Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 I just wanna see what you define "Romantic Attraction" I'm confused :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 I just wanna see what you define "Romantic Attraction" I'm confused :confused: jinkies.. how much more descriptive can I get!! :stunned: :laugh3: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 romantic attraction.. well i think it's want to you want to share load of time with someone you love.. anyways i think that in all have to be other kinds of attraction.. and also i think that any relatiopship a seriouse one but so be build by friendship too. that means that you'll have chemistry so all will work longer. :) i mean things that your guy hug you when you are feeling down (and you don't have ask him for it before)...that's simply chemistry. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 you don't understand, there's a spark and this girl still says I'm not romanticly attracted to you.........I'm lost :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*HildeKe* Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 "Romantic Attraction": lets see, it's kind a hard to define but when I'm romanticly attracted to a guy: - I get really nervous when he calls or when I'm going to spend time with him (I don't have this with men whom I consider just a friend) - I feel the need to tease him - It's a feeling that can pop up immediately but also after a longtime There are other things as well but they don't come to my mind right now. I think romantic attraction is best described as the way a guy makes me feel. There should be some kind of a "sparkle". For me this sparkle can come soon but also after a good long friendship. Surely it has to be alike for you men. How would you describe Romantic attraction?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KEEK1 Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 i think for me it is more both people think about one another 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night. i have only ever told 2 guys that i love him. I never say if if i don't mean it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 and April how you told them you love them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 love can be deceiving sometimes :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenjie Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Its very difficult to distinguish between romantic & sexual attraction because they have so many similarities. I guess its like finding the perfect wedding dress - you think you know what it is but then it completely surprises you and there's this moment of clarity when you know its the right one and nothing else will do. And I can't describe the feeling because it constantly changes yet still has the same focus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 Its very difficult to distinguish between romantic & sexual attraction because they have so many similarities. I guess its like finding the perfect wedding dress - you think you know what it is but then it completely surprises you and there's this moment of clarity when you know its the right one and nothing else will do. And I can't describe the feeling because it constantly changes yet still has the same focus. sometimes I'm just confused :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egghead Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 alberto's having some women troubles? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenjie Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 the only certainty in life is that relationships never make sense!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 alberto's having some women troubles? yes :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 the only certainty in life is that relationships never make sense!!! yeah :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*HildeKe* Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 alberto's having some women troubles? yes :( Ah Albie, I'm sorry for you. If this girl told you that she doesn't want to get involved with you, it's best to move on. I know it might sound hard, but you can't force anybody to love you 'cause in the end you would both end up being unhappy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 alberto's having some women troubles? yes :( Ah Albie, I'm soory for you. If this girl told you that she doesn't want to get involved with you, it's best to move on. I know it might sound hard, but you can't force anybody to love you 'cause in the end you would both end up being unhappy. it's not that she's not romantic attracted to me there's so much chemistry and I think she's my soul mate I'm just confused :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 friendships to relatioship need to follow some steps you can't skip any.... it's like whena re you moving to another place, you can't leave any not resolved, and then things are so different even if you keep the same things you had before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 you're right :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 so when/if you leaved something most of the times you can' go back to get it.. or may be sometimes... but you'll need to restart again... :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 so when/if you leaved something most of the times you can' go back to get it.. or may be sometimes... but you'll need to restart again... :/ you're right again :idea2: but I do think, this is gonna lead to marriage and she's afraid and that's why she is using that "I'm not romanticly attracted to you" line :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 may be.. well depends how the guy told you this... i mean somes guys wanted to date me but i refuse 'cause i felt that really don't like them... anyways i was younger... :/ and also i didn't like that guys... i found them so... inmature... :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 oh :/ :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 no problem albie, i still don't like them... they are still inmature.. :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albie Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 oh, I see I know for sure, if I date this girl, in a 1 or 2 years time, it's gonna lead to marriage :) but then again :snore: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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