It's like...you know what you're about to say cannot be for good, and it'll probably be the beggining of a fight or nasty conversation that can't end well either, but I can't help it. Friday night I was sitting in front of the computer and my mom asked me something (can't remember what it was) that turned the switch on. I was looking for a chance to get something out of my chest,though I was sure that she'd freak out and give me a half and hour talk and I would be endangering my night out with friends...but I did it anyway. And as I predicted, it was a half an hour talk that included the lines 'I want you out' 'you have to change' and 'you're not going out tomorrow' as usual. The worst part was that I went to take a shower and the talk kept going there,cos I told her she was bothering me going in and out the bathroom every 2 secs. What the fuck is wrong with me?

I used to have so many arguments with my mom...But last year we don't have any, I think I learnt how to keep things inside. Sometimes I just don't say anything to not say something rude.

 

It's harder with teachers-I'm kinda rude or rebel sometimes and have many problems with some teachers in school.

It's like...you know what you're about to say cannot be for good' date=' and it'll probably be the beggining of a fight or nasty conversation that can't end well either, but I can't help it. Friday night I was sitting in front of the computer and my mom asked me something (can't remember what it was) that turned the switch on. I was looking for a chance to get something out of my chest,though I was sure that she'd freak out and give me a half and hour talk and I would be endangering my night out with friends...but I did it anyway. And as I predicted, it was a half an hour talk that included the lines 'I want you out' 'you have to change' and 'you're not going out tomorrow' as usual. The worst part was that I went to take a shower and the talk kept going there,cos I told her she was bothering me going in and out the bathroom every 2 secs. What the fuck is wrong with me?[/quote']

 

You will never understand what your mother is thinking until you have your own children. Then you will look back and say "Of course...it was all only because she loved me so much."

It's not like that, I just have something to say that will probably upset her after she said something anooying to me and I can't keep my mouth shut

It's not like that' date=' I just have something to say that will probably upset her after she said something anooying to me and I can't keep my mouth shut[/quote']

 

It is like that. I was thinking the exact same thing as you when I lived at home with my mother. I couldn't keep my mouth shut either. I assume you are a girl? That is the nature of the mother/daughter relationship.

 

Trust me, you will understand one day! She loves you very much.

I know she loves me, and I love her, I just happen to find her voice tone very annoying while saying some phrases

I know she loves me' date=' and I love her, I just happen to find her voice tone very annoying while saying some phrases[/quote']

 

Yes, I understand. My daughter will probably be typing the exact same message that you are one day about me!

Yes' date=' I understand. My daughter will probably be typing the exact same message that you are one day about me![/quote']

happy mother's day :juggle:

happy mother's day :juggle:

 

Aww, thanks a lot.