twin4life Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 sorry to keep bugging all of you. but i'm in this stupid situation. ok. there's this girl that i met this year in my first year of high school and was in my one of my classes. i was friendly at first, cos y'know, new people and everything. but she got really annoying. i gave her my e-mail and phone number in the beginning of the year because i thought we could be friends. but the thing is, i really don't like her. i even TOLD her that i didn't like her but she just took it as a joke. and one more thing. as far as i know, she has like, 1 friend that she's mostly with. that 1 friend, happens to be a girl i've been friends with forever but recently last year i had to do one of the worst things ever, i actually had to cut my friendship off with her because of waaaaaay to many reasons and a story that is too long and comlicated to share. so she invited me for a sleepover for her birthday. first of all, i don't like her but i've gone to her house once for school related reasons. and i could never in a billion years have a sleepover with that 1 girl. second of all, it would be WAY too akward. *sigh* people suck. i want her to know that i don't want to be friends with her without being mean, and for her to believe me. gah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LiquidSky Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Solution: Ignore her ;) You don't have to say anything..unless she comes to you first ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twin4life Posted February 5, 2005 Author Share Posted February 5, 2005 Solution: Ignore her ;) You don't have to say anything..unless she comes to you first ;) yeah i've been trying that. she won't stop calling! i'm just glad i don't have class with her next semester. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LiquidSky Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Disconect the line.. that's what I do..hehe :smug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twin4life Posted February 5, 2005 Author Share Posted February 5, 2005 :lol: she called me 3 times today :stunned: 2 times i was actually out. the third i was "busy". hah and there's no way i can disconnect it in my house. someones always needs the phone. today my dad said "sam called for you, i have her number for you to call her back. and i said "you don't anymore" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momou Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 have a chat with her and try to explain why you don't like her or tell her she's too different from you or stupid things like that :sneaky: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bijeli_Miš Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 People suck, but arnie rocks :smug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gib786 Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Just sit her down and tell her that you dont like her, and if that doesnt work then call up the phone ocmpany your with and get them to block any calls from her number Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creedie Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 dont talk to her she'll soon get the hint. advoid her. when you see her turn around and walk the opposit way. beat her to the ground with a stick and pull her eyes out so she cant see. stick her eyes on the stick and march around the school cheering. mwhahaha she never talk to you gain then. *fewh* the relief Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bijeli_Miš Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Akward, i don't really know what to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creedie Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Akward' date=' i don't really know what to say.[/quote'] awkard about what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 sorry to keep bugging all of you. but i'm in this stupid situation. ok. there's this girl that i met this year in my first year of high school and was in my one of my classes. i was friendly at first, cos y'know, new people and everything. but she got really annoying. i gave her my e-mail and phone number in the beginning of the year because i thought we could be friends. but the thing is, i really don't like her. i even TOLD her that i didn't like her but she just took it as a joke. and one more thing. as far as i know, she has like, 1 friend that she's mostly with. that 1 friend, happens to be a girl i've been friends with forever but recently last year i had to do one of the worst things ever, i actually had to cut my friendship off with her because of waaaaaay to many reasons and a story that is too long and comlicated to share. so she invited me for a sleepover for her birthday. first of all, i don't like her but i've gone to her house once for school related reasons. and i could never in a billion years have a sleepover with that 1 girl. second of all, it would be WAY too akward. *sigh* people suck. i want her to know that i don't want to be friends with her without being mean, and for her to believe me. gah. emm dont know, tell her you still fancy someone else thats what I had to do recently pity as well as they were stunning, but I did not like them like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bijeli_Miš Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Akward' date=' i don't really know what to say.[/quote'] awkard about what? The situation.I mean if she keeps annoying her then it seems the only solution is to be rude.And that can produce a lot of bad situations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sternly Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 It's weird to see the replies you get. Like "Ignore her", it sounds dead easy, and so does the problem, but it's not, since Mandy is so complicated about this. Just ignoring a person must be difficult, I think; I've never done by myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mycdplayerisbroke Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 ignoring isn't difficult at all. it's like the easiest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sternly Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 I thought you were Lotta :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mycdplayerisbroke Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 i thought you were gone :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twin4life Posted February 5, 2005 Author Share Posted February 5, 2005 sorry to keep bugging all of you. but i'm in this stupid situation. ok. there's this girl that i met this year in my first year of high school and was in my one of my classes. i was friendly at first, cos y'know, new people and everything. but she got really annoying. i gave her my e-mail and phone number in the beginning of the year because i thought we could be friends. but the thing is, i really don't like her. i even TOLD her that i didn't like her but she just took it as a joke. and one more thing. as far as i know, she has like, 1 friend that she's mostly with. that 1 friend, happens to be a girl i've been friends with forever but recently last year i had to do one of the worst things ever, i actually had to cut my friendship off with her because of waaaaaay to many reasons and a story that is too long and comlicated to share. so she invited me for a sleepover for her birthday. first of all, i don't like her but i've gone to her house once for school related reasons. and i could never in a billion years have a sleepover with that 1 girl. second of all, it would be WAY too akward. *sigh* people suck. i want her to know that i don't want to be friends with her without being mean, and for her to believe me. gah. emm dont know, tell her you still fancy someone else thats what I had to do recently pity as well as they were stunning, but I did not like them like that oh heh, i think you might have the wrong situation. we're both girls, but she just won't stop bugging me. i actually took her call today, told her i couldn't go to her party. it's not like that, she wants to be friends. i don't want anything with her. :/ and today when she called she's like "you bum. i hate you". because i couldn't come. and i'm like "uh...yeah". if anyone else said that to me jokingly i 'd always say "love you to" but i won't say that to her. because i love my friends. note: friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LiquidSky Posted February 6, 2005 Share Posted February 6, 2005 It's weird to see the replies you get. Like "Ignore her", it sounds dead easy, and so does the problem, but it's not, since Mandy is so complicated about this. Just ignoring a person must be difficult, I think; I've never done by myself. Are you serious? Ignoring is the best solution.. When you dislike someone you simply don't want to be around them and if you do..you'll be surprise about how you'll be finding any excuse to beat them up.. :smug: and you really don't want to go those extremes.. (sounds harsh..but it's the truth). Some things are better left unsaid....if you don't have nothing nice to say it's better not to say them..'cause you'll be ending up saying more than what you meant to say and there are a lot of people that take things way too much to the heart and that is bad because you don't want to lower their self esteem either (unless you are that mean) Also you don't want them to be your friend either..because they'll notice that you dislike them and they'll be finding ways to stab you in the back. :) Everybody hates hypocrites. That's why when you really care about someone, you talk it over with them..because you care..if you don't care, you ignore them and everybody's happy :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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