alright, thanks guys for the advice.

No, you should definitely be looking away from the person that you are talking to! You crazy kids.

:P

No' date=' you should definitely be looking away from the person that you are talking to! You crazy kids.[/quote']

 

Hey now!

Seems like an easy thing to comprehend if you ask me.

Justine, are you joking. It is really shady when people don't make eye contact with you during a conversation.

first of all lats say that looking ppl eyes while tlaking means respect and that theyre listening.

about that girl you were talking about- i think that EVERY girl could make a boy think thtat hes attractive to her ONLY by the way shes looking at him... :>

 

you just FEEL it (IT :P )!

 

best wishes mrcool, i hope its THAT way of look :nice:

tell us hows it going with her,ok?:)

Yes, I am joking. Of course you should look at the person! It's a sign that you are telling the truth too. Eye contact is important. I mean.. it's hard to stare at them when you are talking, but look up a little bit for sure.

Justine' date=' are you joking. It is really shady when people don't make eye contact with you during a conversation.[/quote']

 

exactly.

its the body language-you feel like they bored with u and theyre not listening.

i hardly ever make eye contact with guys, and most the guys i know dont with each other. its weird i guess.

Yes' date=' I am joking. Of course you should look at the person! It's a sign that you are telling the truth too. Eye contact is important. I mean.. it's hard to stare at them when you are talking, but look up a little bit for sure.[/quote']

 

Cool. I have a problem with telling when people are joking sometimes ;)

I'm quite the expert on eye contact.

I've got the general conversation look down, the innocent glance, the intense gaze, the list goes on in my eye contact repertoire.

Sadly it cannot be taught, yet can be learned.

Give it time, my son.

:lol:

You make all the ladies go crazy?

Yes, they go crazy and attack my face.

I honestly am quite good at conveying things with my eyes though, it's just a shame about the face surrounding them :(

Awww. :o

eyes are the fenetres of your soul-you can tell A LOT about someone just looking to his eyes :)

i do a mixture of looking into eyes and looking into space as if im thinkin bout what theyre saying..totally looking away just looks like youre bored

I usually don't... :/

I'm quite the expert on eye contact.

I've got the general conversation look down, the innocent glance, the intense gaze, the list goes on in my eye contact repertoire.

Sadly it cannot be taught, yet can be learned.

Give it time, my son.

 

I always see the "eye contact" as a game or a lie... 'cause people do that as to "asure you" something...

 

But I find very impressive how sometimes making "eye contact" can do :stunned: it's very convincing... ;)

to me' date=' looking someone in the eye when you're talking to them is just manners![/quote']

 

Exactly. You're supposed to look at people in the eye when talking to them. It's rude if you don't.

why is it rude? :o

Who gives a shit.

 

I don't look people or the person in the eye the whole time we're talking/they're talking to me. Just doing so makes me nervous for some reason. I do stupid little things when doing that, in fact. I scratch my face, put my hands up on something, something like that

don't you often find yourself wandering all round their face? I look at their mouth mostly

I look every people in the eyes!It's very important for communication.