i was talking to my friend during the weekend and i found out that she liked a guy but she said it was 'complicated'. after a while, she admitted that it wasn't that she really liked the guy, it's just that she looks at him as more as a 'friend with benefits'. it made me wonder what was other peoples outlooks on 'friends with benefits'. would you/do you have a 'friend with benefits' or would you rather someone that you can commit too??

a friend with benefits...is someone you don't really love?that's right?

Friend with Benefits.......what could possibly mean?:rolleyes:

i guess it's someone that u love but just to have sex with him/her...isn't it?

a friend with benefits...is someone you don't really love?that's right?

 

i guess it's someone that u love but just to have sex with him/her...isn't it?

 

 

yes

i guess it's someone that u love but just to have sex with him/her...isn't it?

 

I was just joking:P

ok!

i know someone who did that...

i tell you she 'd never do that again...

I use to have one back in the day.... it was complicated because as much as you tell yourself you're not emotionally attached, you do get emotionally invested. Its hard... it all depends on the people though. I was young then, so maybe I wasn't really ready for something like that... but I think now as an adult.. I could 'benefit' from someone like him..

 

I miss him. :cry:

In other words means a fuckbuddy.....

 

but i do not recommend it,can cause a lot of problems....

Er.

 

I'd never have a friend with benefits. :uhoh:

Um I reckon you never had a friend with any kind of benefits :lol:

 

I hope...:thinking:

Um I reckon you never had a friend with any kind of benefits :lol:

 

I hope...:thinking:

...what? :freak:

Forget it alyssa....:rolleyes:

Forget it alyssa....:rolleyes:

 

Erm... kk... haha.

I´d never have one...

I use to have one back in the day.... it was complicated because as much as you tell yourself you're not emotionally attached, you do get emotionally invested. Its hard... it all depends on the people though. I was young then, so maybe I wasn't really ready for something like that... but I think now as an adult.. I could 'benefit' from someone like him..

 

I miss him. :cry:

 

 

 

i agree though. cuz even though you don't want to be love the person..you end up falling in love anyways. it's hard to just keep it strictly sex or whatever.

No, I wouldn't have this kind of friends because I know they would hurt me. I'm sure I'd love them!

 

People who have friends with benefits should have clear ideas about what they're doing with them... I mean, they should never confuse love with this friendship and be able to distinguish it without any doubt or otherwise its better not to do that. Anyway, I don't have anything agaisnt people who have this kind of friends as long as it doesn't damage me.