Or married, or have a bf/gf? I'd like to know how you've met your special person, how long have you been with him/her, and where, and who made the initial move :)

 

About me, i've had a gf since Jan / 01, i met her at the university i used to study at, i just asked her out once, she acceeded, and i directly asked her if she wanted to be my girlfriend, to which she simply said "yes", we both smiled...and just kept walking :d

yes, I am single

awesome marcello!

 

i'm single, but i can't say i'm loving it. i thought i found the right girl earlier this year and asked her out to her face which i thought took so much for me to do, and it all just went down in flames. she couldn't commit to anything because there was someone else, and a result we became "just friends" which is the worst, because theres still wounds i have from it.

 

it fucking sucks, i haven't been able to look at girl's the same for the rest of the year... i can't commit because i'm to afraid of rejection. thats my insecurity.

 

i make jokes to put on a brave face, but its all a facade. i'm not proud of it... i suppose for something like that to happen again is my deepest fear, i fell head over heals for her. and for what?!

 

it just all makes me so sad. i fucking hate it. i'm gonna sound like i'm feeling sorry for myself but i wished the same happened to my friends, none of them have ever had something like that happen to them, and they don't understand what its like to have your heart broken. they still think "being good friends" with her is good, they don't understand the pain and the consequences...

 

well there you go.. i've bared all. thats my whole relationship situation... :(

Single as sliced cheese.

i got a gf and i love her to death:P

sort of single, sort of commited... :uhoh:

I'm single and I don't really like it. There's a guy that I like a lot, but I've heard that he's very slow when it comes to becoming a couple, so if I do something, I'll have to do it soon. :D

 

but I'm afraid to be rejected. So that's why I find it hard to just say that I like someone, but if he likes me in return, I attach myself to him quickly. IF.

I agree with the above user 'huntjd'.. It's basically exactly how I feel in certain points.. I've been single for ages, and I'm hating it. I'm young and it's fine not to be in a serious committment at that age, but so many of my friends have healthy, wonderful relationships and whenever I feel sad, I just wish I'd have someone in whose arms I can fall, you know?

 

Even if it's stupid and bad, I think that a boyfriend/girlfriend somehow gives you a bit of self-confidence.. Because having been rejected the past couple of years and not having found anyone makes me feel like I don't deserve anyone, or no-one even wants me at all.. :S

Single as sliced cheese.

 

 

AMEN! :D

awesome marcello!

 

i'm single, but i can't say i'm loving it. i thought i found the right girl earlier this year and asked her out to her face which i thought took so much for me to do, and it all just went down in flames. she couldn't commit to anything because there was someone else, and a result we became "just friends" which is the worst, because theres still wounds i have from it.

 

it fucking sucks, i haven't been able to look at girl's the same for the rest of the year... i can't commit because i'm to afraid of rejection. thats my insecurity.

 

i make jokes to put on a brave face, but its all a facade. i'm not proud of it... i suppose for something like that to happen again is my deepest fear, i fell head over heals for her. and for what?!

 

it just all makes me so sad. i fucking hate it. i'm gonna sound like i'm feeling sorry for myself but i wished the same happened to my friends, none of them have ever had something like that happen to them, and they don't understand what its like to have your heart broken. they still think "being good friends" with her is good, they don't understand the pain and the consequences...

 

well there you go.. i've bared all. thats my whole relationship situation... :(

 

aww sorry about that! :( misery loves company.. I'm single too

Since few days, I'm not really single... but I can't see this person right now... cos this person lives far away from where I am...

Yeah I am single.......there used to be times when I felt worse about it....

 

currently I don't.....because there is nobody I have a crush on or something like that.....and I like it to go out and to look at guys who I could imagine going out with....:laugh4:

 

 

it would be great if I'd find someone soon......but I'm not depserate or sad about it....currently...

^^Hehe that's always fun, Julia! :D

^^Hehe that's always fun' date=' Julia! :D[/quote']

 

 

 

I've just realized this at the supermarket today again....:laugh4:

Hehe....but the thing is it only happens once in a blue moon here...because a lot of guys my age here are jerks.

I'm sort of in a long-distance relationship...it's weird, actually, it's sort of a family specialty. I'm living about 300 miles away from home, and it's definitely trying at times. Still, it's worth it, because I finally get to see her again...it makes me happier than anything else.

 

Speaking of which, I'm going home tonight!

Hehe....but the thing is it only happens once in a blue moon here...because a lot of guys my age here are jerks.

 

 

haha.....well I live in an area with small villages...the guys meet everyday are ok.....but I could only imagine to go out with a few of them......

 

I can't even say how many are jerks and how many aren't...

You are lucky. :P

I won't be sure about that,.....;)

Hehe....but the thing is it only happens once in a blue moon here...because a lot of guys my age here are jerks.

 

I guess you're about my age then, huh?

I'm 18, and I have 20-year old guys in class who STEAL YOUR LUNCH, hit you, insult you and are just being like dumb 12-year old kids!

No I'm 15, but all those things you mention are familiar with me. :\

 

How could any decent girl like anybody if they are all like that?

I don't think that they are all like that.....I used to think that as well.....but I think I just had a way too bad image of some guys....

 

and I think when they are alone they are different.....

 

 

I wonder how they talk about girls....maybe like: "Gosh....look at all these girls....everything they seem to care about is fashion and their looks....etc..."hahha

I don't think they pay attention to that kinda stuff. :P

 

They are just interested in being with her.

 

However, I guess they grow out of that phase when they are like 20 or so and they see what a true amazing girl is.

I don't think they pay attention to that kinda stuff. :P

 

They are just interested in being with her.

 

However, I guess they grow out of that phase when they are like 20 or so and they see what a true amazing girl is.

 

 

hehe....yeah you could be right there......and maybe the guys I am looking for are in that age yet....because I'll turn 19 soon...;)

Hey! I promise, not every 18-20 year old guy is a jerk! There are a few who are quite decent...I like to think I'm part of that.