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Seauriesly it's not weird at all.

Just take it easy.

:lol: :stunned:

 

oh dear, i've never been in that kind of dilemma before, and im not sure what to say, but i guess you should ask yourself if you can really see yourself having a future with this guy. if not, it may be time to tell him so :confused:

um u just answered ur own question!!!...if u know ur not in love, then be up front with him...let him know in the beginning b4 u break his heart and feel worse about urself :confused: :confused: :confused:

yeah... I was honest with him... and that's what makes me feel even worse... I told him so... and he was still like: "But my feelings aren't gonna change even if you did the most horrible things to me" and I don't want to be doing that!

I feel so much like a total bitch because I am not in love with him... but I guess I should just calm down... because you can't force your feelings... either way...

 

 

*sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh*

I feel like a mega bitch.......... :confused:

I felt the same with my last boyfriend, so I know how is it :confused:

Tanith - tell him it, if you aren't sure that you love him.....it isn't easy, but you should......it'll be better for him and for you too, maybe he won't understand you in the beginning, but do it...I did the same

Like I told you, be honest with the guy. It will hurt him, but he´ll feel better after some time. :kiss:

awwwwww Tanith that happen to me ALWAYS!..... :/ ...I always end up running away from guys who wants to be with me... :( :confused: ...the commitment idea freaks me out...over all when is about someone I don´t wish to be with!...well that sounds like honesty by my side but I´m sorry for the guys who are in the other side!... :(

me too... especially coz he is such a sweet heart! OMG! He even got me a webdomain and space for my website for my birthday today ( http://www.tanith.nl) , and my B-Day is in 15 days! :/ .. OMG!!! He is truly a sweetie! And I feel like a bitch!! :/

 

But I do like him! :D

wow!....that pic is great....the sun! :sunny: ..... :blush: ....where were you there?

In a forest! It was so much fun!!! :D :sunny: We had loads of fun that day :D

he must really love you!... :blush: ...

:smug: very sweet of him giving you a domain

:cool: in less than 2 weeks you'll be in love with him

I dunno, in my opinion, i think if you are worried about it, its happening to fast, i think these things should really flow smoothly, you know, its kinda of a build on brick by brick situation rather than rushing it, cos that way, everything feels right...

 

you know what i mean?

I hope so!

I say give it some time. You told him how you feel, so he knows, so just see what happens now. Maybe you will fall in love with him. :cool:

yeah... I just want to give it time :D... and I've spoken to him now, and I am not freaking out any more... :smug:

I say give it some time. You told him how you feel' date=' so he knows, so just see what happens now. Maybe you will fall in love with him. :cool:[/quote']

 

yeah, me and Tom are right, we are always right :P

nooooooo :sick: :stunned:

 

Peed is right, always right.. he's our :smartass2:

 

but you ...hmmmm .....you made that 'manties'-thread and you've got that ultracheesy sig... :rolleyes:

haha kalter, you indeed are certainly the man, lol

 

you kill me sometimes...so funny :lol:

 

maybe i'll get your acceptance one day :P

well you'll need to work hard :worried:

well you'll need to work hard :worried:

 

how about I set you up with a good woman?

Ahhh now we are talking :cool3:

 

Hook me up with infooo :wink3:

let´s see that!.... :sneaky: