oh, lol, sorry:P . but y he seems to be on her side?

its not a side thing. he is mediating i suppose. hes a mutual friend, so hes friends with both of us..

oh, i see.:) btw did u talk to her yet?

not properly yet. i plan on doing that over the next few days.

Well...I have more ex-friends than current friends...

well, i think that's true about me too

 

only because ppl in life come and go, not because i fight with all my friends

there are just those few special ppl that stick :)

This thing of fight with friends happen to me like 3 weeks ago.

The exactly the same thing!

She just dissapoint me,with some things she said.Not really bad things,but the problem is that she do not tell me,she spoke with other friends of me.

 

My friends inmediatly told me what happen.My friends think that she was kinda mean and most of all ungrateful.

 

I still do not fix the problem with her,and with the time I think I care the less,which in my opinion is the biggest problem,cause I am not the kind of person that get over the thing that easy.

 

Of course my friends try to give me some advices and everything,but most of the advices do not help to fix the situation,just make the thing a little bigger.

 

So that is the history.

 

My advice is do not let other people mess with the situation and most important be honest.

 

Honesty is the key,no matter what your other friends think!

yeah... it sucks when they refuse to accept honesty, and say you have a twisted reality are 'you area dickhead'

WOW. I have had this best friend named Katy since like, the 5th grade.

 

our fights were always amatuer in the beginning. And we would fight non stop. And every year there was always like, ONE big fight over all the little things.

 

THen one of the fights led me to kick her ankle. Big things happened and I never fought with her after that!

 

We still maintain that friendship (thought not so close..she's married off anad all)

 

But if ever I am asked who is my best friend or if she Is asked who her best friend is...

I know we answer by each others' names.

O ...

so basically. If you still want to be in a relationship with someone you are in a fight with...grow the balls if you have to and be the first to patch things back up. While fights will be aplenty ... friend that are really good ones...go away if you don't take the necessary steps.

i do try and patch things up... but when they refuse and act really immature and refuse to see my side of the argument its fruitless....

Two of my good friends met up after school to fight. Alot of people came to watch like it was some show? The girl who got "beat up" is missing 6 of her front teeth and two came through her bottom lip. Her mom is now pressing charges and they STILL hate each other! So what does this resolve? NOTHING!!!