April 10, 200620 yr I have to say...I suck at it....and I had situations when friends maybe need your advice....I'm always someone who listens to them and says yes...ok...., maybe it's because I'm just afraid I could give a wrong advice...or it is in a situation I'm not that familiar with.....but I also hate it if there are people who think they have to give their "good advice" to everything.... But there have been many sitautions....for example....a good friend of mine had a serious problem with her boyfriend....we had a cours ein school and her best friend isn't in that course.....so actually I was the closest person to her in this course.....suddenly she began to fel really bad and wanted to go out....but I couldn't go with her....it would just have been awkward(!!!) for me.....I would have felt like giving her advices.....and to console her.....I'm so bad at those things....damn....
April 10, 200620 yr Hehe, I think I know where this stems from ;) Well, in our case, I just dont know if you read everything in that thread like the others did, you would've seen the issues about me dating a friend y'know. You'd be surprised what things you can work on socially to improve yourself, like humour and such. This is one of those things you can change, maybe you just panic when thinking of the possibilities of things to say...
April 10, 200620 yr I suck giving advices,but I guess when the time comes in which a friend of mine is in a desperate situation I'll try my best
April 10, 200620 yr Author ^haha I read everything..........mabe it was just because I don't think like a typical girl...and I'm not experienced enough...ha....
April 10, 200620 yr Normally I give good advice,but I start to be more quiet within the years. Ok my advice is sleep more than 3 hours at day! (I should listen to my advice:thinking:)
April 11, 200620 yr I like to give advices too :) 'cause I like to listen the people's stories... I really think that you can learn a lot of the other people's experiences... btw, I'd add that I think the person who is more suitable for giving these advices is this one which is not involved in the story, so he/she can have an unbiased point of view about that :lol:
April 11, 200620 yr ok i like to listen to people and i try my best to help them and give advices.....my advice usually doesn't work but i keep trying
April 11, 200620 yr I like to listen to people's problems... i learn a lot with it... it could happen to me one day and I can be ready for it... giving advice is different, sometimes quite delicate... sometimes a good advice is exactly what your friend doesn't want to listen and that makes a hard situation...
April 11, 200620 yr within my group of mates im the person who they come to for advice. i dont mind at all because i want to perhaps shed some light on their situation and i feel like they really value what i have to say. not only do i help them but i also learn a little from their stories in the process
April 11, 200620 yr within my group of mates im the person who they come to for advice. i dont mind at all because i want to perhaps shed some light on their situation and i feel like they really value what i have to say. not only do i help them but i also learn a little from their stories in the process same with me... ;)
April 12, 200620 yr I try to give advices to the ones who need them but I'm not the kind of person who always has to be there with my "good advices" because my advices aren't very good :P. I want to help people and if I don't do it I get a sense of guilt that eats me...boo I hate that.. It's hard to come up with good advices though and a lot easyer to just listen to the persones problem and say nothing more than maybe "it'll be alright" or something like that
April 12, 200620 yr i dont know why, but i like giving advices... maybe coz im curious about ppls stories and like to talk a lot. sometimes i know i should stay quiet but i cant hold myself and end up giving advices... about them being good or bad advices, well, i cant really say it... if theres anyone here i ever gave advices, that person can asnwer this better. When i give the advice i just try to put myself in the persons place, and say what would be the rational thing to do in that situation (in my opinion). i dont know... i just know i always get myself in giving advices, specially about ppls love life... :P
April 12, 200620 yr noooo, I'm just letting people know because everyone apparently thinks advices is a word :rolleyes:
April 12, 200620 yr Man.....that's again exactly how I feel about it Sofia!:stunned: well to be honest, when I read a lot of what you have written here, it's like you have copyed it from my brain...:stunned: really, it' strue :stunned:
April 12, 200620 yr Author well to be honest' date=' when I read a lot of what you have written here, it's like you have copyed it from my brain...:stunned: really, it' strue :stunned:[/quote'] :uhoh:..........cool:cool3: Oh Eric.....is it like "information"?I'll change it!:nice:
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