Do you hold grudges? I mean in real life, but for the hell of it, on here too.

 

I rarely find something to hold a grude about in real life, it has to be something pretty extreme for me to change my view on somebody. But I usually get over it pretty quickly. I'm usually the first one to throw my hands up, and be like, fuckit, lets move on.

 

On here though, I hold grudges like a vice! I guess its different when you see things in writing, sticks in your head better, but also, because I get pretty bored on here and sometimes feel like stirring shit up. Fo sho.

very seldom...

rarely find something to hold a grude about in real life

thats the same reason why i dont carry a grudge..

To be honest... I don't know. Sometimes I would hold a grudge for a while and sometimes I would be the one to come forward and sort it out. No idea why either... Got me thinking now...

Do you hold grudges? I mean in real life, but for the hell of it, on here too.

 

I rarely find something to hold a grude about in real life, it has to be something pretty extreme for me to change my view on somebody. But I usually get over it pretty quickly. I'm usually the first one to throw my hands up, and be like, fuckit, lets move on.

 

On here though, I hold grudges like a vice! I guess its different when you see things in writing, sticks in your head better, but also, because I get pretty bored on here and sometimes feel like stirring shit up. Fo sho.

 

 

we're on the same boat, on this issue.

 

 

 

But in real life, i'm not much different. If there is a point I agree with strongly, it will be a tough one to see me out.

 

Unless there is a big issue out of it, I rarely forgive. I think this is where the grudge comes in. Like if something upsets me (or someone) they have to be officially forgiven so that I can move on. THEN i won't ever bring it up. But it takes bunches of inner courage for me to forgive and forget...so grudges abound.

im pretty much like u reilly, in real life i have trouble holding grudges i just get over stuff

around here, i dunno, im not really close with anyone to the extent that they've done something to me that i could hold a grudge against

I never hold grudges. Well...unless I really don't like someone. But if it's someone I'm friends with and it's just something they did I get over it pretty quick. I can never stay mad for long.

the grudge maestro right here.

i hate accepting when i'm wrong, and if someone does me wrong it can take excruciatingly long periods of time to forgive and forget.

 

wait. if someone apologises, i will forgive. i can't really not forgive.

but, i find it very hard to forget.

 

this is probably one of my biggest faults.

I hold grudges and there's one I still hold. She is my ex-best friend and in school, I've kinda forgotten she's there and I ignore her. It becomes quite easy for me to and I think we're both just moving on. Pity, but I guess we've just grown apart.

Yes.....quite often actually, even if it's only something stupid :rolleyes:

 

You see, in my group of friends we all go about "tiffs" and "fights" the same way because we've all been friends for so long and have adopted similar mindsets when it comes to little arguments and such

 

It always starts out the same way. One person will have a bit of a bitch to the person they consider being the closest to in the group, then that other person will say to another mutual friend "oh so and so is pretty annoyed at such and such, so we best keep them apart for a bit until this cools down"

 

So unless the person actually talks directly to the person they're holding the grudge at, it doesn't really get resolved, it just cools down and eventually disappears.

 

It's usually only something minor though so it's all good :D