i talked to ryujiki via MSN .... and .-.. well ...

 

i have two closest friends ... Natascha and Büsra ... but ... i kinda changed over the last year because i had to go through difficult times ... and now i just feel like we don't fit together anymore

 

i used to tell them about my issues bu the thing is that they never really listened. they were like:"hmm ... really? well, that's not cute ...so ... what did i wanna tell you?" and they said that when i was very low :(

 

anyway ... i stopped telling them about my problems ... but they still annoy me ...

 

i sometimes tell them about my hobbies (we're very different from each other) and they're not even acting that they're interested!!! they're so ignorant ... and superficial.

 

i know it may sound a little stupid (since i'm only 15 years old) but i think they're a little immature ... the way they behave is just .... *ARGGHGGHHH*

 

before our easter holidays i didn't even spend the breaks with them ... i just couldn't ... otherwise i would've shoot myself to the head :/

 

then i thought ... well maybe it's just a phase ... we had so much fun together ... but that's not even true too ... i always give and give and give but they don't give anything back. i helped them out soooooo often ... and now i see that they're not real friends to me

 

they don't know anything about me ... and what i'm actually thinking.

 

whata bout you? do you have that sorta friends too?

Most my friend are like that. it sucks.

Everybody have friends like that or even worse are friends like that.

 

When you try to help other persons that's when you see the reality:Sometimes people suck!!!

 

But then if you think people are destinated to live in society,so my suggestion is live the life saying what you think and always being honest.

yeah, you'r right but i don't wanna live life all alone ... :(

yeah' date=' you'r right but i don't wanna live life all alone ... :([/quote']

 

My advice try to find some new friends who arent so bad, but sometimes in life you cant so in my case i just deal with it.

Hehehe.

 

Have you ever listen to: Better alone!!

 

No is not that dramatic,people are scare of the truth,but at the end there is not more important thing in a relationship like be honest and say the true.

My advice try to find some new friends who arent so bad' date=' but sometimes in life you cant so in my case i just deal with it.[/quote']

that's what i already tried ... i tried to make friends with other people in my form (basically with all the guys because they're not like all those girls :) )

you know, girls always "travel in packs"

that's what i already tried ... i tried to make friends with other people in my form (basically with all the guys because they're not like all those girls :) )

you know, girls always "travel in packs"

 

Well like i said if you cant make friends with other people, what i did was just stayed friends with the others and learned to deal with it. bad friends are better then no friends in my opinion.

i had this exact thing with my friend befores. we are 4 friends and before I was the one who was a bit outside. they didnt care about my problems, maybe cause we dont have the same things incommon. now things have changed (a halfyear later) and the other friend is and outsider, and we are three very good friends. It has stayed like this for over 1 year now, so Im having it quite good right now.

 

so maybe you should just wait, and hang in there, who knows - one day they might think about all youve done for them?

 

good luck with that! :)

My former bets friend was like that.......I told her what I don't like about her...since then we talk to each other as if we knew each other just a little bit...

maybe you shoud do the same as Julia (can i call you Julia?:)) did...tell your friends what you don't like about them and see if they do some effort, if they care...and if they don't you really should try to know other people, like someone said bad friends are better than no friends. anyway hope you can solve this problem ;)

i already tried to talk to them ... but they always make me look like a fool ...

they think i just wanna destroy our friendship on purpose ... :(

^well....my friend also thought that....and actually she was right....as hard as it sounds...I wrote a letter to her...and at the end I wrote a poem about a friendship which is over now.....it was a sad poem...and surely hard for my friend...but I didn't find another way....I wanted to destroy the friendship in some way...because that was my problem....I didn't want to be her friend anymore because she was getting on my nerves...and I realised that I can't go on like that....so there had to be an end....

 

So....make sure for you if you want your friends to change (which is hard I guess because you can't change other people...) or if you really don't want to be their friend anymore......

 

 

this friend of mine to whom i wrote the letter called me some days after I gave her the letter....she said...."well maybe I could change...but you know that you can't change people..."....she was right with that....she was/is a conceited person in case of school etc......she always has good marks....and sometimes makes others look a bit dumb.... actually i don't like this kind of "friends" and so I made this end....

mhhh ... good idea ... a letter...

i'm much better at writing down things that disturb me than telling them ...

 

thanks ... :)

^Yes...it is the same with me...I can't people sy in their face that they ditrub me and annoy me....a letter is better....:wink: