but at the same time she confuses me a lot!!!

Why that?

because she lives with someone...

 

oh sorry, dident know that. well, i agree with julia in that case.

 

its really better if you dont get closer to her but i know its easily said and its so damn hard if you like someone.

hhmmm... for instance... last night I was talk to her (again!!!), and my chef said to me (in front of her) that I was hitting on her all the time... I said no, that I don't hit on married women... and she said: I'm not married!!! I'm free... I have a boyfriend but I'm free!!!

Huh? Now that sounds really strange......or maybe she meant that you feel more free when you are not married....I mean a break up for example is easier then...

 

now I would also be confused.......maybe she feels the same like you...but hmmmm...:thinking:

there's another thing... we talk a lot... I mean really a lot... but she never mentions her boyfriend... what makes me think (maybe I'm wrong) that they're not happy!!! and I don't have courage to ask...

I don't know......but somehow this sounds like she doesn't seem to take her relationship that serious....

 

I understand....I would also not have enough courage to aks things like that....because it's so personal...

hhmmm... for instance... last night I was talk to her (again!!!)' date=' and my chef said to me (in front of her) that I was hitting on her all the time... I said no, that I don't hit on married women... and she said: I'm not married!!! I'm free... I have a boyfriend but I'm free!!![/quote']

 

thats confusing indeed.:thinking:

 

but some people really think they're not obligated to anyone unless they're married. some men who seemed to be interested in me but who had a girlfriend at the time told me more or less the same. i personally wouldnt consider a relationship with him if he seriously thinks that. by saying that he also means it wouldnt be a big thing to cheat me, if i was his girlfriend.

 

i'm not sure if she meant that though. maybe she just isnt happy with her relationship.

well......I should go to bed now...

 

goodnight and sleep well Sally and Miguel:kiss:

 

and Miguel have at least sweet dreams...;)

;)

thanks Juli!!! you too... :kiss:

good night julia :kiss:

 

i understand what you're saying miguel. there must be some reason why she never mentions her byfriend, maybe there relationship isn't going well. but you might find out even if you dont ask her directly as you seem to see her quite often.

yeahhh, that's what I thought too... let's see what happens.... meanwhile this story is scaring me a lot...

good luck than. its probably way better if you'll find out soon, even if it might hurt. and i guess you'll only know, if you meet her, so you might have done the right thing.

 

how long have you known her?

since I moved here... end of June, we work together...

 

we always had a good relation, talking a lot and stuff... but the last few weeks we got closer and closer...

i understand. well, it sounds like she does like to spend time with you. i think what you have to do is find out why she doesnt about her boyfriend. try to make her talk about it without actually asking her. sorry, i know i cant help you a lot.:embarassed:

yeahhh, I have to try... you're doing a lot really, "listening" to me... :D

 

well going to sleep now, I'll let you know what will happen... ;)

 

good night Sally, sweet dreams!!! :kiss:

good night and good luck! :kiss:

what will you do today, Juli? :kiss:

Good morning Miguel:kiss: (oh now it's not morning anymore...)

 

We'll go to to the city today to buy some clothes and stuff...we do this every holidays....:D

after that I'll have a meeting with some people from my music club...

 

and that's it...maybe I'll do something for school..if there is time enough left...

 

 

and you?

;)

 

well, I'm going to give a clean to my place, and after going to town as well... have a drink with someone... *coughs*... and tonight watch football...

ah a clean is always good....although it's so annoying doing it haha....

my room needs that as well......but I'm not really bothered..:thinking:

 

ah yeah you said that yesterday....;)

 

Oh and I need to cook something....lunch has to be ready at 13 otherwise we can't go to town in time...hehe...

 

so I got to go and to cook something....see you...have a nice day...:kiss:

you too... see you!!!

hiya!

 

i'm home writing applications and making phone calls because i'm looking for a job.

 

hope you're alright. at least i feel better now but i do miss england like hell.

 

cant wait for the footie tonight!

Hello Jules. Thanks for starting a birthday thread for me :D :kiss:

Awwww...no problem Mo:nice: