Indiepixie Posted August 9, 2005 Share Posted August 9, 2005 Boyfriends who will have them huh! Mine has just started a new job which is only 3 days a week until September so i can't stay over as much as I used to. I also have things on this week so really I can't see him for two weeks and he's not happy and will complain about it! HOWEVER: he never comes to my house to stay although my family make him VERY welcome. So what's that about!? He has no right to complain when I make an effort to see him and his family every week yet he never returns the favour (so to speak) *ugh* What do you guys suggest? End of Moan hehe (Only moaning on here as friends aint around at the mo) :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daner Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 Whether he is very welcome at your house or not, it's still sometimes kind of awkward/uncomfortable to stay at your girl or boyfriends house when their parents are there. He also just might think that staying at your house means moving too fast and it might be freaking him out. I dunno guys are weird :rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonabon Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 damn i thought u meant "moan" in a different way! ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 Whether he is very welcome at your house or not' date=' it's still sometimes kind of awkward/uncomfortable to stay at your girl or boyfriends house when their parents are there. He also just might think that staying at your house means moving too fast and it might be freaking him out. I dunno guys are weird :rolleyes:[/quote'] We've been together two years - there's no going to fast. He's stayed here on a few occassions before and says he loves it. My parents are always here and it's never awkward. I stay at his 4 days a week our families get on we're all fine. His parents are always there and it's never awkward. So why doesn't he bloody just stay at mine as much as I do his? It makes me feel like my family isn't good enough or we're boring hehe ugh :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 damn i thought u meant "moan" in a different way! ;) changes thread name to: "*The Compalining About Men Thread*" :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonabon Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 wow u changed the thread name! didnt know u could do that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 wow u changed the thread name! didnt know u could do that! Indeedy you can just click "Edit" on the first post (if it's yours of course) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colduser Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 Your boyfriend is in the worng here. He can't have his cake and eat it too. You go out of your way for him while he does not for you. You need to confront him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonabon Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 men.... hu needs them... :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colduser Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 I do :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 Your boyfriend is in the worng here. He can't have his cake and eat it too. You go out of your way for him while he does not for you. You need to confront him. Thanks for the advice :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colduser Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 anytime :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonabon Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 I do *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colduser Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 :blush: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonabon Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 oh yeh, i agree with daner. he prob just feels awkward bout it so dont worry too much. when my bro was going out with his now ex, she used to "sleepova" all the time. a couple of times she stayed until the next morning, but she usually went home really late at night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 I sleepover my bf's all the time though I awake there and stay for days yet he never comes here - what a bitch! hehe :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nellie Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 wow, i missed this thread.. Some blokes are twats who just think with their tackle.. an old 'friend' sometimes comes online, and im all up for just having a normal conversation, but he always turns it into something sexual and i end up blocking him again. i just told him i dnt like him being perverted and he was like 'oh im only havin a bit of fun'. i think im just gna block and erase him now.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 wow, i missed this thread.. Some blokes are twats who just think with their tackle.. an old 'friend' sometimes comes online, and im all up for just having a normal conversation, but he always turns it into something sexual and i end up blocking him again. i just told him i dnt like him being perverted and he was like 'oh im only havin a bit of fun'. i think im just gna block and erase him now.. Awww that sounds hard to deal with My ex used to be like that We DO NOT speak at all anymore It's for the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Justine* Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 Don't even get me started on men (boys). :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 Don't even get me started on men (boys). :dozey: :lol: Quote of the day for me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 times like these I'm happy to be single.. I dont need the aggrevation of a 'boyfriend'.. but at the same time... I feel like I need a 'man' in my life... I guess to do t he necessary 'tasks' :wink3: and such.. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 I love my guy but sometimes he gets my back up Thats what two years does to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 maybe I should get a punch bag! I will be less stressed hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Justine* Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 So you've been together since you were 16.. ya that's the time when relationships are the weirdest just because you are still young. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indiepixie Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 So you've been together since you were 16.. ya that's the time when relationships are the weirdest just because you are still young. We both just started college *6th form* when we got together maybe that wasn't a great idea as we were stressed etc also First year - brill. Really I don't have much to complain about even now. However getting into the two year stage this is were little things about eachother start getting to you fast. I find us sitting there sometimes with not much to say and he now easily winds me up! I think seeing him alot and seeing family less has got to me too. Maybe I feel too tied down too young :/ thats awful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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