u still sad?

 

well... here is some pix i have posted them b4 but hey :) i like makin others happy :P tis my passion hope these dudes make u smile lol

thanks for the kittens :nice:

 

well Terry, i keep posting here about this guy... (i'm not that sad after all those parties) i said on a previous post here that i should change the name of the thread may be... (i don't know/remember how to change the name of the thread now :thinking:) i'm even thinking that i should had opened a thread about Eramus. yes that would had been better....

 

well i don't use to open new threads very often so.. :confused: forgive me.

well the other night (concert night) he was like ignoring me, but he looked at me once and also thumbsup, at the concert... :thinking:

 

oh my this night, oh my :wacky: we are crazy, we came back uni at 7.20 this morning and we has left the night before at 10... :confused: and hey he talked to me, didn't look at me as the other night, but he talked... i didn't enjoyed too much party yesterday 'cause i was tired of the previous night and the accidetal end that we had :confused:

 

wow.. i think he got sleepy at that time:P

..you still need cheering up? :shocked2:

not man :p you did your work well... thanks :kiss:

i already had explained it on a previous post here today.... (don't anybody read it?)...

No i did not read it...:embarassed:

No i did not read it...:embarassed:

 

i always read previous post before to comment something :thinking:

I'm too lazy to check previous page.

:dozey: lazy boy :dozey:

 

btw how are you doing rick? ;) i haven't seen you here in a week or so, at least we didn't came at the same time :(

:P:P:P:P

 

I'm okay aye...

:P:P:P:P

 

I'm okay aye...

 

are you sure that you are doing fine rick?.. it took you like 5 hours to answer that question :o :o :p

^ are you okay ari? :thinking:

hey, i never see you online in my msn again

^ are you okay ari? :thinking:

hey, i never see you online in my msn again

 

yes i'm a bit hyper today :embarassed: that's since i saw Milo pics :dead:

 

oh sorry i'm login in there with another account.... i'll send you a pm ok.

yes i'm a bit hyper today :embarassed: that's since i saw Milo pics :dead:

 

oh sorry i'm login in there with another account.... i'll send you a pm ok.

 

oh okay, i already receive it yesterday(in here):)

 

milo who? milo ventigmilia on heroes? :P

i had already mentioned that on ari's thread but it still is running on my mind yet... and i need to let it out. (surelly later i'll be sorry to had posted-bumped this thread with this).

 

 

may be is for the spring (which always affects me...) but i think i'm falling in love with some one that i don't really know, just because he is being kind and nice with me... i'm thinking he may has feelings for me... the thing is that i really don't know him (personally), and seeing the situation calmy and coldly i think that is me who is seeing things that aren't (like always)...

 

we talked about to go together to a concert to his place (he offered himself to pick me up to the concert, almost after our first words (he told me that he had already picked up more people to more concerts of this artists, and has 'confesed me' that he has attended to many concerts of the artists, that even the artists knows him), but i had never met him in person before, and i still think that we had talked few to do a thing like that.

 

of course the concert will be good (although is more a kind of party/festival) and i'll know nice people there for sure ... but...

on one hand i want to go for the concert itself but on the other hand i fear to go, 'cause to meet this guy (but if i don't meet him there's no way that i can go to the concert).. because may is just me who has some 'feelings' for him..

 

i had known him from a board just 4 days ago, and the concert is in 4 days... so i'm in the middle to decide if go or not. (is the closest place where he will play from where i am and the time that rest me to stay here (Portugal).

 

i'd like to go to the concert: for the artist, to know another city and to attend to a QdF (Queima das Fitas)... (we will have also a thing like that at the end of May, but won't come this artist).

 

but this thing of meet that guy, i don't know what to do.. 'cause i'm afraid that is just my interest on him which makes me think just the opposite (that is he who is interested in me). I fear that if go i'll behave as i am not, that is or to be too silent, or to be too talkative and end saying stupid things.

 

i hate to feel like i'm feeling now, i know it will end bad, it won't even start, as always, and it hurts.

 

he seems to be a nice guy, and i'd like to meet him as friend, but my mind and my heart don't seem to speak the same language about this subject right now.. i'm confused about what to do.

 

and plus some things that he had told me even confuse me more about his interest on me.. he had told me things like: when we meet (see he is almost sure that i will attend the concert) i'd like to listen to you speaking for almost half an hour, i'd like to know your accent (may be is just me, but it sounds very sweet to me).

 

and btw the artist songs all them can be perfect for a special night (at least imo)

 

and the concert will be from 22 till 3am surelly... and coming back will take us another hour or so... if i finally decide to go i'll have to warn someone here about it... you know, you can never know what could happen.. :uhoh:

 

still i'm very confused and i fear that i will waste those 4 days thinking about it and i will end doing nothing, and that after that i'll feel guilty/bad for that.

 

:(

 

i fear is just me who makes it all be more complicated of what it really is... i mean that i should decide to go or not for the concert itself and not for any other thing...

 

 

but even i've been thinking.. imagine that erm.. the artist come close and make some coment, funny about us... :uhoh: (like: 'you had took your gf this time'), or that this guy introduce me to the artist.. i will feel a bit strange.. :uhoh: lol, that is so stupid.

 

 

Btw the guy that i had mentioned at first on this thread, is dating another girl so... :dozey: good luck for them :D

 

 

 

 

any advice about what to do? :uhoh:

So Ari is this guy you're thinking about going to the concert with someone you've only ever known over the internet?

So Ari is this guy you're thinking about going to the concert with someone you've only ever known over the internet?

:huh: not... i mean this guy and i talked about to a recent concert of the artists, and as he is still on tour, this guy offered to take me to a concert... and now we had been talking and i fear that i'm having feelings for this guy... is suppoused to be this guy and i who will go to that concert (decition not taken yet as, as i had just said i fear how i'll behave when i'll meet this guy)...

 

i fear is just me who is making things more complicated of how them really are. :confused:

 

this guy i just know him as i said since 4 days or so.. through internet.

i fear that it all will distract me from studies now... and now we are finishing, i'll have to do my presentations quite soon, so i ought be focused on studies more than ever.. but i also think that going out could be good to distract a bit of studies... but... if something more would happen.. i don't know what to do.

 

i always think too much about those things, i never take the right decition and i always end feeling bad for that... gah :( i'd like that those things would be much more easier.

 

and it seems to me that he is convinced that i will go to that concert this saturday.. :uhoh: and i still hadn't decided if go or not.. ('cause i'm thinking on the guy and not the event, i must reckon).

 

i think that i should only think about the event itself but for some reason i can't only think about it... :confused:

Ari

 

First of all, wait and see how he behaves during your outing. Maybe he'll like you, you don't know it yet. If he does, you'll only have to make yourself understood and I assume he'll know what to do. If you're only a friend to him, you'll also see it. You'll feel offended if you show him your feeling whereas you're only a good friend for him. Besides, in that case you've much chance not to see him again. The best is to wait and see his behaviour. We always say "women first" but as for me, not in this case. :-) As for your studies, there shouldn't be any hindrance whenever you meet a nice guy, right ? You'll meet several in your life (i hope for you !).

Maybe you could take another friend or two? That way you get to go and maybe have fun but then you've got those friends there just in case.

First of all, wait and see how he behaves during your outing. Maybe he'll like you, you don't know it yet. If he does, you'll only have to make yourself understood and I assume he'll know what to do. If you're only a friend to him, you'll also see it. You'll feel offended if you show him your feeling whereas you're only a good friend for him. Besides, in that case you've much chance not to see him again. The best is to wait and see his behaviour. We always say "women first" but as for me, not in this case. :-) As for your studies, there shouldn't be any hindrance whenever you meet a nice guy, right ? You'll meet several in your life (i hope for you !).

so it means that i should go to the concert = meet him?... :thinking:

i know i must wait, and i'll try to be calm (in case that i finally will go), but you know, the music of the artist, it will make special, and i fear i will misunderstand his behaviour whatever it will be.

 

may be i just had already built myself a castle about it all, and what i really fear is to see that i'm mistaken since the begin, and so that he is just a nice guy that wants to share some hobbies/time, and have some nice good time. sure that i should take it more calmy and let it goes on by itself, and try not to mind how it will end, may i just meet the best person ever, may be with time it turns to some more stronger things, who knows... but if so.. oh well i think that i had 6 weeks to be here, and it will be harmful if i have to go when some :heart: thing is to 'born' between us...

 

btw what do you mean about 'women first'? :uhoh:

 

and may be the problem is that i had been thinking (unvoluntary) too much about it (which it involves to have hopes and fears about it).

 

I fear that for the fears that i have i won't go and i will always regret had made that decition.

 

Maybe you could take another friend or two? That way you get to go and maybe have fun but then you've got those friends there just in case.

there's another concert soon (begining of May), on another place, and i don't know if he will go, but i'm sure that people from here (Erasmus people) will attend it (for the festival, not for the artists). If he would go there too, it would be better. But the problem is that i feel that he is convinced that i will go to that one on this saturday, which i'm not sure if i will attend, as i feel that is a bit 'too soon' to do that...

You don't have to be scared. Feel free to do as you feel like. You may have a boyfriend as only a good friend. Time will tell. As "women first" I mean when you and a man enter or go out of somewhere (a building for instance), the woman go out of it or enter the building first as the guy is supposed to be polite :laugh3:. It's an example. If you go to your outing with other friends too, this guy will probably do nothing to express his feelings if he's got some towards you. In any case, if you're only a friend to him, even if there will be two of you at the concert, he'll do nothing either. Just open your eyes to guess what his feelings are. :shocked2: I wish you good luck, my friend.

:stunned: he is online now

 

(each time i let he opens the convo not me.. you know).

 

he is telling me about his work... and poor him he has a feet hurted..

 

which makes me think about, how he can drive well with a feet hurted :thinking: :uhoh:

You don't have to be scared. Feel free to do as you feel like. You may have a boyfriend as only a good friend. Time will tell. As "women first" I mean when you and a man enter or go out of somewhere (a building for instance), the woman go out of it or enter the building first as the guy is supposed to be polite :laugh3:. It's an example. If you go to your outing with other friends too, this guy will probably do nothing to express his feelings if he's got some towards you. In any case, if you're only a friend to him, even if there will be two of you at the concert, he'll do nothing either. Just open your eyes to guess what his feelings are. :shocked2: I wish you good luck, my friend.

oh yes i had understood now.. i hope that if i met him, he won't be the kind of person that is also a hugger, it will confuse me even more..

 

thanks for the wishes.. you are right, i think i should take it calmy and see it just a as a 'probably' friend, just that but, today everything reminds me of him (something so weird as i really don't know him :uhoh:) and keep my eyes open to see how he acts and stuff. :D

Maybe you could take another friend or two? That way you get to go and maybe have fun but then you've got those friends there just in case.

 

 

I agree with Mimi...if you go with him this time take at least one friend with you...if you only know him over the internet I think it is too dangerous to go alone with him to this concert since you don't really know him.

 

Stop worrying about it so much! You'll make yourself sick over it:cry: