You don't have to read this if you don't care, I'm not really looking for a huge amount of sympathy or anything, but I just want to get it out or something because i feel horrible.

It's my sister's sixteenth birthday today, and my mother and I gave her her presents last night. I was brushing my teeth in the bathroom and my sister, Samantha came in and picked up a hairbrush and stood around a little, but was unusually quiet, so I didn't say anything to her because sometimes she's in a bad mood in the morning (if she "doesn't have anything to wear" or if shes having a bad hair day) nor did I remember about her birthday. My sister and I have always been more like good friends than sisters and we've never really fought about anything. I know that she would have NEVER forgotten my birthday, especially if I was turning sixteen. Anyway, my mom called me to the kitchen this morning while my sister was sitting there because she "needed help finding the dog's toys." I went downstairs, picked up a toy, gave it to her, and went to walk upstairs. Then my mom called after me and said why don't you wish your sister a happy birthday? So I turned to give her a big hug and appologize, but she was already out the door. I freaked out at that point and actually started crying and ran to my room to cool off a little. I'm not sure how I'll be able to live with myself all day, because like I said, she's my best friend.:(

Nobody needs to reply, this just helped me cool off. If you did take the time though, thank you, and what should I do?:embarassed:

You can't be a terrible person if you listen to Coldplay. ;)

Buy her flowers, I guess. IDK

I'll all get better. Just give it time. Maybe get her something or do something for her to make up for it.

You can't be a terrible person if you listen to Coldplay. ;)

Buy her flowers, I guess. IDK

 

1. You're a cock for making such a stupid statement

2. Flowers are fucking shit

1. You're a cock for making such a stupid statement

2. Flowers are fucking shit

 

uhh that was... unnecessary

 

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uhh that was... unnecessary

 

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agreed

uhh that was... unnecessary

 

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He was only saying that you, good sir, are a rooster...honored by the Chinese and considered one of the most majestic of all Farm animals!

 

ITS A COMPLIMENT!

Well, we all forget things, even important things, like birthdays of people we're close to! Just be honest and sincere - you did buy her presents in anticipation of her birthday, and you had planned to remember, but sometimes we just get into the routines of day-to-day life, our minds wander onto subjects that distract us temporarily, and then we forget - it's natural, and unintentional. Just be yourself, tell her you're very sorry for forgetting, and want to make her feel happy & wish her a happy birthday - I think anyone can understand that, as I'm sure she has forgotten important things as well - it's not intentional, and you had planned on giving her a gift, so you were thinking of her - just forgot on the day.

I can tell you are a caring person who just lost track of what the day meant - she should understand that.

Feel Better - you're a nice person who's forgetful like we all are at times!;)

Well, we all forget things, even important things, like birthdays of people we're close to! Just be honest and sincere - you did buy her presents in anticipation of her birthday, and you had planned to remember, but sometimes we just get into the routines of day-to-day life, our minds wander onto subjects that distract us temporarily, and then we forget - it's natural, and unintentional. Just be yourself, tell her you're very sorry for forgetting, and want to make her feel happy & wish her a happy birthday - I think anyone can understand that, as I'm sure she has forgotten important things as well - it's not intentional, and you had planned on giving her a gift, so you were thinking of her - just forgot on the day.

I can tell you are a caring person who just lost track of what the day meant - she should understand that.

Feel Better - you're a nice person who's forgetful like we all are at times!;)

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Well said. Chuck is right. You are a nice, caring person and you need to just say you're sorry and explain what happened.

:thank you all for the positivity-- it really helps:happy2:

everything worked out okay, and she's not mad at me! YAY! haha.

:thank you all for the positivity-- it really helps:happy2:

everything worked out okay, and she's not mad at me! YAY! haha.

Well that's good!:lol:

time heals all wounds

get her a cake!!! give her a hug and do something special I don't know if you have time but you could decorate her room or something...:thinking:

He was only saying that you, good sir, are a rooster...honored by the Chinese and considered one of the most majestic of all Farm animals!

 

ITS A COMPLIMENT!

 

I was actually calling her a penis, the male sexual organ, one of the least majestic organs around.

:lol:

 

I'm not even sure when my parent's birthday is... I always get recalled by my sister some days before asking me to help for buying something to them.

 

I know, I'm such a terrible person...