hahahaha, I'll take that into account!!! If someone says me: "Tell me your secrets" I may think this person is YOU!!!! :lol:

 

 

 

 

:blush:

 

 

then you would know it was me!

True, I learned my lesson, but honstly I dunno how I'd react in a similar situation. I mean she needed someone to talk to, which was perfectly ok, but this didnt mean that she was my best friend or so, but obviously she didnt feel the same.

 

I agree with what you said about formalities. Sometimes I hate to be formal, because it's another way of being dishonest. But still you have to do it because everyone does.

 

I talked about that with a friend.... it was about a person who was telling bad things about me in public and I knew about it. I told my friend that I met this person and he was just being nice and pretended nothing had happend. My friend asked me why I was talking to him and didnt just walk away. I said 'Because I cant.'

 

I really dont think I could. I have to do those formalities because its called being decent. I do agree that it was better if they didnt exist. But if I would just refuse doing them, people would call me arrogant and unpolite. People wouldnt accept you acting like this even if it was a lot more honest.

 

Yeah I think we need a thread about this because its a different topic. :wink:

i think this needs a new thread...let me work on it?

i will make one when i return

yeah...

I mean, when Someone asks me how I am ..I usually Always say "I am fine."

if he/she is your friend, will see that's there something's wrong...

sure Oenona!that's great...don't u have soneone like this girl i've talk about?and what about your friend...feels better?

Yes the Partridge has many doors closed and your right you can't ever know someone completely but the Partridge's mind is so full of magical wisdom there just isn't enough time in the world to share my knowledge.

Like there was a girl in my class who wasnt acceptetd' date=' most people of my class laid into her, even though she hadn't done anything. Basically she was just very quiet and shy and she was very sad, which you could see in her face. Lots of people made fun about her because of her looks. I didnt dislike her, but she wasnt a person I found very interesting or someone whom I wanted to have as a good friend. But I started to talk to her more often and I tried to be nice to her, because I was sorry for her. Talking during the breaks was alright and I did understand her and her problems... but this situation became very difficult. I mean I didnt mind doing something with her after school either, but she considered me as her best friends because she was very lonely and she didnt have any other friends. This was a very difficult situation, but I think this was a bit my mistake. I pretended to like her to make her feel better, which made her think that I liked her a lot. I think that was unfair[/quote']

 

Gosh!!! That reminds me another girl who had the same problem too. Several years ago I used to go to a village every summer and there was a girl who wasn’t accepted at all... not in the school, but everywhere. :sad: I felt really sorry for her ‘cause I didn’t understand why other people from that village treated her that bad, ‘cause she was a completely normal girl; she didn’t have anything for emphasizing so I thought I had to give her a chance. Her situation was absolutely unfair and I knew I’d be able to see the things just like they were. I mean I didn’t have any prejudice against her, so I knew I may help her! And after that we became friends. I told her: move of this village and begin another life far away from here, ‘cause they will never change the opinion they’ve about you.

Anyway, I only saw her as a normal friend although she saw me as her best friend during that time.

I think you didn’t act bad, Sally.. I just did the same than you and I don’t feel bad for this. ;)

 

 

sure Oenona!that's great...don't u have soneone like this girl i've talk about?and what about your friend...feels better?

 

no, unfortunately I don't feel I have someone like that girl you talked about :sad: but I'm really happy that you have found this person! :nice: just as I told us, I can't share everything I'd like to with my friends, but a little part of me that I know they'd understand/approve... Anyway, I have several friends, so there are things which I can't share with some of them but I can do it with others. Thanks for the question, though.

 

Yes, I think my friend feels better in certain way. We're giving all the support that we can to her.

What happened to the partridge??? Did anyone hear?? :shocked2:

What happened to the partridge??? Did anyone hear?? :shocked2:

 

What exactly are you meaning by that comment Rick8?

Well I hear he had a nasty accident!! Poor fellow....:(

Well I hear he had a nasty accident!! Poor fellow....:(

 

How did I? I'm in perfect working order i'll have you know.

Well of course you are not Alan Partridge,merely a imitator!

Well of course you are not Alan Partridge' date='merely a imitator![/quote']

 

"Merely" and "imitator", well someone has had their dictonary out this week haven't they? I am as much of an imitator as you are because i'm pretty sure that isn't you in that avator? So before accusing other people of imitating you should take a long hard look at yourself. Yes i hold my hands up to being an imitator in the name of fun, but do the right thing, make that step and hold your hand up aswell. As for the accident comment, i'm still waiting?

Calm down newbie!! :lol:

 

hahahahahahahahahahahah dont wind yourself up so much!!!

Calm down newbie!! :lol:

 

hahahahahahahahahahahah dont wind yourself up so much!!!

 

I don't wind myself up, all i originally said was "What exactly did you mean by that comment Rick8?" In which you didn't reply with an answer, just another pointless comment to boost your "post whore" status up a bit. So i'll ask you once again Rick8. What exactly did you mean by that comment? By the way can i call you "Slick", Rick?

It was a joke,:dozey: do not worry in the future i will not talk or bother you again.

Have a nice day :):)

 

As you can see I have started a post whore thread,many of my friends on here also fit into that category,and do not mind being callled whores!! :lol:

It was a joke,:dozey: do not worry in the future i will not talk or bother you again.

Have a nice day :):)

 

As you can see I have started a post whore thread,many of my friends on here also fit into that category,and do not mind being callled whores!! :lol:

 

It was never intended as an insult. All i was doing was stating the fact that your a post whore, which you are and it's good you can admit that. Now there is 2 questions you haven't answered. "What did you mean by that comment" and "Can i call you SLICK RICK" ??

 

To be honest with you, i couldn't care less what you meant by that comment. Whether it was intended to be bad or good, all i ever wanted was an explanation which you have failed to give me on 3 occasions now. My point is, don't post comments if you don't have an answer. It's wasting my time, your time and everybody elses time, so GET A GRIP!

The other day happened something that made me think about this topic: there is no person who we can share everything that we would like to.

I was at uni, doing the lessons, but between one lesson and the next one we’ve 10min of break. I was talking to my friends and having fun, as always, and suddenly, one of them become to cry. We didn’t even realize about it, ‘cause it was so unexpected... all of us seemed to be so great, but she wasn’t, though. She is quite open-minded and seems to be one of those persons who have achieved almost everything she’s intented to so it was strange for us to see her in that state of mind. We asked her what was wrong, and with tears in her eyes, she told us that she has always felt weirdo, that she expected too much of everything and the last thing, - but the most important – that she wanted to find someone who she could share everything – I’m not refering to a bf, but a friend -.

We tried to convince her it wasn’t impossible to meet someone like this. It doesn’t exist people who feels every single thing of life just like us and have the same thoughts.

I told her: you’ll NEVER find a friend which you could share everything, you only will find friends which you can share only a little part of you.

 

I’ve always had the theory which say that nobody can’t really know you completely – just ‘cause you can't share everything - and that fact confirmed it more.

Oh dear me! Is this the sorry state of affairs this country has come to? We have people like you in Uni with the innability to be able to spell and use grammer to great effect!

I say fuck your friend and learn English at G.C.S.E level and quit Uni 'cause it's obviously not working...

Or just come to my bar at cheers and have yourself a time...

Oh dear me! Is this the sorry state of affairs this country has come to? We have people like you in Uni with the innability to be able to spell and use grammer to great effect!

I say fuck your friend and learn English at G.C.S.E level and quit Uni 'cause it's obviously not working...

Or just come to my bar at cheers and have yourself a time...

 

 

 

Which languages can you speak?

Gosh!!! That reminds me another girl who had the same problem too. Several years ago I used to go to a village every summer and there was a girl who wasn’t accepted at all... not in the school, but everywhere. :sad: I felt really sorry for her ‘cause I didn’t understand why other people from that village treated her that bad, ‘cause she was a completely normal girl; she didn’t have anything for emphasizing so I thought I had to give her a chance. Her situation was absolutely unfair and I knew I’d be able to see the things just like they were. I mean I didn’t have any prejudice against her, so I knew I may help her! And after that we became friends. I told her: move of this village and begin another life far away from here, ‘cause they will never change the opinion they’ve about you.

Anyway, I only saw her as a normal friend although she saw me as her best friend during that time.

I think you didn’t act bad, Sally.. I just did the same than you and I don’t feel bad for this. ;)

 

Thanks... I dunno, I actually felt very bad about it. But I dont no If I'd act differently if I was in the same situation again. I mean I'm not sure what else I could have done, she definitely needed somebody to talk to.

she feels better, that's fine!for her, you (and your friends) appear like real friends coz u support her during a hard part of her life.

I'm the luckiest man in the world if i'm the only one to have a friend whom i can tell everything....hope it'll happen to u n your friend...

hav a nice day!!!

 

(always on the net on the evening...)

yes, that's why we are friends, I guess - not only for sharing good moments - but for giving support one to eachother when we need it the most! ;)

 

well, you can't be the only one who has this friend...

thanks for your nice wish!!! :kiss:

 

(always on the net on the evening...)

are you talking about me? :lol:

What exactly are you meaning by that comment Rick8?

 

 

NooOOOB

 

 

:P

 

 

he calls Rick8 ...Rick8

 

what

a

loser!

NooOOOB

 

 

:P

 

 

he calls Rick8 ...Rick8

 

what

a

loser!

 

Yes he is,thank you for that observation!!! :lol:

 

NOOB!!!

ahahaha...noobs are boobs (and by boobs, I don't mean the literal ones, but the stupid ones...and by stupid onces I don't mean the things you might refer to as stupid, but you know dubm people) yeah.