berrywoman Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 you don't understand' date=' there's a spark and this girl still says I'm not romanticly attracted to you.........I'm lost :confused:[/quote'] maybe the spark is only coming from you.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 you don't understand' date=' there's a spark and this girl still says I'm not romanticly attracted to you.........I'm lost :confused:[/quote'] maybe the spark is only coming from you.... no, she feels the spark as well she has told me many times, that we have a chemistry that's rare :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nellie Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 it takes two to tango.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 yes it's so easy to feel the spark come from the other and its only from you :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Its very difficult to distinguish between romantic & sexual attraction because they have so many similarities. I guess its like finding the perfect wedding dress - you think you know what it is but then it completely surprises you and there's this moment of clarity when you know its the right one and nothing else will do. And I can't describe the feeling because it constantly changes yet still has the same focus. romantic connection and a purely sexual connection... yes, two totally different things.. I think romantic=lovey dovey stuff.. pure sex.. is just that, sex. period. thats more of a lust attraction. Which isnt as complicated as a romantic relationship.. if you know what you're doing. :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 you don't understand' date=' there's a spark and this girl still says I'm not romanticly attracted to you.........I'm lost :confused:[/quote'] maybe the spark is only coming from you.... no, she feels the spark as well she has told me many times, that we have a chemistry that's rare :/ then she's playing games.. kick her to the curb.. dont waste your time dude... you'll only get hurt in the end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenjie Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 you don't understand' date=' there's a spark and this girl still says I'm not romanticly attracted to you.........I'm lost :confused:[/quote'] maybe the spark is only coming from you.... no, she feels the spark as well she has told me many times, that we have a chemistry that's rare :/ Mmmmmmm, but there's different types of chemistry. Me & my mate Lucy have a very rare chemistry but its definitely of the platonic friendship type. What you have to weigh up is how much she means to you? Do you want to rush thingas and run the risk of losing her altogether? Or will you take your time, see how things work out, and at the very least keep her as a good frined? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 you don't understand' date=' there's a spark and this girl still says I'm not romanticly attracted to you.........I'm lost :confused:[/quote'] maybe the spark is only coming from you.... no, she feels the spark as well she has told me many times, that we have a chemistry that's rare :/ then she's playing games.. kick her to the curb.. dont waste your time dude... you'll only get hurt in the end. I can't she's my best friend :cry: I love her to death :bigcry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 you don't understand' date=' there's a spark and this girl still says I'm not romanticly attracted to you.........I'm lost :confused:[/quote'] maybe the spark is only coming from you.... no, she feels the spark as well she has told me many times, that we have a chemistry that's rare :/ then she's playing games.. kick her to the curb.. dont waste your time dude... you'll only get hurt in the end. I can't she's my best friend :cry: I love her to death :bigcry: then you need to decide whats more important.. her friendship or this 'thing' you have for her.. you might end up losing her friendship if you keep pressuring her to like you. Unfortunately you need to accept that she doesnt see you like that, and I know that might hurt.. but in the end.. you still have a special friendship that no one else can have with er.. you're her best friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 Camille - thank you :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Camille - thank you :( aww sorry dude.. :embarrased: you'll make it though... you have 'faith' and thats all you need.. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 Camille - it's hard sometimes, you know :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nellie Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 wow, some great advice in here today... :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 I know, I think Camille is really exprienced with these type of things, I'm still learning at 20, (gonna be 21 on March 30) :wink3: :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Camille - it's hard sometimes' date=' you know :([/quote'] I know.. I think we've all been there at one point or another.. at least I have. I had a crush once on a guy.. and it turned out to be one of my best friends.. he later ended up dating and marrying one of my other best friends.. (which later ended up being my ex best friend) but thats another story.. the point is.. I gave up my 'crush' to save my friendship.. :cool: we're not as close anymore tho.. :cry: :embarrased: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 Camille - it's hard sometimes' date=' you know :([/quote'] I know.. I think we've all been there at one point or another.. at least I have. I had a crush once on a guy.. and it turned out to be one of my best friends.. he later ended up dating and marrying one of my other best friends.. (which later ended up being my ex best friend) but thats another story.. the point is.. I gave up my 'crush' to save my friendship.. :cool: we're not as close anymore tho.. :cry: :embarrased: her being my best mate is a great sacred thing :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bijeli_Miš Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Man i wish i could help, but the rare times i felt really in love, not just horny were when i was a kid, thus....well i don't know,i hope it all ends up good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 Man i wish i could help' date=' but the rare times i felt really in love, not just horny were when i was a kid, thus....well i don't know,i hope it all ends up good.[/quote'] you could help me, by never getting rid of your siggy :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubblehead241 Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 hahaha!!! you guys!!!! Im in the guys only thread!! hahaha!!!! i think I'll leave now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenjie Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 You know, Albie, its a good job women are nosey. You never would have had so much advice if we'd ignored the Guys Only thread title!! :D :P :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 You know' date=' Albie, its a good job women are nosey. You never would have had so much advice if we'd ignored the Guys Only thread title!! :D :P :lol:[/quote'] you're right :P :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 well it's better sometimes albie... i just remember that a friend is having the same problem and he find so difficult to keep been only his friend :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 well it's better sometimes albie... i just remember that a friend is having the same problem and he find so difficult to keep been only his friend :/ I just have to face the fact, that she'll only be my best friend :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-JaK- Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 You know, Albie, its a good job women are nosey. You never would have had so much advice if we'd ignored the Guys Only thread title!! mebbies it should be re-named to the girls like to help guys thread? :idea2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 yes, keep been friends is good at all, you'll still be in contact with her and well may be one day she find she loves you. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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