..but I don't care right now....

 

 

my nerves are just fucked up.

 

uni stuff is killing me, I have to find a job...well yes and now I got to know something that made me loose my words, although it shouldn't.

..

 

so, there is this ex-friend of mine. We used to hang out a lot (at uni, at parties and all that stuff...)

And there is my best-friend who used to be her friend, too. And there is her ex-boyfriend....

 

so far so good.

 

 

Let's got some months back. My best-friend is still together with her boyfriend and we used to go out all together. We were friends who had their fun. Until it changed. This now ex-friend suddenly knew more about my best-friend's boyfriend than she did. They went out together a lot. But my best-friend was not really jealous, because her boyfriend always used to backbite about this girl>'s look when he was with my best-friend. And ex-friend kept talking about him when we met without him. So, everything ended with th fact that the boyfriend hurt my best-friend a lot. We ended the friendship with this friend and finally the couple split up. My best-friend was th one who said she doesn't want to be together with him anymore. and he stills keeps saying he wants to meet her to talk to her....and he still loves her blablabla....

 

so now I stalkd her on german facebook. There was a message by a girl who is a good friend of the guy, saying: Hey there, I hope you two got back to Bonn safely. Wednesday evening was really really nice.....blabla..."

 

we are on holidays. He lives maybe more than 300 km away from her...so, they met. Maybe they are even together a thing I just can't imagine....

 

me and my best-friend actually shouldn't care about this, but well I don't know how to put my feelings about this in words...I can't describe the whole situation properly here, so I guess you guys can't understand me.....but it's like in a film or something like that....I don't know...

 

 

everything is so strange currently....wow this must be life!

Yeah, life gets a little messed up and confused sometimes. Just remember you can always come here and talk an d ask for advice and I will certainly make it my business to help you in any way I can.:)

Awww I'm sorry, Julia! It's tough, but I think as long as you just hold on and stay hopeful things will be alright. :nice:

So let me just make sure I'm not confusing my pronouns... Your best friend broke up with her boyfriend, and now he is possibly dating your ex-friend? That's rough. I've never been in this kind of situation before but I know people who have and it's not good news, that's for sure.

[double post? That's not what I asked for!]

Ah Julia that sucks :\

 

We had a similar situation to that a few years ago with my friends and it didn't end up well boo

 

I know how weird it is to see things change so rapidly and then being totally confused and not knowing what's really happening :freak:

my short attention spam won't allow me to read all that ..but yea... it's not a good week for me either :bigcry:

 

i hope all turns out well for you

life can get really down, and really shitty. but like annie said, you gotta keep your head above the water and eventually it'll be better. :)

Aww Julia, that sucks. :(

 

However, I advise you to stand by your friend and be there for her even when she thinks she doesn't need you and help her get over the guy. From your post I understood that he's possibly dating her ex-friend or any other girl. That's pretty rude of him - starting to date/flirt with someone so soon after the breakup. But at least your friend doesn't have to stand him anymore! :D

At least your best-friend Ex isn't sleeping with your best-friends sister or something ;)

 

For a second I thought it was something serious :lol:

Aww Julia, that sucks. :(

 

However, I advise you to stand by your friend and be there for her even when she thinks she doesn't need you and help her get over the guy. From your post I understood that he's possibly dating her ex-friend or any other girl. That's pretty rude of him - starting to date/flirt with someone so soon after the breakup. But at least your friend doesn't have to stand him anymore! :D

 

well, we assume that he is dating her....but he says he doesn't. The rude thing is not that he is dating another girl so soon after the break up...the rude thing is that we used to be good friends with this girl...and she lied to us quite a lot...

Both of them are arses if you ask me. :(

Yes most definitely!