don't think you're a bad friend....I used to think that as well until some months ago...some girls just often act like they were the centre of attention and forget other peoples' problems...or just don't realise that others have problems as well. I had and have friends who are like that.....but thinking you're a bad friend just pulls you down...

 

Thank you for saying that :hug:

 

Close the friendship. Stuff like this can make people snap permanently, this looks like one of those people.

 

I'm having the same exact problem and more... Guess what? I'm not complaining (and this is the second time this has happened too), I've been able keep all my friends and have NO problems with anyone at school.

 

My family is so broke right now if we don't move out in a few weeks we're going to be homeless... my mother hasn't even found an apartment yet either, they're all pretty far out of our budget...And then my Stepfather is sitting in a nice comfy house, with his whore of a girlfriend, and we're in a financial crisis. LOVELY WORLD IT IS.

 

Oh and I've also had a friend who's gone through divorce and she's developed anger issues, treated me rudely, and she's so SPOILED. Her parents buy her everything and she thinks she's the most greatest actor ever, I SWEAR. And it really pushes me because acting is my only talent and I'm pretty proud because I've gotten lead roles in plays for students in much higher grades than my own (not to brag or anything but I got lead role last year, so I'm pretty sure I'm not that bad). Then she complains she gets shit roles because she actually really sucks and she doesn't speak clearly.

 

It's not helping me through my own situation, I never at any point acted in such a way... Her parents buy whatever she wants, and it's sad that she treats them in such away because they really are very nice people.

 

But I'm pretty thankful for my folks, this year my entire family and all my friends got together to get me two tickets for a Music Festival for my birthday. So, I'm really clueless on how the fuck she would be capable of buying an electric guitar all on her own, on no certain occasion (ID KILL FOR AN ELECTRIC GUITAR DUDE, IVE WANTED TO LEARN SINCE I WAS 7 ;___;).

 

Anyways, your not a bad friend for wanting to do this. In fact your a strong person for wanting to break a friendship because it simply isn't working. A+

 

Sorry to hear about your family's situation. Hopefully things will turn the other way round for you and your family :wink:

 

And I'll try to work things out with her. At the end of the day, I do think that she's a nice person and that's what important I guess. Plus there must be certain things that I do that she has to put up for too, and that's what friendship is all about.

 

To me it sounds like she's looking for attention. Trying to point out all of the problems she has and really putting them under a magnifying glass to everyone else.

 

I wouldn't break up a friendship over it, but I might somehow confront the friend and let her know how you feel in that it's getting annoying how much she complains when she should be happy/grateful for all she has.

 

People know how she is so there's no need to do that. Plus I wouldn't want to make it even worse by highlighting her bad sides to everyone.

 

However, I do agree that confronting might be affective, but I have to build the courage to do that in a way that will not ruin our relationship first. Which I found pretty hard to do.

your friend's a total bitch.

I don't know how to respond to that tbh :blank:

ONE MORE POST TO 3000, ZEYA.

lol I didn't realise it until you pointed it out.

So you made a thread whining about someone whining?