Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 Albie, all you can do is be there for her whenever and if she needs you. If you persist trying to tell her about this guy you could drive her away. When you read the true life columns in mags, you frequently see about battered girlfriends and how alot of their friends deserted them when they wouldn't go out partying/shopping etc anymore (not that I'm saying he's gonna batter her or anything, it was just a useful comparison). If you're a true friend you'll stick by no matter what and be there for support . Its really difficult watching but you have to let her make her own mistakes. I guess so :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Albie, all you can do is be there for her whenever and if she needs you. If you persist trying to tell her about this guy you could drive her away. When you read the true life columns in mags, you frequently see about battered girlfriends and how alot of their friends deserted them when they wouldn't go out partying/shopping etc anymore (not that I'm saying he's gonna batter her or anything, it was just a useful comparison). If you're a true friend you'll stick by no matter what and be there for support . Its really difficult watching but you have to let her make her own mistakes. ahh we think alike! ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 but I must admit........it really sucks watching someone who's on the verge of a mistake :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenjie Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 yup, but at the same time you don't want to risk alienating her. there's nothing worse than someone telling you your making a mistake. Don't know about anyone else but if that person persists too long it makes me really stubborn and I won't even consider taking their opinion on board. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 I'm just confused........I'm sorry if I've annoyed you people with my situation :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenjie Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 not annoyed at all, just trying to offer some helpful advice :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 thank you :embarrased: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Albietron, just be her friend. Don't tell her what to do b/c it will just aggravate her. She's a big girl, if she wants to hang with him, let her. But if anything does happen (ie. her getting hurt somehow), swoop on in and just be the best supportive friend you can be. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeftLeg Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Fuck him up Albie, knock his dick in the dirt! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egghead Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 run away and join the circus. she'll notice then :idea2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KEEK1 Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 sometimes you need to let people make mistacks. that is how people grow. i know i have learn for others mistakes. just be there for her if she needs you that is all you can do. and telling her not to hang out with people, will just make her just do it anyway. just be there. that is all you can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 I know........but me and her are close :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KEEK1 Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 i know my friend makes mistakes all the time i tell her diffrent and she does it anyway. i am still her friend though just be there for her that is all you can do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 you're right I guess :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KEEK1 Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 yeah i am...we have all been here before sometime in our lives Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 *raises hand* yup.. I have too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 I'm her best mate...and I should act like it :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KEEK1 Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 yep that is all u can do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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