Zeya Posted August 17, 2010 Share Posted August 17, 2010 Okay here's the thing. I have a friend that is so whiny that she complains about every single thing. About her parents, her financial status, her studies, her pracs, every single freaking thing. While friends should be willing to listen to each others' problems, it's starting to get on my nerves (and practically all the people around her as well). For example, she keeps on complaining about how broke she is and how her parents never give her money anymore. Some of our friends really do come from poor (unfortunate? oh shit I don't know the politicaly correct term for it) family and I do think her whining has made them feel a bit uncomfortable. Then after all the whining, suddenly just now she posted on facebook that she's contemplating whether she's gonna buy a new electric guitar or a netbook. She just bought an electric guitar last two moths and her laptop is still working perfectly well so isn't that showing that she has the luxury to spend? Plus she always spend like nearly $200 for a pair of jeans and other very expensive things. When I told her she should think about the rest of our unfortunate friends and be more careful with her words when she's around them she'd just snap at me and say others can get what they want if they try harder. Oh and few days ago she posted this on her fb: "If anyone ask me now whether I have a best friend or not I'd say I have none." WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MAKE US FEEL? We (as in me and the other close friends) have been there for her for every single time and we even backed her up whenever people say bad things about her. I don't know what I can do to shut her up and make her realise how lucky she is to be in her situation. Others would kill to get a chance to live her life in her big house driving her big car and having great friends surrounding them even for only a day. I feel bad for feeling this way as she is actually a really good friend, and I don't want to ruin the friendship, but it's getting a bit tiring now. Help me cpers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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