Simon7 Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Right, I have 3rd cousin I get on really well with her and we chat all the time, but I absolutely I love her, she beautiful, smart, cute , clever, kind etc Would it be wrong to date her or do anything But then I remember that her dad was adopted, so that doesn't really make me her cousin As title say, any opinions, advice etc Thanks for any of your kind advice, help thoughts Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMagpie Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Does she act those ways because you're a distant relative? Do you see this person at family gatherings etc? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted March 3, 2014 Author Share Posted March 3, 2014 No I genuinely think she is like to everyone and all the time in life I have seen her once as few years ago at a funeral Hopefully seeing her and family thus summer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tash Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Is this the same girl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted March 3, 2014 Author Share Posted March 3, 2014 this[/url] the same girl? No tash Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tash Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 You've had loads of girl problems so far. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batman Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 You've had loads of girl problems so far. Well maybe he's a socially awkward penguin :I Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tash Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Well maybe he's a socially awkward penguin :I : ( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted March 3, 2014 Author Share Posted March 3, 2014 Well maybe he's a socially awkward penguin :I Your prob not to far right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batman Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Your prob not to far right You might be pathetic with your little useless wiggly arms, but you're still darn cute :wacky: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted March 3, 2014 Author Share Posted March 3, 2014 You might be pathetic with your little useless wiggly arms, but you're still darn cute :wacky: Why Thankyou, will take that as a compliment..... I think ha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted March 3, 2014 Author Share Posted March 3, 2014 The only issue really is her being my 3rd cousin but is she when her dad is adopted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Empily Posted March 4, 2014 Share Posted March 4, 2014 Idk, it depends on whether she thinks it's weird or not. I don't think your babies will come out as mutants, so you're probably okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted March 5, 2014 Share Posted March 5, 2014 Third cousins is like... great-grandparent's sibling's crotchfruit, isn't it? The dad being adopted would only mean not related if he married into the family. It depends on whether she thinks it's weird. It also may be a bit hard to make too many advances at a family gathering environment if you're that worried about it. Of course, this is all assuming you can actually talk to her (more than small talk preferable) without it being a shambles. Although, if you last saw her once at a funeral years ago, I am curious, what has spurred the interest here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted April 13, 2014 Author Share Posted April 13, 2014 Part 2 We going to visited her and the family soon, Is it best for me to tell my mum and then talk to her when I get there or see her and make my mind up then tel my mum after then tell her?? What's best, or should I not wait Many thanks for any help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatePT Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 Maybe it's better to see how she feels about you and then, if works out, jump in. Good luck! :happy2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted April 14, 2014 Author Share Posted April 14, 2014 Maybe it's better to see how she feels about you and then, if works out, jump in. Good luck! :happy2: How you mean jump in? Could you re write your message again please in idiot form please haha And Thankyou for your reply Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batman Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 ^ "jump in" as in "follow along/go with her" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatePT Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 ^ "jump in" as in "follow along/go with her" yeah, it's that. Thanks Batman ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batman Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 :batman: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carla Posted April 15, 2014 Share Posted April 15, 2014 Third cousins is like... great-grandparent's sibling's crotchfruit, isn't it? The dad being adopted would only mean not related if he married into the family. It depends on whether she thinks it's weird. It also may be a bit hard to make too many advances at a family gathering environment if you're that worried about it. Of course, this is all assuming you can actually talk to her (more than small talk preferable) without it being a shambles. Although, if you last saw her once at a funeral years ago, I am curious, what has spurred the interest here? ^What she said... Btw cobalt's input it's always spot on, had forgotten how much I like reading your posts :D We going to visited her and the family soon, Is it best for me to tell my mum and then talk to her when I get there or see her and make my mind up then tel my mum after then tell her?? What's best, or should I not wait Many thanks for any help Maybe it's better to see how she feels about you and then, if works out, jump in. Good luck! :happy2: ^That too, also talk to your mom if you're gonna jump in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted April 15, 2014 Share Posted April 15, 2014 ^ :blush: I think I meant to say not married into the family... of course it's not gonna matter if he married in. Silly! I dunno what this talking to mom biznez is about lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon7 Posted April 17, 2014 Author Share Posted April 17, 2014 What I mean is Should I speak to my mum about liking her, before we go to visit Or See her, and then tell my mum afterwards, then poss not see her for a while after I spoken to mum and her about it You understanding me now? Sorry not the clearest poster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 No, why on earth would you need to tell your mum as a requirement lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carla Posted April 20, 2014 Share Posted April 20, 2014 ^ :blush: I think I meant to say not married into the family... of course it's not gonna matter if he married in. Silly! I dunno what this talking to mom biznez is about lol What I mean is Should I speak to my mum about liking her, before we go to visit Or See her, and then tell my mum afterwards, then poss not see her for a while after I spoken to mum and her about it You understanding me now? Sorry not the clearest poster When is it that you're seeing her again? No, why on earth would you need to tell your mum as a requirement lol I wouldn't see it as a requirement, but my mom usually freaks out big time over everything. Mostly what family thinks about me and whatnot (I wouldn't really care if only my mom wouldn't go all over the top about the smallest things). So if I was in his shoes I will tell my mom, not really asking for her consent because generally people add stuff up to situations just to make it look worse so if I'd told my mom beforehand, she wouldn't have to find out through someone else who would make it look like I am committing incest or corrupting family members or whatever else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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