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heh Noni, I got that speech from my dad last night after telling him i was leaving my job end of the year and going to germany for a month with Jessy... he said "What then? Where you gonna work? When are you going to settle down? You have no stability, no roots" I said I'm the happiest I've been for a long time, I have a balance in my life, and things are looking up...when I finish work, I'll have money to live. And until Jessy and I sort out where we are going, I'm not relly in a place I want to settle down...I am happy being free...doing what I want...the thoughts of a house, mortgage, permanent job, these all scare me, as these tie me down, I don't want that until I am ready for it. Why do what society deems is proper? Live as you want to live, only you can ever make you truely happy.

eating a bacon and cheese roll

you just said u were old in another thread :P

lol sorry painting

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2 pieces of advice my dad gave me 1. Things always look better in the morning. 2. It's never as bad as it seems.

Don't dwell on things you can no longer change or influence :)

unsure

Try to live life without regrets...ask for that phone number, tell someone you like them...if you don't then you may always wonder "what if"...i was single for 18 months...thats a long time, but gave me time to think and reflect...have faith Noni, there is some1 there for you if you look...but 1 piece of advice...don't look too hard, don't be too desperate, people can sense that, and it puts them off...someone gave me that piece of advice in June..just relax, be myself, and don't go looking, and it will come...and it did...

:angry: :( :confused:

yeah it is hard...like i said, you want what you havent got...but noni 26 isnt that old, really

virginity? supermarkets? tell me more :P

lol :lol:

Try not to dwell on it...youre the same age as me...its weird, but when i was single i felt really old at 25/26 and kept thinking time is going by so fast, and i'll be too old...now im not single, i want time to hurry up so i can be with jessy permanently...time is immaterial, it really is...you have plenty of time to meet some1 special.

good luck :D

LOL i got the same as Jessy OMG we're suited :) I get most of my new music from MTV2 The Libertines The Rapture Kings of Leon The darkness The thrills etc

mimixx, been there...its tough, cant really give any advice, cos i never really dealt with it for the 1st year...ask Hicksy how much i bitched about it during the 2nd year lol...and dont punch any doors...all i can suggest is get out, and meet guys, and that might take your mind off it..

i like her tummy and butt but thats a different thread :D

reamined unrequited, tho she knew i liked her...but she loved me like a brother....for a guy, thats the worst line in the world to hear... and a twist... I lived with her...another guy lived nearby..they got on..he was reason i punched hole in door, due to knowing he was in her room with her and i was wound up...2nd year at uni...WE ALL MOVED IN TOGETHER!!! gah lol...but by that stage she really hated him..so that wasnt so bad...but had to live with herknowing nothing would ever happen..that was hard

Back on topic tho ... it is hard being single, especially after a long term relationship..you miss the intimacy of someone...you lie awake at night, wondering if you will be single for ever, will you ever meet anyone...etc... but if you give it time it does work out....*he says from experience* :D

yup i lived with her too...for 2 years...

lol i read the 1st post..saw Wolf Blitzer...and thought wtf? hes a newsreader...i remembered the name from when I was in the US..its not a name you forget easy... oh man i wanna see a clip of this too

hes a bald fat man with a moustache who thinks he knows you better than you do :)

Scariest film I ever saw was Event horizon, purely because the horror wasn't obvious..it was subtle, and got to your brain on a deeper level than just hack slash suspensful music jump out make you scream films :)

I'm not gonna take Jessy for granted :P