Friends and Love

[Albie]

My best friend used to be my boyfriend.:-/ We were a couple about a year, then we split up. I soon reconciled to him and we spent much time together again. Later, we fell in love again, and then broke up.

 

He means still very much to me, I can talk with him about everything, I would say, he's the most important person to me. Sometimes I wish he still was my boyfriend, and I know that he feels the same way. But I just fear that another separation could damage our friendship.

 

Those things are so difficult sometimes... :embarrased:

 

maybe you should let things come into their own :cool:

try courting :)

[BlissfullyMuse]

Ahh im just soooo confused right now about this kind of thing...sorry if you dont understand that lol i`ll get back to you when i know myself

[Albie]

I know it's a bit confusing, but timing plays a BIG role in these situations :/

[Albie]

yeah they can really suck!

 

I had a great friend for two years, and finally we got together. She had never known how i felt about her, but then after a few months some kinda stupid things happened and now she wont talk to me. :cry:

 

I wish that we could still be friends, i broke up with her to avoid what ended up happening anyways.

 

that sucks :angry:

[Cabroncito]

Don't let it eat you up. Just roll with it and wait for an opportunity to show itself ;)

[Albie]

great point Cab :)

 

Timing is could be a good thing

 

it's like waiting on a album, the longer they take to make it, the better it would be :)

[Petit Prince]

yeah they can really suck!

 

I had a great friend for two years, and finally we got together. She had never known how i felt about her, but then after a few months some kinda stupid things happened and now she wont talk to me. :cry:

 

I wish that we could still be friends, i broke up with her to avoid what ended up happening anyways.

 

Yeah, that's really difficult. If someone means that much to you, it hurts so much to break up.

 

But maybe you'll be able to talk about whatever has happend some day and things might change. :-/

[Cabroncito]

*finger crossed* 6 months after the fact i still harbor some hope for resolution :)

[Albie]

I feel it in my heart, that my friendship with this girl will lead to something amazing :cry:

[Petit Prince]

My best friend used to be my boyfriend.:-/ We were a couple about a year, then we split up. I soon reconciled to him and we spent much time together again. Later, we fell in love again, and then broke up.

 

He means still very much to me, I can talk with him about everything, I would say, he's the most important person to me. Sometimes I wish he still was my boyfriend, and I know that he feels the same way. But I just fear that another separation could damage our friendship.

 

Those things are so difficult sometimes... :embarrased:

 

maybe you should let things come into their own :cool:

try courting :)

 

Maybe, yes. :)

 

I just don't know coz it's pretty a long time I feel this way about our friendship. :/ But I really think I have to change something about this situation.

[Albie]

My best friend used to be my boyfriend.:-/ We were a couple about a year, then we split up. I soon reconciled to him and we spent much time together again. Later, we fell in love again, and then broke up.

 

He means still very much to me, I can talk with him about everything, I would say, he's the most important person to me. Sometimes I wish he still was my boyfriend, and I know that he feels the same way. But I just fear that another separation could damage our friendship.

 

Those things are so difficult sometimes... :embarrased:

 

maybe you should let things come into their own :cool:

try courting :)

 

Maybe, yes. :)

 

I just don't know coz it's pretty a long time I feel this way about our friendship. :/ But I really think I have to change something about this situation.

 

take some initative :/

 

true love sometimes can be found through friendships

[twin4life]

once me and my best guy friend considered going out, but before anything was official it just got really weird. like, while everyone around us would say "love you" as a friend i wouldn't say it in a fear he might take it in a different meaning, he never said it either. we didn't even really hug anymore, and he's like my hug toy, i love hugging him. so one day i told him that everything was just too weird and it wouldn't work and he agreed because he felt the akwardness also.

 

so thats my story. we're still great friends.

and i think it's possible to be more then friends, but it could spoil a friendship. i'm not sure if i'd take the risk.

[Albie]

once me and my best guy friend considered going out, but before anything was official it just got really weird. like, while everyone around us would say "love you" as a friend i wouldn't say it in a fear he might take it in a different meaning, he never said it either. we didn't even really hug anymore, and he's like my hug toy, i love hugging him. so one day i told him that everything was just too weird and it wouldn't work and he agreed because he felt the akwardness also.

 

so thats my story. we're still great friends.

and i think it's possible to be more then friends, but it could spoil a friendship. i'm not sure if i'd take the risk.

 

 

uh oh :cry:

 

I hope that doesn't happen to me and my close mate

 

:bigcry:

[Petit Prince]

My best friend used to be my boyfriend.:-/ We were a couple about a year, then we split up. I soon reconciled to him and we spent much time together again. Later, we fell in love again, and then broke up.

 

He means still very much to me, I can talk with him about everything, I would say, he's the most important person to me. Sometimes I wish he still was my boyfriend, and I know that he feels the same way. But I just fear that another separation could damage our friendship.

 

Those things are so difficult sometimes... :embarrased:

 

maybe you should let things come into their own :cool:

try courting :)

 

Maybe, yes. :)

 

I just don't know coz it's pretty a long time I feel this way about our friendship. :/ But I really think I have to change something about this situation.

 

take some initative :/

 

true love sometimes can be found through friendships

 

Maybe you're right. We can't go on like this. It's kinda strange that it's so difficult to talk about the most important thing, even though I can talk with him about anything else. :embarrased:

[Albie]

My best friend used to be my boyfriend.:-/ We were a couple about a year, then we split up. I soon reconciled to him and we spent much time together again. Later, we fell in love again, and then broke up.

 

He means still very much to me, I can talk with him about everything, I would say, he's the most important person to me. Sometimes I wish he still was my boyfriend, and I know that he feels the same way. But I just fear that another separation could damage our friendship.

 

Those things are so difficult sometimes... :embarrased:

 

maybe you should let things come into their own :cool:

try courting :)

 

Maybe, yes. :)

 

I just don't know coz it's pretty a long time I feel this way about our friendship. :/ But I really think I have to change something about this situation.

 

take some initative :/

 

true love sometimes can be found through friendships

 

Maybe you're right. We can't go on like this. It's kinda strange that it's so difficult to talk about the most important thing, even though I can talk with him about anything else. :embarrased:

 

I'm in the same situation you are

I'm just being patient

:(

[Petit Prince]

My best friend used to be my boyfriend.:-/ We were a couple about a year, then we split up. I soon reconciled to him and we spent much time together again. Later, we fell in love again, and then broke up.

 

He means still very much to me, I can talk with him about everything, I would say, he's the most important person to me. Sometimes I wish he still was my boyfriend, and I know that he feels the same way. But I just fear that another separation could damage our friendship.

 

Those things are so difficult sometimes... :embarrased:

 

maybe you should let things come into their own :cool:

try courting :)

 

Maybe, yes. :)

 

I just don't know coz it's pretty a long time I feel this way about our friendship. :/ But I really think I have to change something about this situation.

 

take some initative :/

 

true love sometimes can be found through friendships

 

Maybe you're right. We can't go on like this. It's kinda strange that it's so difficult to talk about the most important thing, even though I can talk with him about anything else. :embarrased:

 

I'm in the same situation you are

I'm just being patient

:(

 

And he's in the same situation as well, I can feel that. :/

 

I really, really shoulda talk to him about it, but I just haven't been able to do it till now.

[Albie]

Sally - don't force it, just let things come into their own

 

forcing things might just corrupt the chance of it ever happening :(

[Petit Prince]

Yes, but I can't wait to long to talk about this. :/

 

He's gonna start studying in a town, which is about an hour from here, this summer. So I' ll see him less often then. :(

[Albie]

Yes, but I can't wait to long to talk about this. :/

 

He's gonna start studying in a town, which is about an hour from here, this summer. So I' ll see him less often then. :(

 

follow your heart ;)

 

do you think he's your soulmate ?

[Petit Prince]

Yes, but I can't wait to long to talk about this. :/

 

He's gonna start studying in a town, which is about an hour from here, this summer. So I' ll see him less often then. :(

 

follow your heart ;)

 

do you think he's your soulmate ?

 

Could be. At least you don't have to talk about most things, coz you just know how each other feels about it.

[Albie]

Yes, but I can't wait to long to talk about this. :/

 

He's gonna start studying in a town, which is about an hour from here, this summer. So I' ll see him less often then. :(

 

follow your heart ;)

 

do you think he's your soulmate ?

 

Could be. At least you don't have to talk about most things, coz you just know how each other feels about it.

 

It's a tough situation for me, because timing is my issue

 

I can very impatient towards these types of things, :cry:

[Petit Prince]

I understand, that's really difficult.

 

I often told myself 'you gonna talk to him' but then, I didn't.

[Albie]

I understand, that's really difficult.

 

I often told myself 'you gonna talk to him' but then, I didn't.

 

I've talked with my close mate about this and she told me, it's all about waiting :(

[Petit Prince]

She might be right. :/ Waiting can be so difficult. :(

[Albie]

She might be right. :/ Waiting can be so difficult. :(

 

I wish time would fly by already :cry: