berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 what constitutes as a date??? If you go out with a friend from work... lets say to the movies.. and such.. is that a date??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 Um...well, it depends. There are certain things that help determine the "date" status. For example...who's paying? Some might think this is mundane or whatever, but it actually says a lot. If you end up paying for yourselves, chances are it's just a casual outing? Is this event going to happen? or has it happened already? and who's the lucky bloke. I'm gonna kill him. :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: ok here's how it all started... a while back a friend from work.. (a guy who happens to be 10 yrs older than me) no biggie.. wanted to go see a movie that just so happened to be, a movie that none of his friends wanted to see.. so I happened to want to see this movie as well, so we went. We had dinner as well.. (he paid) I did offer to pay my half.. but he insisted.. so I obliged. then at work... a few weeks later.. he asks again.. 'so when are we going to the movies again?' I was like.. 'oh whenever.. I'm down' but I honestly didnt think anything of it.. so now, here comes my bday... I honestly had no plans.. and he says.. 'oh but its your bday.. you gotta go out.. I owe you a movie.. ' :stunned: ok so me being non rude.. I accepted.. :stunned: :stunned: I just dont want him to think I am 'interested' because although I appreciate the attention.. he really isnt my type.. and he is a sweetheart of a guy.. but I dont want him to think these are 'dates'.... are they?? :embarrased: :huh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 um..i hate to break it to you Camu, it kinda does sound like a date. Well, maybe not the first one..b/c it was just "hey wanna come see a movie that no one else wants to see?" type-deal, but the fact that's he's asking again, probably means he's interested and hopes that that one incident was a stepping stone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 :stunned: dooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh!!!! this had to be my 12000th post!!! :embarrased: oh dear.. now what do I do?? Should I cancel on tomorrow??? I really think he's a nice guy.. but, he really isnt the kind of guy that I would 'date' or anything.. I dont mind 'hanging out'... but, :embarrased: gah! I hate this!! :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 Congrats on the 12000 Camu!!! :kiss: Yeah. That's a pickle. Maybe you should throw him "the friend vibe" tomorrow, if it's too late to cancel. I mean, it usually works, depending on how clueless the guy is. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 But seriously, if you're not feeling comfortable where this might lead, I say cancel. But offer to do something else at another time...like with friends or something to lighten the whole "date" feel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 hmmm I think I will cancel... I'll use my mom as an excuse or something.. :lol: :lol: I feel bad.. but I dont want to give him the wrong idea.. and my other co-workers were already teasing me about it.. tonight we all went to a party (for another co worker) and we happened to go together..so they were teasing me saying it was our 'second' date.. :embarrased: meanies.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 I hate when people do that!! so, why isn't this guy your type? what is your type (besides Paul banks and me) hahah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: to be honest.. its a bit of a few things... for one.. his hands. :stunned: Silly I know.. but I can't stand it when a guy bites his nails.. an his fingers are nubbs.. you know what I mean? It just really grosses me out. :sick: Second.. I feel we have nothing really in common.. he's sweet and all.. but not enough of the 'bad' for my taste.. I am a big joker.. he doesnt really joke as often.. or gets my humor at times.. its just a hassle.. I dont even mind the fact that he's going bald.. :lol: I like bald headed guys.. but he's more of the George Costanza type of bald.. :laugh3: :embarrased: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 :/ oh well.. :P I'll keep you posted.. I'm off to bed.. :kiss: thanks for keeping me company.. and for the bday wishes!! I wuv you too!! OH!! and go peep the Interpol thread.. I uploaded the rest of the remixes there if you want them.. ;) nitey nite! :kiss: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 Keep me posted, indeed. Thanks for the remixes...woooot! Nighty night birthday girl!!! :kiss: :kiss: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: to be honest.. its a bit of a few things... for one.. his hands. :stunned: Silly I know.. but I can't stand it when a guy bites his nails.. an his fingers are nubbs.. you know what I mean? It just really grosses me out. :sick: Oh you are SO from Seinfield :P But no I do agree, hands are kinda important and overlooked as a good feature. They're kinda, used for a lot... :stunned: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: to be honest.. its a bit of a few things... for one.. his hands. :stunned: Silly I know.. but I can't stand it when a guy bites his nails.. an his fingers are nubbs.. you know what I mean? It just really grosses me out. :sick: Oh you are SO from Seinfield :P But no I do agree, hands are kinda important and overlooked as a good feature. They're kinda, used for a lot... :stunned: hahah!! :lol: yeah.. well I havent cancelled yet... I kinda feel bad.... but when I think of those hands..... *shudders* no, sorry.. I can't do it.. I have to call... cancelling!! :laugh3: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
About A Girl Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 sooo how it go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 the party???? it was nice.... mostly older people.. so there wasnt any dancing and stuff... just people standing arounding chit chatting.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
About A Girl Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 hmm...you didnt get ny bump bump :wink3: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: no... Paul Banks is in Europe.... Italy to be exact!!! :P I'll have to take a rain check on that one! :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 Did you cancel Camu? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 Did you cancel Camu? not yet.. I am going to call him around 1ish... I'm going to use the mom excuse.. lol :sneaky: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 so I just spoke to him.. he says we'll have to do it another time.. :stunned: cancel successful! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 Yay Camu! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrywoman Posted April 17, 2005 Author Share Posted April 17, 2005 :lol: :lol: lets see how long I can put him off.. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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