look at my post above ur first one^

goodbye

 

wazzup biznatch!

 

 

ok here we go guys... i have a bit of a boy dilemma ( )

 

theres this guy at work who is around 9 months younger than me and is a grade below me, hu asked me if i like him. i said sorta mixed feelings and all (and tols him), and he said he liked me and being around me and such...

 

i remember his friend telling me how he cant go without a g/f for long so that worries me, but hes a nice guy and i like being around him too (and reasonably good-looking, might i add )

 

so what do all you ppl think? help! im seeing him tomorrow too at work...

 

Woahh one of the departments in which i'm not very skilled in i'm afraid! :uhoh:

i'm a hopeless if i do like someone i would never admit it :rolleyes: :(

 

But i'll try since i do have an opinion on it just be aware of what i've mentioned above. i usually believe age is not a barrier - to a point i mean 10 years difference is IMO way to much of a gap :stunned: 9 months younger is :cool:

If you really like being around him and he makes you feel good and most importantly he treats you with the respect and dignity you deserve than i say go for it! Its important to listen to your friends also and if there is an indication of what they say is true...then take things with the guy slowly :D

 

Oh God :embarrased: sori bonabon for the tedious lecture and from someone who is not an expert at these things too :rolleyes:

 

all the best :kiss:

 

 

Btw: i wouldn't tell the guy that you're seeing Mr.Martin ( a married man).

goodbye :angry: ;)

 

wazzup biznatch! :pimp2: :stunned: :laugh2:

 

 

ok here we go guys... i have a bit of a boy dilemma ( :embarrased: :rolleyes: )

 

theres this guy at work who is around 9 months younger than me and is a grade below me, hu asked me if i like him. i said sorta mixed feelings and all (and tols him), and he said he liked me and being around me and such...

 

i remember his friend telling me how he cant go without a g/f for long so that worries me, but hes a nice guy and i like being around him too (and reasonably good-looking, might i add :rolleyes: )

 

so what do all you ppl think? help! im seeing him tomorrow too at work...

 

What do you feel about the guy? It seems to me that you like him.

 

I have an experience when a guy liked me and told me the same thing, but I didn't feel the same for him, I told him what I thought and it didn't bother me at all.

 

But in your case, it is as if his feelings really matter to you. Do you really like him, or it is just my impression?

^ better listen to the experts bonabon :D

:lol: :lol: i'm not an expert Val. :lol: :lol:

^ no, no thats cool, u were helpful :) lol i remember when one of my friends first saw him, shes like "hes hot, id do him!" and i say "hes too young for you." and shes like "when have i ever cared about that!" lol :lol:

 

yeh im not a b/f sorta person really, i have tried to avoid it actually! its quite funny... but i know him fairly well, and hes cool... (sometimes immature tho :rolleyes: ...but so am i lol!)

 

 

oh and thankgod! i dont think anyone needs to know about that little affair...

haha yes me and mr martin are friends with benefits! :lol: :wink3:

oh, you know the saying that "age doesn't matter" :lol: :lol:

^oops that one was for kekita... this is for u gail:

 

yeh i do sorta like him... mixed feelings u know... but im scared of the b/f thing (as u probably saw in my previous post) i try to avoid it when necessary...

 

this other guy from work hu i didnt like in that way asked me out but i never gave him a direct answer and was all uncomfortable about it... so he kept on asking me! but then i told him later... hmm suspicious, hes gone to a new store now...

lol what does mark say?: "age is purely a barrier!"

^oops that one was for kekita... this is for u gail:

 

yeh i do sorta like him... mixed feelings u know... but im scared of the b/f thing (as u probably saw in my previous post) i try to avoid it when necessary...

 

this other guy from work hu i didnt like in that way asked me out but i never gave him a direct answer and was all uncomfortable about it... so he kept on asking me! but then i told him later... hmm suspicious, hes gone to a new store now...

 

 

Well you're still young and you don't need a bf right away. Are you comfortable giving him a safe answer, like you see him as a "friend"?

 

But you should also consider if this guy is your bf material...if he is, and he likes you as he said, then you shouldn't be too worried to tell him that you like him as well.

^oops that one was for kekita... this is for u gail:

 

yeh i do sorta like him... mixed feelings u know... but im scared of the b/f thing (as u probably saw in my previous post) i try to avoid it when necessary...

 

this other guy from work hu i didnt like in that way asked me out but i never gave him a direct answer and was all uncomfortable about it... so he kept on asking me! but then i told him later... hmm suspicious, hes gone to a new store now...

 

Dang girl you got guys falling for you left, right and centre......i see i'll have no luck with Chris :lol:

 

i'm usually weary of good looking perfect guys cos' its seems like they always get what they want :stunned: i've always kinda backed away form the B/f thing too partly because i don't want someone to know me really well(i'm such a pig and a brat!) and partly because it takes a long time for me to really be comfortable with anyone.

Well you're still young and you don't need a bf right away. Are you comfortable giving him a safe answer, like you see him as a "friend"?

 

But you should also consider if this guy is your bf material...if he is, and he likes you as he said, then you shouldn't be too worried to tell him that you like him as well.

 

that's really good advice Gail :D

 

btw how did your digital date go?

lol what does mark say?: "age is purely a barrier!"

 

hmmm is that why he never discloses his ages :thinking:

^Hey Val :D

 

Do you think so, I think I really suck at giving advices, but I'm trying to improve on it :lol: :lol:

 

No date yet, but there are plans. :lol:

Do you think so, I think I really suck at giving advices, but I'm trying to improve on it

 

thinking of making a career on it are we :lol:

 

great well i hope you get a date soon and that the plans work out well.

gail: yeh now that i think about it, it would be a bit weird to see him as my b/f... not sure tho... i do sorta like him... and told him that... then he told me... twas funny. in his second msg he was like "hey i got a question, do you like me?" :lol:

 

kekita: nah hes not a god, but hes fairly alright... yeah soz i was just talking to chris and he said he only wanted me as his "friend with benefits". sorry :cool:

 

 

omg i can just see my friends if i do go out with him! they'll be all like "pedophile!" (but in a nice/friendly/annoying way)

^ :lol:

"pedophile!"

no way....i'd say Chris is one ( ha ha i'm being bitter :rolleyes: )

:lol: :lol:

 

bonnie : I don't just think about it really hard. You are only one who can decide on that ;)

 

val : thanks :D

^haha nice! its funny how ppl think its weirder for older females to go out with younger males but not the other way round...

 

 

yeh im not really into that whole going out to a movie and such...

 

argh im so naughty its almost 1:30am and i shouldnt be on but i cant help it! but i must go to bed now...

 

thanks alot gail and kekita for ur great advice! if anyone else wants to comment please do!

 

nighty night! :kiss:

Goodnight Bonnie and goodluck! :kiss:

its hard though some one from my taekwondo class was making advances even my sister noticed. He offered to drive us home and all that not anymore after i kinda distanced myself....nothing was said however it just was known :confused:

I didn't know if i liked him or not i was really confused.

 

i think he's a bastard not to drive me home anymore it seems he just does that when he has some sort of motive or interest :angry:

i rarely get advances but when i do its form younger guys because im short and you should see their faces when i tell them my age :lol:

night bonnie um wow 1.27 am :o i should be doing my homework :/

 

i think i may have to log off... :( ...........

bye Val! Sweet dreams :kiss:

^

Sweet dreams

:lol:

 

bye Gail i'll have a look at some Guy pictures then i'll definity have sweet dreams :stunned: :rolleyes:

Yeah you do that! i'll look at Chris' later :D :lol: