Petit Prince Posted August 11, 2013 Share Posted August 11, 2013 I thought I had to dieas a virgin for years, but then I just did it with someone who I thought was the right one....at an early stage after we met each other... we haven't really been together ( don't actually know what it was between us....)....but I am glad I don't have to die as a virgin.....I feel much more relaxed since that day when it comes to sex things I was the same an I can't say I regretted it. I really liked the guy at the time but we never actually got together. Losing your virginity is never gonna feel great so I don't think there's a point in waiting for the right person. It helps if it's someone you feel comfortable with though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Ride horses or do ballet when you're younger and it won't hurt half as much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destrokk Posted August 13, 2013 Author Share Posted August 13, 2013 its not supposed to hurt?????? not if u use lube (i almost typed love) and yeah it wont hurt as much if theres love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I don't know many virgins who carry lube. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 It'll hurt just as much with love as without. Other factors matter, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NumbersGirl Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Ride horses or do ballet when you're younger and it won't hurt half as much.whut Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destrokk Posted August 13, 2013 Author Share Posted August 13, 2013 didnt micheal cera carry lube in superbad? i mean if you plan to lose your virginity its important to plan it and have lube because it doesnt and shouldn't hurt and idk what other factors youre talking about lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 whut I had an ex who did ballet whilst young and so lost her hymen whilst dancing. I know it also happens with riding horses, too. I'm sure it doesn't make the whole thing painless, but it goes some way and (sorry for being graphic)... prevents the mess didnt micheal cera carry lube in superbad? i mean if you plan to lose your virginity its important to plan it and have lube because it doesnt and shouldn't hurt and idk what other factors youre talking about lmao Happen I was too hasty to dismiss lube. I just feel unnerved at the prospect of a mid teenage spotty boy coming at me with a bottle of lube and a nervous erection. The other factors are the techniques in which you use to penetrate and the size of the respective genetalia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wyrd Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I was the same an I can't say I regretted it. I really liked the guy at the time but we never actually got together. Losing your virginity is never gonna feel great so I don't think there's a point in waiting for the right person. It helps if it's someone you feel comfortable with though.Except that loosing your virginity can feel great and can be worth the wait. I was never one of those people that cared about dying a virgin. Maybe I am too much of a romantic sometimes, but I only wanted to do it if it was with the right guy, right moment, feeling totally like it, etc. And it was great. So I never regretted waiting for it. It can be not only painless, but also pleasant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Except that loosing your virginity can feel great and can be worth the wait. I was never one of those people that cared about dying a virgin. Maybe I am too much of a romantic sometimes, but I only wanted to do it if it was with the right guy, right moment, feeling totally like it, etc. And it was great. So I never regretted waiting for it. It can be not only painless, but also pleasant. Being able to lose yourself in the moment can be very useful. You've got a much greater chance of doing this if doing it feels like the most natural thing you could be doing. That's more likely to happen if its someone you feel is 'the right guy'. When you lose yourself in the moment your body usually provides its own ways to make things a little easier and indeed smoother. Plus there are the other factors that can come into play. The initial... well, the very beginning tends to be the most problematic (unless you're with an idiot who is only thinking of themselves and not taking things slow) but once you get that out the way the hard part is over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matter-Eater Lad Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 It's a good thing I'm not going to die. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I'm pretty sure I'm immortal. I've no evidence to the contrary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matter-Eater Lad Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Haha^ Like I tell people who worry I'll die on one of my adventures "Don't worry, I can't die" I'd never be that lucky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Ah sweet. I made your sig. Don't wish for death. You're gonna die at some point. Throughout all time you're gonna be dead for the vast vast vast vast majority of it. In a hundred years you'll be gone and that'll be it. Forever. You'll never be conscious again. Might as well do something other than be miserable, even if it is a dangerous adventure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matter-Eater Lad Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Bad joke. [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEffguOvAy4]Misfits "I'm Immortal!" - YouTube[/ame] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 That program looks shit so I never watched it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matter-Eater Lad Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 You're fucking crazy(I say this with love). It is one of my favourites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 It looks like it's easy comedy with a shit premise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matter-Eater Lad Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Well yeah, that's half the fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonny and the cake Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Nathan :dazzled: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Petit Prince Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 its not supposed to hurt?????? not if u use lube (i almost typed love) and yeah it wont hurt as much if theres love Why would love make a difference? Except that loosing your virginity can feel great and can be worth the wait. I was never one of those people that cared about dying a virgin. Maybe I am too much of a romantic sometimes, but I only wanted to do it if it was with the right guy, right moment, feeling totally like it, etc. And it was great. So I never regretted waiting for it. It can be not only painless, but also pleasant. Fair enough! I guess it depends on the person and on what you've done before. I don't want to go into too much details but the first time I had sexual contact with a guy (we didn't go all the way) it was really painful. I actually liked him a lot but there's no way I would describe it as romantic. It wasn't too bad when I actually lost my virginity but it wasn't pleasant either. It's definitely important that you feel ready and I'm not suggesting that you should sleep with a random guy you met at a club or something but I don't think there's much of a point in waiting for the perfect person. It will most likely make the beginning of your relationship more difficult if anything. I wasn't too bothered about losing my virginity either by the way, it just kind of happened. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Myshkin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Everyone's different. The important thing is that the person has the decision in their own hands and can decide what they feel is best for them. Advice can be given, of course, and you would hope people are unduly influenced by some of the more negative aspects of society and the general sexualisation of everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xencios Posted September 4, 2013 Share Posted September 4, 2013 My friend's aunt have 45 years old and (believe or not) is virgin. *leaves* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted September 4, 2013 Share Posted September 4, 2013 My friend's aunt have 45 years old and (believe or not) is virgin. *leaves* wtf was the point of posting that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonny and the cake Posted September 4, 2013 Share Posted September 4, 2013 wtf was the point of posting that he's a posts whore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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