I got a call last night from a friend who said she was in a predicament. I went to see her and she told what it was basically, another friends dog went missing that her Mum was looking after. This friend of mine is pretty ill who dog it was, but dearly loved it.

 

Anyway I listened and gave the best advice I could, and offered help today (this morning of which I did) However I got a call this morning from the person who's dog it was asking if the Dog had shown up at my flat as this is where the dog used to live. Last night I was told not to mention about the dog was missing. However she knew about the dog, and she would have been likely to tell by the tone in my voice I was not to supraised so I told her that this was mentioned to me last night in the hope I kept it quite. I told her why she was not told straight away as she has been ill and did not need that stress at that moment in time. She was OK about it and understood.

 

Since then well just now I have just called my friend who told me about the dog. Thankfully the Dog has returned. However when I told her that I told her mate, that I was told last night about her dog. I got my head bitten off, she would not let me explain why I said what I had said and I ended up hanging up the phone... Now I am rather upset as all I have done is tell the truth when it had to be said and all is well now, but as regards of the other friend they are just going to be going on and on, and giving me even a hard time about hanging up on them. but I had to get back to work, sometimes I now thinking is the friend worth it, we have been though so much together but there is a question of maturity that at times goes UN answered.

 

Help me folks ..

hmmm tough one....

 

but you did the right thing in my opinion.. maybe the 'owner' sensed that the dog was missing... and called you straight away.. your other mate is over-reacting.. I think.. I would have hung up as well.. lol

 

 

 

chin up dear... :kiss:

Cheers !! :)

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If it means anything coming from me....I think you did the right thing as well...it was a lose-lose situation cos if you had lied or not told the truth to the other friend then he/she would be mad at you...In this case you told the truth thus picking the lesser of the two evils...

 

As for whether you should be friends or not....I guess you have to decide if this is someone that you want in your life...do you see being friends with him/her ten years from now?

This has escalted big time... she seems to think I was meddling in her and a friends friendship. That was not the case.... that was not my intention, all it was I was called about the whearabouts of the Dog. Kowing that the dog meant loads to her, and since I already knew my reacation was not one of a suprasie and I was not going to put something like that on.

 

 

I was called around 20 times last night, she normally makes my phone ring the once and I would normally call her back. I tried in vain to explain what happend and how it did, however I could not get a word in edgeways, If I could send on the voice mail mesaages I got on my phone I would. In the end I had to end up programming my phone to block the calls from her, what I cant belive is lack of regards for her frineds well being she is very very ill and is in hospital and the augrument we had seems very little compared to frined state of health and well being. !!

 

I don't think we are going speak for some time if ever. Well at least until she learns to grow up... it has been brewing up for sometime this one.

you did the right daryl.. probably she be good soon, i mean you´ll be friends again. :) she have to noticied that you did the right. :)

This has escalted big time... she seems to think I was meddling in her and a friends friendship. That was not the case.... that was not my intention, all it was I was called about the whearabouts of the Dog. Kowing that the dog meant loads to her, and since I already knew my reacation was not one of a suprasie and I was not going to put something like that on.

 

 

I was called around 20 times last night, she normally makes my phone ring the once and I would normally call her back. I tried in vain to explain what happend and how it did, however I could not get a word in edgeways, If I could send on the voice mail mesaages I got on my phone I would. In the end I had to end up programming my phone to block the calls from her, what I cant belive is lack of regards for her frineds well being she is very very ill and is in hospital and the augrument we had seems very little compared to frined state of health and well being. !!

 

I don't think we are going speak for some time if ever. Well at least until she learns to grow up... it has been brewing up for sometime this one.

 

I think she's just being a 'girl' about this... give it time.. she'll see she's being 'overly dramatic' about it... :cool:

 

 

*hugs*

hey Daryl...tell her to go fuck herself!...she should be greatful that u had to tell her friend first...so fuck her...throw a bone out the window and have her chase it :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

i don`t know but i`m scared of dogs

I think you were right beacuse you were only doing what you thought was right if she doesnt understand or give you time to explain she isnt a good mate ... if she didnt call back then she deffo isnt a good m8

i think that sometimes people give up on others too easily.

 

anyways, if she's calling you non-stop i guess there's a problem. it's interesting that you explained the situation to her and that didn't help things at all. i wonder if there's something else going on that's deeper than all of this or if issues haven't quite been resolved..

Well cheers guys... I now believe this friendship is UN resolvable. It was not until last night I heard the entire voicemail message, I had to get my friends to listen to it as I could not believe my ears. I just sincerely hope this does not make things awkward between me and one of her friends, and she learns how to grow up if she learns that I know something good has come out of this..

well................. what did the rest of the message say!!! and why is it now unresolvable??

its very bad ..

its very bad ..

 

 

I've got time.... if you got msn.... :wink3: or if you wanna pm it to me... its all good! ;)

okies

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